Isles in a Dream

Goodnight & farewell #BlueSky 👋 --- I've closed out the tabs on the laptop & am disabling the app as we speak. See ya in February 🖤✨️ #seeyalater

Embracing a label of "disabled" made me more confident in asking for accommodations. I can't get through a full work day in person without suffering in pain.

If you're a chronically ill person, I welcome you to join this identity.

'@apoetismadenotborn' ever check to see if i’m online like how i do with u?

"ever check to see if i’m online like how i do with u?" - Not likely. I use socials for marketing my art. If someone wants to talk to me, they'd need my phone number or to know me irl.

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I'm sure my followers know this, but I'll say it just in case it breaks containment.

When the topic is disability; listen to disabled people.

Trans rights? Listen to trans people.

Racism/ xenophobia? Listen to BIPOC.

Women's issue? Listen to women.

Marginalised people KNOW what's best for US.

'@apoetismadenotborn' What ways of interacting feel natural to you?

"What ways of interacting feel natural to you?" - I would rather someone jump right into conversation with me than dance around the subject or engage in niceties. I don't particularly care for things such as, "Good morning." "I appreciate the hard work you've done."...

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An aerial view of someone's plate of Cuban food sitting on a table. From left to right: rice & black beans, chicken fricasse, batido de trigo, & fried sweet plantains.

Chicken Fricasse, rice & beans, fried plantain, & batido de trigo

Holy. Shit. 🤤

'@apoetismadenotborn' would you say that you are a polite person

"would you say that you are a polite person" - Yes & no. I do my best to think about other people's wants & needs. I do not say things like, "Yes ma'am." "Thank you, sir." or call people by their names. These are societally expected ways of interacting...

#autism #polite
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'@apoetismadenotborn' how many children do you want?

"how many children do you want?" - There are already 3 children tied to our existence. 2 biological children & 1 adopted child. They live with their father. We, as a system, do not want any children.

#family #childless

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This actually makes me fall in love with you more than seeing your perfect booty. Thank you for sharing. 😍🥰😅

'@apoetismadenotborn' ur always late

"ur always late" - Fortunately, I live a life where I'm almost never expected to be anywhere at any specific time. Now, when I DO have to be somewhere you can bet I'm there 40 minutes early because I always overestimate traffic, my time loss, etc. Haha!

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a man in a white shirt and jeans is dancing on a stage . Alt: Napoleon Dynamite does his infamous intepretative dance on the stage.

Tina! You fat lard! Come get your food!

A trans guy is sitting in a green booth. He is wearing a mustard yellow knit sweater with a white fur vest. He is sipping on a trigo shake [Cuban food].

I'm in my Ken era.

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Goals are removed.

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"still mention me when I'm not there?" - In my opinion, the mere mentioning of someone's name is inviting their energy into the room. If I don't want someone around, I do my best not to mention them. Sure, nostalgia captures us all, even the strongest of us...
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Thank you! 🫶

You're gonna look great! 🫶😅😍

I'm glad to hear it! We're currently working on maintaining a propped up position through the whole night because that's how you have to sleep through recovery. It's kinda freaking me out how much better we're sleeping in this position, ha!

good gosh @luciddreamrr.bsky.social are you TRYING to make me fall in love or what?!? 😉😏

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NOOO! I hope you're able to catch a 'lil nap later to make up for it!

FYI...
CostCo has a 3 pk. pumpkin bread mix that comes with a cream cheese icing for approximately $6
Trader Joes pumpkin bread [📸 here] is close to the same price for only ONE box & it DOES NOT come with icing. #costco #themoreyouknow #yourewelcome

is OKAY! However, the MINUTE you realize that your curiosity is making them uncomfortable... STOP! Would you want to talk about your bodily functions? Again, probably not. So, don't expect your friend to want to either. --- Okay, go out there & be a GOOD ally. #ally #trans #lgbtqia+ #ftm

want to be friends with someone if they told you that who you were becoming isn't who you should be? Probably not, right? So, don't be that guy to your trans friend. At least, if you want to go on being their friend. --- Now, I want to say being curious about the changes someone is going thru ⬇️5️⃣

out who they were always meant to be. They are having to sort through feelings towards the people who raised them to be the OPPOSITE person than who they actually were. --- What do you think it does to them to realize their current friends don't want them to be their true selves either? Would you ⬇️4️⃣

slighted by your change. To be honest, there are parts of me that see this statement & feel guilty. --- THAT'S NOT HEALTHY!!! CHANGE IS GOOD. --- Change isn't only good, it's a guarantee of transition. Someone who is trans is having to completely deprogram the way there were taught to be & figure ⬇️3️⃣

are given a chance to share how they feel without their face/name attached, they often go with the blank statement... "you changed." --- I could just be feeling defensive. [It's possible, it has happened before] But, I personally see this statement as negative. As if, the person saying it feels ⬇️2️⃣