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Chronically Tiffany

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A bit quirky--might be the AuDHD πŸ™‹β€β™€οΈ EDS/POTS. I πŸ’™ rocky beaches, kayaking the nearby marshes, Netflix, and good conversation--nuance makes my day! ExMo. Humanist. Dem πŸ”΅. Bioethicist and advocate by day.

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To be clear, I find this appalling. I share because I think these kinds of stories -that white people provided something of benefit to the enslaved- are still taught and believed far too often. But as religious belief is linked, and education is often shunned, I'm not sure how we break through.

20.08.2025 15:35 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Sadly, some of my ancestors owned plantations and practiced slave ownership. My mother tried to teach me that slavery wasn't always bad--that our ancestors "treated their slaves well" and thus, in return, were greatly loved by them 🀒 She takes great pride in this. She is also a religious fanatic.

20.08.2025 15:35 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0
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This little guy was just hanging out on a lilypad in our fish pond this morning.

14.08.2025 14:45 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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Hugs! It's tough. Mine probably won't be here for long--we are nc & that won't change. I did self-work on the past harms but was surprised when a trauma response bubbled up anyhow. I realized it was the sorrow for what could have been. It's such a sad one to work through, isn't it? Hang in there. πŸ«‚

11.08.2025 16:42 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

Blessings, dude.

10.08.2025 14:45 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Truth? Because I was indoctrinated and used all kinds of mind games on myself to continue believing. "Doubt your doubts" sort of thing. Same as many Christians today.

It became too hard to fool myself anymore. I care too much in truth to pretend "care."

I hope you find the beauty I've discovered.

10.08.2025 14:29 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Weird that you think many of us didn't faithfully attend church, some for decades.

10.08.2025 13:15 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

American Christians likely would have crucified their storied Jesus.

They complain about "xtian," mistakenly thinking it removes Christ, but they have removed him for being too "weak and woke" all by their little sad selves.

10.08.2025 13:03 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Truth be told, I think many of today's Christians would have crucified their own savior.

02.08.2025 13:53 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 1    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

This can be a normal database entry when an inmate has been recently moved and typically updates within 2-3 days. Fingers crossed 🀞

01.08.2025 17:22 β€” πŸ‘ 2    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Wonderful! πŸ«–

24.07.2025 16:58 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

I knew someone who spent more on his dog than on his (then) fiance's engagement ring, spent loads to upgrade his Jeep & buy games- while forcing her to eat Ramen (w/ a gluten allergy), & generally limited her spending. She also brought home an income. He didn't get it when she escaped the marriage.

24.07.2025 16:29 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

That's tough 😞 If it's joint inflammation... I've tried it all and stumbled on a goldenrod and wormwood salve that works amazingly well (for me at least!) but you'll not likely find it commercially and will need to make it yourself. Kinesiology tape helps me, too. I'd ❀️ to hear what works for you!

24.07.2025 15:55 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

After some chronic symptoms worsened and new ones emerged, I ordered a thyroid test and discovered subclinical hypothyroidism (not a surprise). Did you know that you can self-monitor with lab testing, as well as self-manage (i.e., simple cases)? I'm shocked at how quickly changes are occurring! πŸ¦‹

20.07.2025 19:48 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

What a difference it makes, right? I didn't realize how amazing life could be until I left. I'm slowly finding people who share my values and am constantly surprised that I actually *fit* (in my solitude-loving way) with others... that I don't have to constantly fight against the grossness.

12.07.2025 21:12 β€” πŸ‘ 4    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

Same! It's been so refreshing!

12.07.2025 21:01 β€” πŸ‘ 4    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Nope, I can't hang with MAGA. I'm an ethicist focused on values such as systemic justice and empathy--MAGA goes against everything that I am at my core. I was lucky enough to move away from my TBM, MAGA family though, and feel like I'm finally living the life I was meant to live.

12.07.2025 20:58 β€” πŸ‘ 3    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0
Marsh with still, black water. Lily pads in the foreground with two lotus flower buds, one beginning to unfurl. Pickerel weed is in the background with pine trees towering behind. The sky is overcast with a coming storm.

Marsh with still, black water. Lily pads in the foreground with two lotus flower buds, one beginning to unfurl. Pickerel weed is in the background with pine trees towering behind. The sky is overcast with a coming storm.

Soul-healing day paddling out in the marsh. 🦫Now, the thunder is rumbling as I settle into my little home in the woods.

12.07.2025 20:46 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

We need to start a list of all ICE agents who have been identified taking illegal action and committing human rights abuses. Authoritarian regimes fail, and legal consequences will be forthcoming. Remember Nuremberg (and subsequent trials)!

09.07.2025 21:36 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Tonight, swaying in my hammock, I listened to the boats docking for the evening, watching the sky darken as fireflies began their nightly upward spiral.

Bliss.

And then I heard a rip and--surprise--I was on the ground 😳 #HammockTrouble

01.07.2025 02:15 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

we were liars absolutely wrecked me and I need you all to watch it so we get a season 2.

Wrecked. Absolutely wrecked.

I needed that.

#WeWereLiars

27.06.2025 03:44 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

I love this for him!

19.06.2025 00:51 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

🚨 #NoKingsDay 🚨

Consider wearing a work uniform, slacks, or dress. If destruction begins, immediately sit and quietly begin recording. We're showing up as responsible, productive, *real* humans. πŸ‘©β€πŸ’Ό

Make demonizing protesters incredibly difficult--and false flags evident.

13.06.2025 17:36 β€” πŸ‘ 3    πŸ” 1    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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Watching the sunset as bats swoop over the water. Goodnight, Bluesky.

13.06.2025 01:25 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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Ali Velshi: The U.S. may have just entered the most dangerous chapter of the post-Roe era yet The Trump administration revoked Biden-era guidance directing hospitals to provide emergency abortions to women regardless of the states' abortion laws.

I'm quite pleased that I'll never be a grandparent--I want my grown children alive and free. Pregnancy was already particularly dangerous for some of mine, and it's now an even greater risk. A risk that they are *no longer* willing to take. πŸ’™ How have these draconian laws impacted your family?

10.06.2025 17:51 β€” πŸ‘ 4    πŸ” 1    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

When I finally left my lifelong religion, I was stunned with the understanding of just how psychologically damaging the church is. But I may have been even more shocked with the realization of the enormity and wonder of the world around me ... awed with the beauty of life in all of its messiness. 🧭

07.06.2025 13:05 β€” πŸ‘ 2    πŸ” 1    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Edit to note it's a male moth-- you can tell by the antenna.

04.06.2025 03:13 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
Luna moth with wings spread resting on grey, paint chipped wooden deck.

Luna moth with wings spread resting on grey, paint chipped wooden deck.

This beauty surprised us when she bumped into a window (she's okay!). First luna moth visitor this season πŸŒ›

04.06.2025 02:53 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0
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While being chased by mosquitoes on our evening stroll, we saw this momma and her baby 🦌

What have you seen on your recent outdoor excursions? Share the joy!

[Viewed best in full screen!]

30.05.2025 22:28 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

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