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Latest posts by haremenot.bsky.social on Bluesky

I've been thinking a lot about how I really hate the implication that AI skeptics are luddites because most of the AI skeptics I know are relatively tech savvy while the biggest AI champions I know can barely use email

14.08.2025 11:56 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 601    ๐Ÿ” 170    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 21    ๐Ÿ“Œ 20

I love it when assholes beg for grace and compassion from the very people whose abuse and discrimination they champion. It's really cool and normal and not at all enraging.

14.08.2025 13:40 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 10    ๐Ÿ” 3    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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Gareth Sheridan

14.08.2025 11:23 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 739    ๐Ÿ” 209    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 11    ๐Ÿ“Œ 5

Some cis people might think John Boyne's opinion sounds reasonable. He says that trans women's rights should come second to cis women's rights when they conflict.

The problem is the "conflict" with cis women's rights is that a small number of cis women hate trans women and don't want to see them.

14.08.2025 10:46 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 831    ๐Ÿ” 156    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 24    ๐Ÿ“Œ 7
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COMFORT & FEAR OF CONFLICT This page explores our cultural assumption ย that I or we (or the ones in formal and informal power) have a right to comfort, which means we cannot tolerate conflict, particularly open conflict. This.....

I've been spending a lot of time thinking about how "right to comfort" is a tenet of white supremacy. Someone's comfort should not supersede someone else's rights. This includes the right to exist in public.

www.whitesupremacyculture.info/comfort--fea...

14.08.2025 12:07 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 2    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

My Chemical Friendship

14.08.2025 00:12 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

youtu.be/-_S9Qd3FYWA?...

The Christian mlm scheme.

12.08.2025 22:37 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Sometimes I wonder if my fundie upbringing was really as culty as I've built it up to be in my head.

And then I remember the lyrics to literally any song from my childhood. Definitely culty.

12.08.2025 22:37 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

I played that, and my cat started looking around for the source of the meows lol

12.08.2025 20:14 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
Tony Sopranoโ€™s mom

Tony Sopranoโ€™s mom

what is a Labubu

11.08.2025 19:40 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 104    ๐Ÿ” 8    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 6    ๐Ÿ“Œ 1

My kid willingly listens to history books/podcasts and so Iโ€™ve been educating them about the rise of Fox News, the culture it created, its roots in McCarthyism, and how itโ€™s all on steroids now. They are shameless, so you canโ€™t win by being โ€œreasonableโ€ is what Iโ€™m trying to impart.

11.08.2025 18:40 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 6    ๐Ÿ” 3    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Not to mention, I am incredibly hesitant to give the government the power to control my car speed, because I cannot imagine a situation where they would not hand it over to the police and I do not trust the police.

11.08.2025 17:35 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 3    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

The phrase โ€œ parents have a legitimate concern about integration of races in schools and as a party, we havenโ€™t done a very good job of listening to those concerns.โ€ would shock and offend I would hope. A similar statement about trans kids should also shock and offend.

11.08.2025 12:10 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 2151    ๐Ÿ” 626    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 22    ๐Ÿ“Œ 17

BBC International Editor Jeremy Bowen has confirmed that the entire Al Jazeera team in Gaza City has been killed.

10.08.2025 22:33 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 12424    ๐Ÿ” 9981    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 637    ๐Ÿ“Œ 1666
mamdani: we should improve society somewhat
cuomo: yet i am a hypocrite sex pest! curious!

mamdani: we should improve society somewhat cuomo: yet i am a hypocrite sex pest! curious!

cuomo's campaign strategy, from what i can tell

09.08.2025 21:51 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 4520    ๐Ÿ” 857    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 20    ๐Ÿ“Œ 9

All kinds of cis people act all kinds of ways and never once does anyone say "Oh, this cis person isn't representing cis people well, they're not to make others more likely to treat cis people with respect."

The reason trans advocacy exists is because trans people aren't just people in your eyes.

09.08.2025 20:06 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 251    ๐Ÿ” 37    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 2    ๐Ÿ“Œ 1
Blue sky post: There are a few accounts on here that are definitely trans people and whose actions probably make it harder to get people to treat trans people with respect & dignity.

Blue sky post: There are a few accounts on here that are definitely trans people and whose actions probably make it harder to get people to treat trans people with respect & dignity.

The problem is that no trans person's behavior should reflect poorly (or well) on any of the rest of us. That's what prejudice is - to prejudge people based on their group.

09.08.2025 20:01 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 429    ๐Ÿ” 70    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 11    ๐Ÿ“Œ 5
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to survival

16.10.2023 17:36 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 8821    ๐Ÿ” 2630    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 40    ๐Ÿ“Œ 15

Medicare for All - "That's socialism!"

Social Security - "That's socialism!"

Debt free education - "That's socialism!"

Universal childcare - "That's socialism!"

$1 trillion in tax cuts for the richest 1%...

"That's just how it is."

09.08.2025 16:00 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 17906    ๐Ÿ” 5933    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 549    ๐Ÿ“Œ 221

Jokes on them Iโ€™m trans AND ugly

09.08.2025 13:34 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 26    ๐Ÿ” 4    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

there are so many open layups and somehow dems canโ€™t make them. republicans are literally pulling cancer treatment from children and they canโ€™t message on that??? like what the fuck are we doing here

09.08.2025 06:36 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 5747    ๐Ÿ” 1324    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 185    ๐Ÿ“Œ 83

Ok this is actually hilarious

09.08.2025 15:08 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

The reason UBI, wealth taxes and social security is relentlessly attacked by billionaires, millionaires and the media is that the first two think that money exists for them and them alone and nobody else deserves access to money for leisure or, increasingly, for living.

08.08.2025 19:44 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 28    ๐Ÿ” 17    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Genuinely, even capitalists should be against this bullshit bc I have no fucking clue how many cumulative weeks of work transphobia has cost me, just from having to take time off or being distracted at work due to anxiety.

08.08.2025 23:15 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Mamdani is going to sweep this guy by double digits

08.08.2025 23:01 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 102    ๐Ÿ” 8    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 5    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

it is not about sports. it has never been about sports. it is about banning trans people from public life entirely AT BEST, and at worst, forcing them into situations that will endanger their lives. this is why we don't play along with the "just asking questions" sports bullshit

08.08.2025 18:15 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 2737    ๐Ÿ” 787    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 18    ๐Ÿ“Œ 10

If you cannot go to the bathroom at work, you cannot go to work. If you cannot go to the bathroom at school, you cannot go to school. This effectively bans transgender people from a broad swath of public life in the UK

08.08.2025 17:00 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 3568    ๐Ÿ” 1436    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 54    ๐Ÿ“Œ 32

At the start of the year I saw a creator on tiktok who invited people to very specifically imagine a day 20 years from now where things are good, they are safe and happy and have what they need. I found it really profound. This is different than what you mean here but I think about that often.

08.08.2025 02:11 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 59    ๐Ÿ” 6    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

My biggest concern about Trump is that he kills our ability to dream.

Trump, tech, news outlets like NYT they collude to limit our ideas of what's possible

08.08.2025 01:57 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 378    ๐Ÿ” 71    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 7    ๐Ÿ“Œ 8

As cynical as I feel constantly, I practice imagining a better world because I want to have a goal to work towards

08.08.2025 14:00 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 3    ๐Ÿ” 2    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

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