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Anime/Manga Nerd Ramen Lover GA resident CA born MTG investor (cEDH) ๐Ÿฅท๐Ÿ–ค๐Ÿ’™ Pronouns: He/Him Aries โ™ˆ๏ธ ๐Ÿ No Minors/18+ only ~

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Dudes over thinking 100% of the time when it comes to women and talking to them.

Its me, Im dudes.

09.08.2025 13:57 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Prayers and peace

09.08.2025 13:21 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

100!

09.08.2025 13:21 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
Kink Just Makes sense for ADHD
5 (MORE) WAYS Kink Supports Neurodivergent Mental Health

Ritual and Routine
Many BDSM dynamics involve predictable rituals or repeated patterns, which can be calming for individuals who thrive on consistency and structured routines (including some Autistic people).

Dopamine Regulation
    Activities within kink and BDSM can trigger releases of dopamine, which is often sought after by individuals with ADHD who may have lower baseline dopamine levels.

Intense Sensory Focus
  Impact play or other forms of physical stimulation can help certain people with ADHD or autism center their attention, potentially offering a temporary reprieve from mental distractions.

Managing Emotional Highs and Lows
  After a BDSM session, participants can experience emotional shifts known as 'drop.' Recognizing these shifts (for both tops and bottoms) and planning aftercare is crucial, particularly for people who experience heightened emotional sensitivity.

Reconnecting With One's Body
Autistic individuals may sometimes feel disconnected from their bodies. BDSM can provide guided, mindful physical experiences that encourage body awareness.

Catieosaurus.com

Kink Just Makes sense for ADHD 5 (MORE) WAYS Kink Supports Neurodivergent Mental Health Ritual and Routine Many BDSM dynamics involve predictable rituals or repeated patterns, which can be calming for individuals who thrive on consistency and structured routines (including some Autistic people). Dopamine Regulation Activities within kink and BDSM can trigger releases of dopamine, which is often sought after by individuals with ADHD who may have lower baseline dopamine levels. Intense Sensory Focus Impact play or other forms of physical stimulation can help certain people with ADHD or autism center their attention, potentially offering a temporary reprieve from mental distractions. Managing Emotional Highs and Lows After a BDSM session, participants can experience emotional shifts known as 'drop.' Recognizing these shifts (for both tops and bottoms) and planning aftercare is crucial, particularly for people who experience heightened emotional sensitivity. Reconnecting With One's Body Autistic individuals may sometimes feel disconnected from their bodies. BDSM can provide guided, mindful physical experiences that encourage body awareness. Catieosaurus.com

What's up guys it's part THREE (of many) of my breakdown on how kink can support you if you're neurospicy!๐Ÿ”ฅ

I feel like it's a given to mention dopamine regulation, but did you know that the routine in certain dynamics can be super comforting to have? #kinkjustmakessense

08.08.2025 18:44 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 71    ๐Ÿ” 18    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

We will miss you on 3rd shift but I feel this ๐Ÿ˜ญ๐Ÿ˜ญ๐Ÿ˜ญ

I wanna be normal slightly.

09.08.2025 12:35 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Ay I got another for you, actually 2.

Clevatess and Lord of Mysteries

09.08.2025 12:33 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

We arenโ€™t even aware of the weather here because the administration cut a vital monitoring and reporting agency so that it could be privatized by their preferred โ€œcontractors,โ€ so no. Weโ€™re not aware of this.

Iโ€™m personally sorry you all are being subjected to that.

09.08.2025 09:50 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 8    ๐Ÿ” 7    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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Social Movements Are Physically Reclaiming Spaces to Replace the State More than a way of protest, social movements are occupying spaces to challenge authority and fight against oppression.

"The more people are excluded from effective participation in traditional politics, economic opportunity, maintaining the health of their communities, the more it makes sense to pursue tactics like creating counter-occupations which aim to replace the state. " truthout.org/articles/soc...

09.08.2025 06:06 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 98    ๐Ÿ” 41    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 3    ๐Ÿ“Œ 2
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a man in a suit and red tie is standing in a field of yellow flowers ALT: a man in a suit and red tie is standing in a field of yellow flowers

Hey guys

Just checking in

The EPA and VA just ended federal union contracts yesterday. Other federal agencies are expected to follow suit.

Y'all ready to tear this whole shit to the ground yet?

09.08.2025 11:24 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 4    ๐Ÿ” 4    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

I remember setting in the theater and hearing the music shift and blend. The different decades of black music and dance blending into the party. It was powerful, I felt proud, grateful, and connected.

I care about music a lot, if my uncle was alive Im sure he would have loved it.

09.08.2025 12:25 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

I haven't ever planned to retire.

Like I just always knew this shit was going to fall apart before I got old enough to retire.

At this point I'm not even sure wtf it's gonna look like 6 months from now.

09.08.2025 11:41 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 2    ๐Ÿ” 1    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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People in Los Angeles have been protesting 24 hours for 2 weeks straight and no news outlet is covering it!
8/8/25

09.08.2025 00:33 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 19560    ๐Ÿ” 9606    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 666    ๐Ÿ“Œ 582

He would def say "I heard you niggas were strong!"

09.08.2025 12:19 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Throw a needle at him, he scared of shots ๐Ÿคฃ

09.08.2025 11:58 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 3    ๐Ÿ” 1    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Im at least an 8th level wizard that dabbled in Necromany and Enchantment or Divination magic. Id also have an undead servant what Id take care of like an art project.

09.08.2025 12:18 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Priceless

09.08.2025 05:01 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

*eats Pizza and sees the skyline*

Yall being horny cause the moon full huh?

Must be nice.

09.08.2025 04:08 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Thank you.

08.08.2025 20:55 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

@miq.moe Bold

08.08.2025 20:54 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Nudy Land is just that album. That and Sli'merre

08.08.2025 20:41 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

No, I want a tool box and a garage and a project car cause Im tired of paying mfking people

08.08.2025 20:39 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Getting a call from my YN Buzzin is def what I needed. I aint heard from him and been hoping he has been ok.

08.08.2025 20:16 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Yellow Gray energy

08.08.2025 20:14 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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Sure why not

08.08.2025 20:13 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Lock em up judge. Rule one of nudes/vids. Don't share.

Nudes/Vids are def HIPPA protected.

08.08.2025 20:13 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

They said this how you really be laughin

08.08.2025 20:02 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 2    ๐Ÿ” 1    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 2

Yellow, Gray, Purple

08.08.2025 20:09 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Letโ€™s run the numbers up

08.08.2025 19:48 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 5    ๐Ÿ” 3    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Lol Rome with the suprise shot

08.08.2025 19:59 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 4    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Pure horror

08.08.2025 19:32 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

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