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@datchubbybtch.bsky.social

She / they - adhd - bpd- s.a.d - anxiety - artist/crafter - nature lover - mom - wife - future social worker - advocate of change

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Sunrise

Sunrise

Sunset on a lake

Sunset on a lake

I accept you for who you are, no matter who that may be. No matter where you are. I love you endlessly. From sunrise to sunset and back around again.

29.10.2025 13:18 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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Every #system or person I had #faith in or trusted to help or save me has #failed me but hey, the #sunrise is still pretty.. its probably the #pollution and the #dying planet. #fuckitall

17.10.2025 06:10 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

My husband under estimates himself, I just say silly things and he runs with it.

13.10.2025 02:45 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Dooood youre so sweet like damn. You've helped me get through so many hard moments(today Included) I adore you and all of the ideas we come up with!!

13.10.2025 01:59 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
Warp Drive Into Love: A disillusioned starship captain takes on an alien POW to save her life, challenging the line between human failing, manufactured consent, and necessity in this #darkromance #militaryscifi.

Warp Drive Into Love: A disillusioned starship captain takes on an alien POW to save her life, challenging the line between human failing, manufactured consent, and necessity in this #darkromance #militaryscifi.

Warp Drive Into Love: A disillusioned starship captain takes on an alien POW to save her life, challenging the line between human failing, manufactured consent, and necessity in this #darkromance #militaryscifi. #DVpit

08.10.2025 15:41 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 1    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

@simonsfolly.bsky.social
#goals

22.09.2025 17:43 β€” πŸ‘ 2    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

You always go first! Sometimes you gotta wait lol! #womenandchildrenfirst

21.09.2025 15:01 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

My heart ❀️

19.09.2025 23:53 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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I #stole your #wish this year and Im setting my #Intentions with the #universe and any #power greater than myself #willing to #help. I ask that you find #safety, that you find #happiness. Happy #birthday sweet girl. I #love you and your sister #allthewayforevernomatterwhat
#daughters #abuse

19.09.2025 18:44 β€” πŸ‘ 3    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
"So we are here to see the box? I get the feeling that the nothing part was important but I cant get why?" Jake asked. 
"Well," Emma 18 drew a deep breath, "This object contains true nothing. There aren't any particles, any space, any time, It doesn't contain anything of a universe, it doesn't contain the lack of a universe or what's outside of universes. There is truly nothing in the box." 
Bea opened her mouth, closed it, then opened it again. "And this is a source of great magical power?"
"Its not magic, but it is power." Sarge answered, "and if someone like him got his hands on it, we’d all be dead."
Lep laughed again. "While this is a novel item of great power, if the Saurothrop required this to defeat creatures as weak as you, we would have either invented it or perished."

"So we are here to see the box? I get the feeling that the nothing part was important but I cant get why?" Jake asked. "Well," Emma 18 drew a deep breath, "This object contains true nothing. There aren't any particles, any space, any time, It doesn't contain anything of a universe, it doesn't contain the lack of a universe or what's outside of universes. There is truly nothing in the box." Bea opened her mouth, closed it, then opened it again. "And this is a source of great magical power?" "Its not magic, but it is power." Sarge answered, "and if someone like him got his hands on it, we’d all be dead." Lep laughed again. "While this is a novel item of great power, if the Saurothrop required this to defeat creatures as weak as you, we would have either invented it or perished."

I guess I can either have a week full of Dr appointments, or I can get some #writing done, but not both. Started ch4(of 12) today #wordcount 717

How much trouble could a #BoxOfNothing be for our crew?

#scifi #scifiadventure #scifiauthor #scifinovel #scifibook #ancientaliens #writer #wipsnip

01.09.2025 18:43 β€” πŸ‘ 6    πŸ” 1    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
Sarge slid back toward a pillar as more than a dozen weapon blasts chased him backwards. 
"They are in!" He shouted to no one in particular. 
Emma 18 stood staring, unmoved. She slowly drifted her hand back and forth, and seemed to be able to at least partially control the reflections.  She was intensely searching for something, but Jake couldn't figure out what. 
A burst flashed from her position.  Burning rock didn't fly away, but a splatter of carbon based viscera.

Sarge slid back toward a pillar as more than a dozen weapon blasts chased him backwards. "They are in!" He shouted to no one in particular. Emma 18 stood staring, unmoved. She slowly drifted her hand back and forth, and seemed to be able to at least partially control the reflections. She was intensely searching for something, but Jake couldn't figure out what. A burst flashed from her position. Burning rock didn't fly away, but a splatter of carbon based viscera.

