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Amateur TTRPG designer & fanboy, telling stories focused on the queer & neurodivergent experience. Now with 100% more monsters! Check me out in other places: https://linktr.ee/damsels_n_dice

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olofahere

Do not punish the behaviour you want to see

I mean, it seems pretty obvious when you put it like that, right?

But how many families, when an introvert sibling or child makes an effort to socialize, snarkily say, "So, you've decided to join us"?

Or when someone does something they've had trouble doing, say, "Why can't you do that all the time?" (Happened to me, too often.)

Or any sentence containing the word "finally".

If someone makes a step, a small step, in a direction you want to encourage, encourage it. Don't complain about how it's not enough. Don't bring up previous stuff. Encourage it.

Because I swear to f cking god there is nothing more soul-killing, more motivation-crushing, than struggling to succeed and finding out that success and failure are both punished.

olofahere Do not punish the behaviour you want to see I mean, it seems pretty obvious when you put it like that, right? But how many families, when an introvert sibling or child makes an effort to socialize, snarkily say, "So, you've decided to join us"? Or when someone does something they've had trouble doing, say, "Why can't you do that all the time?" (Happened to me, too often.) Or any sentence containing the word "finally". If someone makes a step, a small step, in a direction you want to encourage, encourage it. Don't complain about how it's not enough. Don't bring up previous stuff. Encourage it. Because I swear to f cking god there is nothing more soul-killing, more motivation-crushing, than struggling to succeed and finding out that success and failure are both punished.

Goes without saying but especially in ttrpgs, if you see folks doing the stuff you'd like them to do in games

Be it roleplaying serious moments/coming out of their shell, deferring to others so they have a chance, teaming up or heck even trying out new methods of problem solving

Reward that!

06.07.2025 06:42 β€” πŸ‘ 128    πŸ” 43    πŸ’¬ 3    πŸ“Œ 1

my mom taught me there's two kinds of businesses: hot dog stands and art galleries

- hot dog stands protect territory and keep competition off their turf
- art galleries benefit from more adjacent art galleries, cluster together to amplify reach/support

youre an art gallery, not a hot dog stand

04.08.2025 13:01 β€” πŸ‘ 4607    πŸ” 1501    πŸ’¬ 13    πŸ“Œ 58
Pay What You Want TTRPGs III: Digital Vacation

Pay What You Want TTRPGs III: Digital Vacation

There's a bunch of cool games in this pay what you want collection!

I've also personally included my dungeon crawler Bite-Sized Dungeon, my agricultural mech tactics game Leadbellies, and my space gothic A Dance Of Lasers In The Failing Century.

itch.io/b/3178/pay-w...

03.08.2025 14:43 β€” πŸ‘ 10    πŸ” 9    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

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27.07.2025 11:42 β€” πŸ‘ 62    πŸ” 24    πŸ’¬ 6    πŸ“Œ 13

Revenge of the Mixtape Jam is live! Would love to see some 5-song dungeons and some of the other brilliant hacks people have been sharing with me up there.

itch.io/jam/revenge-...

27.07.2025 18:46 β€” πŸ‘ 12    πŸ” 9    πŸ’¬ 2    πŸ“Œ 2

Actually play is like porn:

-Consent and communication prior to recording is paramount

-the best moments tend to be unscripted or from home videos

-You can always tell who's actually having a good time and who's faking it for the camera

-best when there's at least one bear involved

27.07.2025 05:40 β€” πŸ‘ 34    πŸ” 9    πŸ’¬ 5    πŸ“Œ 2

big fan of bone/flesh/blood related elements! ATLA blood bending changed my brain chemistry as a child i fear

15.07.2025 15:39 β€” πŸ‘ 3    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0
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'til it kills us sale by Damsels & Dice A sale by Damsels & Dice, 80% off 'til it kills us

if you're looking for #ttrpg about dark magic, queer rage or mental health & activism, consider checking out 'til it kills us! i've just released a new version with loads of new content, and you can get it for only $1 a copy for the next two weeks :D

itch.io/s/156436/til...

