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A First-Timer’s Journey and Experience at Desire Pearl. (Part 4: Sun, Scandals, and Sweet Surprises) Elise and I woke up earlier than expected, but it was totally worth it. The weather was absolutely perfect. The sun was shining, the air was already warm, a few lazy clouds drifted by, and a soft b…

Just dropped the latest chapter of our Desire Pearl adventure. There was sun, spice and a few sweet surprises and let’s just say the hot tub wasn’t the only thing that was wet & steamy.

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#DesirePearl #lifestyle #clothingoptional #CouplesTravel #SpicyAdventures

A First-Timer’s Journey and Experience at Desire Pearl. (Part 3: Not just another day at the pool) Our third morning at Desire Pearl greeted us with an overcast sky and with a stronger than expected breeze, but that wasn’t about to put a damper on our mood. From our balcony, we could already see…

Our third morning at Desire Pearl started with seaweed and a cloudy sky… and ended with first kisses, and unexpected emotions.

Read Part 3 of our trip report: aswingandakiss.com/2025/04/04/a...
#DesireResorts #ClothingOptional #CouplesRetreat
#pearl
#lifestyle

A First-Timer’s Journey and Experience at Desire Pearl. (Part 3: Not just another day at the pool) Our third morning at Desire Pearl greeted us with an overcast sky and with a stronger than expected breeze, but that wasn’t about to put a damper on our mood. From our balcony, we could already see…

Our third morning at Desire Pearl started with seaweed and a cloudy sky… and ended with first kisses, and unexpected emotions.

Read Part 3 of our trip report: aswingandakiss.com/2025/04/04/a...
#DesireResorts #ClothingOptional #CouplesRetreat
#pearl
#lifestyle

I feel like I'm hanging by a noose, please hand me a gallon of cranberry juice.

You both truly have a great podcast. I know I have learned a lot about the LS for listening over the years.

A First-Timer’s Journey and Experience at Desire Pearl. (Part 2: Naked Firsts, New Friends & Mini-Beers) Welcome back! It’s the morning of day two at Desire Pearl. We woke up on our own terms, which is something that rarely happens at home since we’re usually jolted awake by either a cat landing on ou…

Day 2 @ Desire Pearl: Pushing boundaries, making friends, & discovering mini-beers shots. From first-time naked adventures to late-night fun in the hot tub this trip just keeps getting better!
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#DesirePearl #SpicyGetaway #TravelAdventures #pearl #adultfun #desire

A First-Timer’s Journey and Experience at Desire Pearl. (Part 2: Naked Firsts, New Friends & Mini-Beers) Welcome back! It’s the morning of day two at Desire Pearl. We woke up on our own terms, which is something that rarely happens at home since we’re usually jolted awake by either a cat landing on ou…

Day 2 @ Desire Pearl: Pushing boundaries, making friends, & discovering mini-beers shots. From first-time naked adventures to late-night fun in the hot tub this trip just keeps getting better!
aswingandakiss.com/2025/03/31/a...

#DesirePearl #SpicyGetaway #TravelAdventures #pearl #adultfun #desire

A First-Timer’s Journey and Experience at Desire Pearl. (Part 1) Hello there, wonderful readers! No, we haven’t disappeared or abandoned our blog. We’ve just been busy with normal vanilla life and, unfortunately, we haven’t had anything spicy to report. That mig…

Day one at Desire Pearl: Sun, fun, nakedness, and some very interesting first impressions! ☀️🔥 Check out my review/trip report for all the spicy details—you won’t want to miss this! aswingandakiss.com/2025/03/26/a... #DesirePearl #SpicyAdventures #pearl #lifestyle #desire

A First-Timer’s Journey and Experience at Desire Pearl. (Part 1) Hello there, wonderful readers! No, we haven’t disappeared or abandoned our blog. We’ve just been busy with normal vanilla life and, unfortunately, we haven’t had anything spicy to report. That mig…

Day one at Desire Pearl: Sun, fun, nakedness, and some very interesting first impressions! ☀️🔥 Check out my review/trip report for all the spicy details—you won’t want to miss this! aswingandakiss.com/2025/03/26/a... #DesirePearl #SpicyAdventures #pearl #lifestyle #desire

Diary of a recovering people pleaser We’ve had this blog for what, six months now? And in that time I’ve said a lot of things. I don’t need goals, I said. Living in the moment is best, I said. I’m getting soooo…

