Just saying...
29.12.2025 20:15 β π 2 π 1 π¬ 1 π 0@justapauling.bsky.social
Liberal, queer & accepting. Leading with kindness until you don't. AuDHD π³οΈβπβΎοΈ Burnt out & craving peace and quiet. Sheffield UK ππΌ
Just saying...
29.12.2025 20:15 β π 2 π 1 π¬ 1 π 0Well it looks like I'm here for the foreseeable future. Meta are being dickheads and have suspended my Threads and Insta 3 times today, for no apparent reason. π€·πΌ
That corrupt bunch of arseholes couldn't run a bath let alone a social media company.
Pin post for new people.
Hi, I'm Paul, 50 from UK. I'm also queer (bi/pan) & AuDHD. I talk about the AuDHD bit more than the queer bit.
Likes: Star Wars, playing WoW, nature, kindness, real people.
Dislikes: Cruelty, fake people, right wing politics & all the horrible shit that goes with it.
Absolutely worth it. No people please!
29.12.2025 16:01 β π 0 π 0 π¬ 0 π 0None of us make it out alive.
08.03.2025 18:31 β π 2 π 0 π¬ 1 π 0I've very close to adding to this statistic. It's pointless.
08.03.2025 18:29 β π 3 π 0 π¬ 1 π 0I've lost all faith in people too. The world is a bin fire so I'm just looking after my closest from now on. There's too much hate and cynicism everywhere else and I no longer have the energy to hope it will get better. Experience shows us that it won't, and it's naive to think otherwise.
08.03.2025 18:27 β π 1 π 0 π¬ 1 π 0It's a sad day
08.03.2025 16:59 β π 1 π 0 π¬ 2 π 0Fuck off
08.03.2025 16:17 β π 0 π 0 π¬ 0 π 0As an autistic person, I don't always agree with the last statement.
Only speaking for myself. I'm sure other autistic people disagree.
I'm still playing WoW. It's been on Blizzard's launcher for ages now but I can't justify Β£60 for a game I might not enjoy.
Glad to see people do like it though. Maybe when I'm not so poor. Dunno.
Gender equality doesnβt just 'happen.'
Womenβs rights must be fought for and protected.
Our responsibility is clear.
To lead by example and create a world where opportunities are fair for all.
Not just today, but every single day.
#InternationalWomensDay
Maybe instead of talking about it and explaining why it's happening, to make themselves look intelligent, they should be actually stopping it happening.
08.03.2025 12:42 β π 1 π 0 π¬ 1 π 0Hazy days with layers.
08.03.2025 12:17 β π 3 π 0 π¬ 0 π 0It is only in the past few years that awareness of autistic and ADHD girls and women has increased. The idea that girls/women are not autistic or ADHD prevented many being diagnosed and supported.
On this International Womenβs Day let us remember our autistic sisters who have been misdiagnosed and marginalised.
Autistic Women should never be ignored again.
I don't socialise at all anymore. I gave it up last year and decided that I no longer have the energy for coffee meetings etc. The only person I spend time with is my partner, otherwise I'm alone. It makes me sad but the alternative is feeling drained, anxious and stressed.
08.03.2025 10:31 β π 0 π 0 π¬ 0 π 0I can't relate to it, but I'm not dismissing anyone else's experience and choice to be non binary. It's up to the person & how they feel.
I've always felt like a boy, and later a man. I embrace parts of myself that would be described as feminine traits, and I'm not a fan of gender stereotypes.
Sold my car last year to cut finances, and I don't miss it at all. Many drivers are arseholes.
08.03.2025 10:21 β π 4 π 0 π¬ 0 π 0Beautiful photo.
I'm waiting for a maga flat earther to say it's fake because they can't see the american flag.
There's a name for everything. I've been part of Discord groups over the last couple of years but they're not really my thing, and I always end up feeling ignored or not part of the group. Part of being autistic.
08.03.2025 10:17 β π 2 π 0 π¬ 1 π 0I just had to google that. Never heard the term before.
08.03.2025 10:08 β π 1 π 0 π¬ 1 π 0It all feels pretty pointless anyway tbh.
08.03.2025 09:43 β π 0 π 0 π¬ 0 π 0I'm trying that, but they won't even send it through.
07.03.2025 22:57 β π 1 π 0 π¬ 1 π 0Unfortunately not. I'm not officially diagnosed and it's proving impossible to get my GP to refer me. Pointless until I get that.
07.03.2025 22:53 β π 1 π 0 π¬ 1 π 0They don't know what anything is.
07.03.2025 20:30 β π 3 π 0 π¬ 0 π 0CW: talking about weight loss, food, calories
Even when working with a medical professional who is highly knowledgeable, the process of cutting and bulking carries real risks. Particularly if done excessively or with an overly focused mindset on body composition rather than overall health. π§΅
@sorenable.bsky.social Thank you so much for posting about body building and the risks of body dysmorphia and metabolic damage.
I'm a PT and I don't work with clients who want to do this. It's a toxic and damaging culture.
Flight Attendant: βIS THERE A DOCTOR ON BOARD?!"
Me: βI have a doctorate in Philosophy."
Flight Attendant: βTHE PILOT IS GOING TO DIE!"
Me [soothingly]: βWe're all going to die.β
Therapy was tough today. Next session in 2 weeks is going to be hard. π
07.03.2025 18:41 β π 3 π 0 π¬ 1 π 0The women would have to organise it for the men who say this, along with the rest of their appointments and events.
#invisiblelabour #emotionallabour #unpaidlabour