05.07.2025 11:00 β€” πŸ‘ 2    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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'til it kills us sale! by Damsels & Dice A sale by Damsels & Dice, 80% off 'til it kills us

if you saw my game 'til it kills us on @thequeerxp.bsky.social's awesome show, or just love messy urban fantasy, it's on sale! you can get it for just $1 for the next two weeks, so please check it out and earn the milestone rewards πŸ‘€

itch.io/s/152305/til...

01.05.2025 12:07 β€” πŸ‘ 8    πŸ” 6    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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'Til It Kills Us - Finale The QueerXP Β· Episode

Today! It's Here! OMG!

The FINALE of our limited series: 'Til It Kills Us by @damsels-n-dice.bsky.social !

Things are no looking good in Vertel, and our messy, chaotic players tackle BIG emotions, alongside taking one final stand against the newly appointed Mayor.

28.04.2025 17:54 β€” πŸ‘ 8    πŸ” 6    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 3

Hi #Selfpromosaturday! I'm a collage halftone artist looking for work.

12.04.2025 07:38 β€” πŸ‘ 38    πŸ” 23    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 3

so excited to finally hear y'all play! thanks again for playing my game :) everyone should go check these guys out immediately, their stuff is awesome 😍

08.04.2025 20:32 β€” πŸ‘ 3    πŸ” 1    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0
Precognition

if any of that sounds cool, you should check out Precognition and join me for one of my games!

tabletop.events/conventions/...

12.03.2025 13:33 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

then i'll also be running The Mystery of the Genziana Hotel, which is using The Girls of the Genziana Hotel system!

this game is all about feminine horror, pain and rebellion. one of your fellow maids has gone missing, and it's up to you to find her. no one else will help her, after all.

(3/4)

12.03.2025 13:33 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

the first game i'll be running is titled A Party at the End of the World (with my system WHAT TIME WE HAVE LEFT)

with the world ending tonight, will your cast of plucky, drunk teenagers be able to complete their bucket lists before it comes? or will they end up like everyone else?

(2/4)

12.03.2025 13:33 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

any other TTRPG fans looking for some new games should join me at the #Precognition convention this weekend! it's got 3 days of really cool indie games, over 50 in total, run by a bunch of awesome creators and GMs.

and you can try out some of my games!

(1/4)

12.03.2025 13:33 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

my enemies all deal poison damage i fear 😭 but i might be in need of a graphic designer at some point... πŸ‘€

07.03.2025 11:38 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
Table of contents for the game OMEN. Grey and red stripes decorate the page with the titles for each section.

Table of contents for the game OMEN. Grey and red stripes decorate the page with the titles for each section.

A 3D render of a spread from wolves at the lake. There's a zine and 2 red die on dark wooden planks.

A 3D render of a spread from wolves at the lake. There's a zine and 2 red die on dark wooden planks.

A spread from a feast for a sphinx. It depicts a centipede person holding an obsidian spearhead, along with the descriptions of said weapon and the rooms 7 and 8. The colors red and gold adorn the white page.

A spread from a feast for a sphinx. It depicts a centipede person holding an obsidian spearhead, along with the descriptions of said weapon and the rooms 7 and 8. The colors red and gold adorn the white page.

A spread from the goblin mail extras zine. Showing two characters, a mail goblin and a robot made out of mail. The art is black and white and features halftone pictures of stamps.

A spread from the goblin mail extras zine. Showing two characters, a mail goblin and a robot made out of mail. The art is black and white and features halftone pictures of stamps.

Hey gamers, Luna here. I'm a graphic designer for ttrpgs, you can hire me to make your zines cooler, or to kill your enemies with my mind. Unless they deal poison damage, then I'm out. Anyways, you want this. Yes?