I get so busy trying to please everyone else, I sometimes forget to RSVP to my own needs. Time to change that—read about the start of my new journey prioritizing me and my husband instead of everyone else aswingandakiss.com/2025/02/17/d... #PeoplePleasingRecovery

Diary of a recovering people pleaser We’ve had this blog for what, six months now? And in that time I’ve said a lot of things. I don’t need goals, I said. Living in the moment is best, I said. I’m getting soooo…

I get so busy trying to please everyone else, I sometimes forget to RSVP to my own needs. Time to change that—read about the start of my new journey prioritizing me and my husband instead of everyone else aswingandakiss.com/2025/02/17/d... #PeoplePleasingRecovery

Just rediscovered this blog and I have been hooked to the point I need to force myself to stop reading since it's now 4:30 in morning. Hot and great writing.

@katesloan.com I imagine you and Billy don’t always hear how much your work is appreciated. But I want you to know that your content has made a real difference for me over the years. Your podcast has been something I’ve truly valued. I just wanted to take a moment to saythank you both.

It's Friday and my heart is racing and my skin is glistening with sweat.

Am I involved in a threesome, orgy or I'm riding the exercise bike and hate watching Gossip Girls because of... Kids?

Yes. Yes it's the bike option. Though I may take a nice long shower afterwards

How am I just now learning about the theory that Piano Man was about Billy Joel playing in a gay bar? First Captain Jack wasn’t about Jack Daniels, and now this? Mind blown.

#til #pianoman #theory

A Swing and a Kiss The sexy adventures of a midlife couple

It’s Friday! You could doomscroll through all the bad news… or you could dive into something much more fun and a whole lot sexier. Your weekend escape starts here: aswingandakiss.com

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I figured, but it's a useless fact that I breakout every now and then.

How to Send Text Messages Using an Email Address [2025 Update] Many people are completely unaware that almost every mobile company has an email address for texting that you can use your own email address to send texts.

I haven't done this in a long time, but I used to text my wife's phone through my email. You need to know the phone provider of the person you are messaging though. www.dialmycalls.com/blog/send-te...).

Sex bloggers are like fairies. You need to clap (share our posts) or we die (shut down our blogs because we can no longer afford to continue writing).

Balance is everything. Balance is everything. Especially when you’re managing marriage, kids, work, vanilla friends, and spicy friends—both seasoned and fresh. It’s a juggling act that can teeter out of control if you’re…

Balance is everything—whether it’s life, love, the force, or tacos (always get the guac). 🥑 In our latest post, we dive into the juggling act of the LS, navigating pace, preferences, and priorities. Come laugh, learn, & maybe relate. 🌟 #LifestyleBalance #lifestyle aswingandakiss.com/2025/01/27/b...

All About Gags by Elisa2B I just can't shut up about today's amazi---MMPH!!! :D A huge thank you to Elisa2B for this fun and excited introduction to Gags! A super handy and useful tool for any of you looking to extend your be...

Do you like gags? Or are you just curious about them? The good folks at @ohjoysextoy.bsky.social have a sweet and sexy strip up about the delightful comforts of being gagged.

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Question for everyone: If you had a blog sharing your adventures in the LS but kept it vague about others, when would you mention it to a new couple? Right away? Second date? Later?

#ls #lifestyle #swinger #swinging #question

Balance is everything. Balance is everything. Especially when you’re managing marriage, kids, work, vanilla friends, and spicy friends—both seasoned and fresh. It’s a juggling act that can teeter out of control if you’re…

Balance is everything—whether it’s life, love, the force, or tacos (always get the guac). 🥑 In our latest post, we dive into the juggling act of the LS, navigating pace, preferences, and priorities. Come laugh, learn, & maybe relate. 🌟 #LifestyleBalance #lifestyle aswingandakiss.com/2025/01/27/b...

It is a great look and thanks for sharing. I hope it boosts your mood for the rest of the day.

I have been listening to yours and others for years and years.

Welcome to the platform. Love the layout of your blog. Will have to take some time to read especially your review of desire to see how it matches our experience as newbs

You look wonderful in that dress especially since your hair and dress are totally match. Stockings are always a great surprise bonus

That's what she said! Seriously though, forgot about epiphany.

It's still part of the 12 days of Christmas which goes until tomorrow, January 5.

I came downstairs & saw my wife on her phone. "Who are u texting?" I asked.

"Nobody! Just checking winter storm warnings," she said, showing me her screen.

I apologized… until a notification popped up: Weatherman69: "I’m gonna hit u with 8inchs tonight & leave u w/ a flood." She bolted upstairs.