Alex

𝘗.𝘗.𝘚.: 𝘪𝘵'𝘴 𝘰𝘣𝘷𝘪𝘰𝘶𝘴𝘭𝘺 𝘢 𝘣𝘪𝘵 𝘥𝘪𝘧𝘧𝘦𝘳𝘦𝘯𝘵 𝘢𝘯𝘥 𝘮𝘰𝘳𝘦 𝘥𝘦𝘭𝘪𝘤𝘢𝘵𝘦 𝘪𝘧 𝘺𝘰𝘶'𝘳𝘦 𝘪𝘯 𝘢 𝘭𝘦𝘢𝘥𝘦𝘳𝘴𝘩𝘪𝘱 𝘳𝘰𝘭𝘦.
𝗕𝘂𝘁 𝘄𝗵𝗮𝘁 𝗱𝗼 𝗬𝗢𝗨 𝘁.𝗵.𝗶.𝗻.𝗸?

𝘗.𝘚.: 𝘐 𝘣𝘦𝘭𝘪𝘦𝘷𝘦 𝘵𝘩𝘢𝘵 𝘧𝘦𝘦𝘥𝘣𝘢𝘤𝘬 𝘪𝘴 𝘢 𝘣𝘪𝘵 𝘭𝘪𝘬𝘦 𝘨𝘪𝘷𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘢𝘥𝘷𝘪𝘤𝘦 𝘰𝘳 𝘩𝘦𝘭𝘱 𝘵𝘰 𝘴𝘰𝘮𝘦𝘰𝘯𝘦: 𝘰𝘯𝘭𝘺 𝘥𝘰 𝘪𝘵 𝘪𝘧 𝘵𝘩𝘦𝘺 𝘢𝘴𝘬 𝘧𝘰𝘳 𝘪𝘵. 𝘌𝘭𝘴𝘦 𝘪𝘵'𝘴 𝘯𝘰𝘵 𝘢 𝘨𝘰𝘰𝘥 𝘪𝘥𝘦𝘢 𝘢𝘯𝘥 𝘪𝘵 𝘸𝘰𝘯'𝘵 𝘩𝘦𝘭𝘱.

And obviously only give feedback about something they can actually do something about.

And not last the most important thing: 𝗳𝗲𝗲𝗱𝗯𝗮𝗰𝗸 𝗮𝗹𝘄𝗮𝘆𝘀 𝗰𝗼𝗻𝗰𝗲𝗿𝗻𝘀 𝘁𝗵𝗲 𝘄𝗼𝗿𝗸 (or a behaviour) of someone and is NEVER about the person. It's not personal: it shouldn't be given or received as such.

It helps you keep kind and whether that feedback is even worth giving.
Or is it YOU who should be giving it.

𝗧𝗼 𝗺𝗮𝗸𝗲 𝘀𝘂𝗿𝗲 𝗶𝘁 𝗶𝘀 𝗛𝗲𝗹𝗽𝗳𝘂𝗹 𝗳𝗼𝗿 𝘁𝗵𝗲 𝗽𝗲𝗿𝘀𝗼𝗻 𝗿𝗲𝗰𝗲𝗶𝘃𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝗶𝘁.

How do you handle giving feedback? T.H.I.N.K before you speak.

𝗧𝗵𝗶𝘀 𝗶𝘀 𝗼𝗻𝗲 𝗼𝗳 𝘁𝗵𝗲 𝗯𝗲𝘀𝘁 𝗳𝗿𝗮𝗺𝗲𝘄𝗼𝗿𝗸𝘀 𝗜 𝘀𝗮𝘄 𝘀𝗼 𝗳𝗮𝗿.
It helps you think more deeply about what you'll say and why [ = to what Purpose ].

It's fascinating how physical exercise can make you think clear.

Like solving system problems while weightlifting

Systems Engineering is the secret sauce to making sure your systems stay optimized & your costs stay in check. #TeamSystemsEngineering

Life consists not in holding good cards but in playing those you hold well.
-- Josh Billings

Looking outside, it's raining. Bleak.

This is a time for movies and sex.

Why are you still here?

If you think you understand quantum mechanics you don't understand quantum mechanics.
If you think you understand systems engineering you don't understand Systems Engineering!

Could that be true??

Do you understand?? ..

What’s a Systems Engineer

What's a System Engineer??
I wondered that for a decade. Then I distilled it for my own situation.

Then it created my job ..
blog.toth.al/2012/07/what...

I told you this would happen!

Antisocial swan removed from Stratford-upon-Avon Reggie the swan caused disruption on the river for months, but will start a new life in Devon.

Terrorist Swan Captured in Stratford

www.bbc.co.uk/news/article...

The world is changing with or w/o us. Being static = going back!

Changing might get you back too.

But makes it more probable to move fwd in the RIGHT direction. The choice is yours!

Why did you choose to live where you live?

The world is not that the world is.
The world is what YOU are. It conforms to how you see it.

So you can #engineer your life, and your outcomes.
You expect good things, you'll get them.
You expect bad things, you'll get them.

Are you still here?

Identify the right boundary – of problem, solution, stakeholders, team – to successfully deliver against the real need #BeASystemsEngineer

No place like home! ...

Going hooome! ...

Should I ever visit Japan again?
Will you?

Careful who you're flying with

Common sense is not a gift !!
Being balanced is a hassle because you attract all those who want to vent and look for validation. They think it's unfair you're your own man and try to drag you down too.

They don't know the effort you put in to get there!

They don't know that I can see things

Next time will be much better

Just get started..

conclusion? what should I conclude when this is the treatment you get even when flying Business Class??