04.03.2025 16:20 β€” πŸ‘ 569    πŸ” 243    πŸ’¬ 7    πŸ“Œ 10
Kanaky Solidarity Bundle by Kanaky Solidarity Muloobinba and 24 others Kanaky Solidarity Bundle: 24 items for $10.00

Yo! This City Hates You is part of a fundraising bundle for the Kanak people! We're fundraising to help them with basic necessities like food and other supplies. We've got 20 days left, and we're at $415 out of a goal of $1000!
itch.io/b/2897/kanak...

05.03.2025 03:22 β€” πŸ‘ 4    πŸ” 8    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

i didn't realize NIGHTHAWKS got a critique, it's like my first ever graphic design project lol. as always, Aaron recognizes what's special about the game, and how the art outside the rules text screams as it tries to touch you through the page.

i will continue to produce RPG books that are poems

03.03.2025 17:34 β€” πŸ‘ 34    πŸ” 11    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

I'll end this with a challenge:
If you find yourself saying something is "lazy game design", stop and instead try to specifically describe what is wrong with the game. Why isn't working for you? What did you want to see instead?

Try it!

02.03.2025 17:36 β€” πŸ‘ 45    πŸ” 4    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

just learned an important lesson: re-read everything 5 times before you submit anything anywhere

(i already knew this lesson)
(i forgot)
(had to set up outlook on my shitty laptop to fix the mistake)
(very bad time all around)
(hopefully will be fixed ASAP)

24.02.2025 21:19 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

(can you tell i just ran my game for the first time and am having Feelings about playing a game custom-made for my preferences with a group of people i really care about?)

24.02.2025 10:14 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

sometimes i start to wonder why i'm so passionate about #ttrpgs and then i run a good session, or try out a great new game, or meet someone cool in the community and i remember

ttrpgs are fucking awesome, y'all

24.02.2025 10:14 β€” πŸ‘ 2    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

volunteered as a GM, as this looks incredibly cool! hopefully i'll get the chance to introduce players to a couple games i love.

21.02.2025 18:27 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

A big opportunity for GMs and designers shared by Hodag. Link below to join an online convention. It's open for Indie ttrpg designers to show off your projects.

#ttrpgradar

21.02.2025 06:17 β€” πŸ‘ 8    πŸ” 2    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

not only can you find my games in this bundle but also some incredibly cool stuff! some titles i like/that looked good:
Glitter Hearts
Protect The Child
GRIM
Kiss Me, Bless Me (i'm obsessed with frogs)
Post Apo Calypse
Call 'Em Out
and many more! check it out :3

19.02.2025 18:17 β€” πŸ‘ 3    πŸ” 2    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

If you haven’t listened to this mini-series on The QueerXP, I HIGHLY recommend it. It’s full of everything I love in ttrpg Actual Plays: magic, love, drama, combat, plot twists, and of course soooo much queerness. This series is perfect to listen to on your commute, while folding laundry, etc.

17.02.2025 16:58 β€” πŸ‘ 11    πŸ” 7    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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Tabletop Arts Fund TTRPG Grant Thank you for your interest in the Tabletop Arts Fund Actual TTRPG Grant Program! Please complete the form below to the best of your ability. If you have questions or require assistance, feel free to ...

Alright #TTRPG pals! Submissions are now open for the 2025 TTAF Independent TTRPG Grants! We're looking to help 5-7 indie designers get tabletop projects across the finish line with support for art, editing, and other final touches.

πŸ“Apply Now: tinyurl.com/TTAFGrant2025
πŸ“…Deadline: March 15, 2025

16.02.2025 00:29 β€” πŸ‘ 279    πŸ” 236    πŸ’¬ 7    πŸ“Œ 15
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Community Radio, Second Edition by Thoughtcrime Games An improv TTRPG about a strange, strange place and the community radio station that supports it.

Also, amazed at how fast Community Radio's community copies are going! If you need a community copy, please grab it now! thoughtcrimegames.itch.io/community-ra...

12.02.2025 16:21 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 1    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

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