No maybe not. 2020 is already becoming a blurβ¦ but I definitely had them first π
16.09.2025 12:16 β π 1 π 0 π¬ 1 π 0@tessathereal.bsky.social
π³οΈβππ³οΈββ§οΈ Lurking in the shadowsβ¦ Still deciding whether I will ever go back to this being online thingβ¦
No maybe not. 2020 is already becoming a blurβ¦ but I definitely had them first π
16.09.2025 12:16 β π 1 π 0 π¬ 1 π 0Totally forgotten. Didnβt you get the leaf earrings on the same trip though ;)
16.09.2025 12:07 β π 1 π 0 π¬ 1 π 0Laura, you donβt get itβ¦ you donβt check it, you move on up before the shit hits the fan. Externalise the cost! π
11.09.2025 14:18 β π 1 π 0 π¬ 0 π 0Stansted was actually fairly chill when I went through last weekend. So youβll be fine. Not even my big metal hoop earrings set the machine off.
05.09.2025 16:57 β π 1 π 0 π¬ 0 π 0My first piece is up on the nightmares of bureaucracy and healthcare as a trans person caught between countries:
www.eurozine.com/trans-nation...
Hey! My friend Emilia has written a piece on the headaches of being an international trans person - which are considerable. Do read and share around!
25.06.2025 16:23 β π 45 π 16 π¬ 0 π 0Good luck tomorrow! π€π
15.06.2025 18:50 β π 1 π 0 π¬ 1 π 0What could possibly go wrong? π€·π»ββοΈ
Well, Iβm pressing thumbsβ¦
And donβt get me started on GRA
06.05.2025 18:29 β π 1 π 0 π¬ 0 π 0Name change catch 22:
To change a uk passport you need documentary evidence you are using your new name.
To get anyone in EU to officially use your new name, you have to show them your new passport :)
Oh no. Did you say something on main?
13.03.2025 18:23 β π 1 π 0 π¬ 1 π 0Aaaandβ¦. End result 4.972%
24.02.2025 00:50 β π 1 π 0 π¬ 1 π 0Same lol
23.02.2025 22:24 β π 1 π 0 π¬ 1 π 0Solidarity to everyone having a meltdown this morning π
Personally, taking comfort from the fact that I already made people mad by existing :)
Gonna bug my colleagues with this.
Also, the same applies to text generation and fact-checking. We are told that we are responsible for checking, but what is the economic incentive for that? As opposed to trying to game it?
And if ai texts are published and used as βreputable sourcesβ by other aiβ¦
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01.10.2024 18:13 β π 1 π 0 π¬ 0 π 0Just a thoughtβ¦ it was a breakthrough for me when I learned that strong feelings are often not about what is happening now, but are emotional memories - we relive the pain we suffered in the past. The situation now just serves as a reminder, a triggerβ¦ you have to constantly observe your own mind :)
27.09.2024 17:38 β π 2 π 0 π¬ 0 π 0You know, there are 4 transitions: social, legal, medical and dealing with all the traumaβ¦ it is v. dangerous to think that successful 1, 2 & 3 will solve 4β¦ people die like that. I almost did.
The only way is to slowly train how to spot and to switch out of ego states like the one youβre in. Cont.
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19.09.2024 16:22 β π 1 π 0 π¬ 1 π 0Yay! π
Hope everythingβs great!?
Enjoy the anticipationβ¦ itβll be fine π
19.08.2024 17:26 β π 1 π 0 π¬ 0 π 0A vending machine in Japan, outside a butcherβs shop, that sells beef 24/7
The small butchers:
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24.06.2024 12:19 β π 1 π 0 π¬ 0 π 0Congratulations to you both! π
06.06.2024 20:14 β π 1 π 0 π¬ 1 π 0More fem jawline and cheeks. Fat redistribution π
28.05.2024 17:44 β π 1 π 0 π¬ 0 π 0Youβre on fire today
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22.02.2024 17:20 β π 1 π 0 π¬ 0 π 0Nahβ¦ After 20 years I still feel connected to the place but Iβve never felt the need to go back
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