Been to exhausted after the last few sessions, but ch4(of12) is done, total #wordcount of 21830

What do you think Emma18 was looking for in her reflection on the #BoxOfNothing? Will she find it?

#scifi #scifiadventure #scifiauthor #scifinovel #scifibook #ancientaliens #writer #wipsnip

10.09.2025 18:13 β€” πŸ‘ 5    πŸ” 1    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

I've read a lot of articles and have yet to understand what makes a novel #upmarket.

Maybe I'm more an #engineer than an #author, but it sounds like its an opinion, not something the #writer did on purpose.

Does that mean #WarpDriveIntoLove is an #upmarket #darkromance #militaryscifi novel too?

11.09.2025 19:51 β€” πŸ‘ 3    πŸ” 1    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0
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Editing is a very important part of the publishing process; from making sure the story flows well to ensuring the final product is error-free and formatted correctly. I offer a wide range of editing services to make your manuscript as perfect as possible.
www.naomischmidtediting.com

16.09.2025 18:01 β€” πŸ‘ 2    πŸ” 2    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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With #sobriety comes #clarity. Sometimes, that #hurts. #Feeling #alone and #isolated.

Picture of the #midwest #sky
#suburban #nature

18.09.2025 18:00 β€” πŸ‘ 5    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

I Did I miss a few things and opt out of a few things, yes. Did I get excited about silly things that brightened my otherwise shitty day ? Also yes. I am 110% sure you got hype when I said you dont *have* to go. You could have gone instead and done the chore.

09.09.2025 01:51 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0
Blue,orange and peach sunset with a tree line silhouette and whispey clouds

Blue,orange and peach sunset with a tree line silhouette and whispey clouds

Blue,orange and peach sunset with a tree line silhouette and whispey clouds

Blue,orange and peach sunset with a tree line silhouette and whispey clouds

From a while ago, went on a drive.
#sunset #sky #nature #midwest

08.09.2025 12:51 β€” πŸ‘ 4    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

You gotta post finished product pics of your new place!!

01.09.2025 19:05 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

I kinda love shopping for house items, sometimes even making a wish list or registry and just going to look at stuff. Makes the part of my brain that wants to be organized feel better.

01.09.2025 19:00 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

Youre a fucking rock star! It helps me sometimes to remind myself there is an end date to whatever Im doing. Lol

01.09.2025 17:26 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

we had the bright idea to get a bunch of furniture from ikea upon getting a new apt. My husband being the engineer he is had less problems than I did but OMFG I was damn near doing gymnastics putting this stuff together. Also the instructions are not clear, but maybe that's just me....

30.08.2025 17:50 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

Im currently boycotting ikea lol.

30.08.2025 16:57 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

Lol I feel this, moving is so great and the worst all at the same time. Here for you <3

29.08.2025 22:56 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

We should chat lol im around :)

29.08.2025 21:45 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

I used to think I was type A and anxious then I got out of my abusive relationship, got on the correct medications, and now my house is a mess but im not crashing out (as much). I just need to find that happy medium lol. I also was never taught basic life skills, I need a mom to teach me lol

29.08.2025 19:52 β€” πŸ‘ 2    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

Teach me your wayyyyssss!?!?

29.08.2025 19:28 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0
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"My life is like a fart!"
-Clarence (adventure time)

21.08.2025 19:48 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

my husband likes to pat me. He recently told me these pats have no meaning except I love you or its stim. I made up a whole patting language like 3 fast pats he's irritated, 2 fast pats is knock it off. It goes on and on. There is no pat language. He just loves me.
#husband #love #mentalhealth

20.08.2025 18:21 β€” πŸ‘ 2    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

This may seem silly but shitty past relationships and whatever... my husband holds my hand. In the car, in the parking lot, at meetings,at the store literally everywhere. He does this cute little hand squeeze to let me know he has to let go. It makes me feel so loved and cared for.

20.08.2025 18:10 β€” πŸ‘ 3    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0
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My attempt at a (beef) gyro for hubby. I also made dill yogurt sauce. I remembered he liked Greek food so I tried.
I thought it was alright.. definitely the midwest version lol
#dinner #gyro #midwest #cooking
#noob

15.08.2025 03:02 β€” πŸ‘ 3    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

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