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J. L. Benner

@jlbenner.bsky.social

Ex-tradwife writer. I'm a mother, and I'm angry as hell about the world my kids are inheriting. Absolutely devoted wife with an amazing liberal feminist husband.

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Russia unleashed one of its largest drone and missile barrages of the war on Ukraine overnight, killing at least 12 people and injuring dozens across the country. The strikes underscored how months of diplomatic efforts to broker a cease-fire have failed to yield a breakthrough. nyti.ms/3Fq24PE

25.05.2025 20:14 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 295    ๐Ÿ” 116    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 57    ๐Ÿ“Œ 15
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I want to say again to academics who are interested in public writing. Look locally. Sure national outlets are good and I do that too, but this kind of visibility in your community can have a real impact.

21.02.2025 18:26 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1330    ๐Ÿ” 453    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 14    ๐Ÿ“Œ 12

I don't even care I'm happy to see her here ๐Ÿฅฐ

21.02.2025 23:36 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 3    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Would you look at that.

16.02.2025 00:26 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 2    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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U.S. intelligence, law enforcement candidates face Trump loyalty test Candidates for top intelligence and law enforcement jobs were asked to give โ€œyesโ€ or โ€œnoโ€ responses to questions such as: Was Jan. 6 โ€œan inside job?โ€

โ€œThese people said that two individuals, both former officials who were being considered for positions within the intelligence community, were asked to give โ€˜yesโ€™ or โ€˜noโ€™ responses to the questions: Was Jan. 6 โ€˜an inside job?โ€™ And was the 2020 presidential election โ€˜stolenโ€™?โ€

wapo.st/3EF3aWN

10.02.2025 00:45 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 56    ๐Ÿ” 27    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 2
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Great point.

10.02.2025 01:32 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 74908    ๐Ÿ” 14457    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1182    ๐Ÿ“Œ 489

Does....does this person know who you are....? Like.... so they know you don't need the job lol

09.02.2025 19:14 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Just saw a farmer say, "you don't have to admit you were wrong, you have to admit you were lied to, " and idk that seems like a good framing to call people in

09.02.2025 13:49 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 22926    ๐Ÿ” 5618    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 98    ๐Ÿ“Œ 101

That's what is so sickening, realizing how many people look like me and genuinely don't see this happening around them, or don't care. Hearing people refer to kamala as a "hoe" was extremely angering because wtf about her was "hoe?" A former cop who's never committed a crime and only one spouse?

09.02.2025 18:16 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 14    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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BTW, they no longer give citizenship to people from other countries who serve in the US military.
Some of the immigrants being deported served in our armed forces, tell me that's "fair???"

09.02.2025 18:13 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 2    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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The CFO of the Office of Personnel Management was forced to resign; here's her mistake.
She said she would do the right thing, instead of whatever the "loyal" thing was.

09.02.2025 16:47 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

I remember once a Sunday school teacher told us about hungry kids in other countries and I cried, and they told me to calm down because "there's really not much you can do about it, so try not to think about it if it upsets you."
Even then, I realized ignoring it helped no one, not even me.

09.02.2025 16:15 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

And here it is.
The book burnings have begun.

09.02.2025 14:27 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

I feel like THAT is the picture of musk that will go down in the history books; that vacant yet evil expression

09.02.2025 03:42 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 4    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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Want to make a narcissist angry?

08.02.2025 20:13 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

"Don't worry they had 'read only' access everyone!"
Great, I'm sure these magic computers have no copy/ paste function, no printers, no ability to just scan copies into a private database, and I'm sure their phones were taken so they couldn't screenshot anything, yeah.
I'm sure.

08.02.2025 19:55 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Hell yeah. Hold the line. This is what we need people to do.

Slow things down, donโ€™t comply in advance so the courts have time to stop them. Itโ€™s starting to work.

07.02.2025 20:01 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 116302    ๐Ÿ” 16778    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 2072    ๐Ÿ“Œ 472

I remember in "The Great Escape" one of the imprisoned British officers says something about it being their sworn duty to keep as many n@zi soldiers occupied as possible. Like just keep a bunch of them busy. Just create hassles, slow downs, chaos, confusion.
This is a valid form of resistance.

07.02.2025 08:36 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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Oh good, now we have definitely confirmed that the guys invading the government are for sure racist, nice

07.02.2025 08:24 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

I'm glad to see @wired.com holding strong!!!

07.02.2025 07:03 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Let's be accurate here.
This is SO MUCH WORSE OMG

07.02.2025 07:01 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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They changed it to "Arab Americans for Peace," If only they had wanted that in November

06.02.2025 22:51 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

All my life I've felt bad about how forgetful I am.
But now like, no matter what any authority asks me i can be like "I forget" and that will be completely consistent with my history. I'm forgetful. Established fact.

We can all finally be proud of ourselves; can't be a narc if you forget ๐Ÿฅฐ

06.02.2025 20:44 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 2    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Oddly comforted remembering how my favorite Bible stories were like, David and Goliath, when someone faced huge scary odds but succeeded in taking down the monster.
For no reason at all.

06.02.2025 20:03 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
A memo listing all of the clubs eliminated by USMA.

A memo listing all of the clubs eliminated by USMA.

The United States Military Academy has just eliminated all Cadet clubs and activities for POC. Most of these have existed for decades like the Society of Black Engineers. They were there when I was a Cadet in 1987. All of the religious ones remain. This isnโ€™t DEI. Itโ€™s white Christian Nationalism.

05.02.2025 14:27 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 62106    ๐Ÿ” 26059    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 2747    ๐Ÿ“Œ 2140

If any higher powers or deities are listening, or anyone at all really... please help us

06.02.2025 17:48 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Happy New Guy Fawkes day!!! (I can dream)

06.02.2025 17:46 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Do I take the excedrin for the migraine or will that make the anxiety overwhelming: daily decisions now lol

06.02.2025 17:45 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Hey, I know it's scary.
If you feel like you're beginning to have a panic attack, cross your arms over your chest and alternate tapping your shoulders firmly.
Left, right. Left, right.
Take deep breaths while you do this.
It's called "a butterfly hug" and it will help you regulate โค๏ธ

05.02.2025 23:44 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

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