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Milena Dalinaros

@milenadalinaros.bsky.social

Writing my book about Charisma | Positioning Underdogs, Love Seekers, and Leaders of Tomorrow for Victory in the Arenas of Life, Love, and Power.

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I've been on a break from all social media to:

- Hand in a thesis on agile project management
- Finish work deadlines before summer
- Take my kid to sports activities and birthday parties
- Create lots of juicy content
- Prepare my website for the launch in a couple of days

And now I'm back!

18.06.2024 12:22 β€” πŸ‘ 3    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

A common misconception about charismatic authenticity is that you need to be original. The paradox is that the more you TRY to be original, the less authentic you become. But what does it mean to "just be yourself?"
#Authenticity #Charisma #Rizz #BeYourself

21.04.2024 16:33 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

I recently had a beautiful conversation with podcast Host Avik Chakraborty on his show Healthy Mind Healthy Life. Thank you Avik for helping creators share our light. The episode it out and I'm excited to hear your input! Listen here:

www.mentalhealthpodcast.in/charisma-aut...

12.04.2024 09:52 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
Five charismatic questions for assessing your presence in the moment: 1. How often do I catch myself distracted by problems or worries so that I lose connection with the current moment? 2. Do I regularly practice mindfulness or meditation techniques to cultivate present moment awareness? 3. How often do I catch myself multitasking or engaging in distractions instead of giving my full attention to what I'm doing or who I'm with? 4. When faced with challenges or stressors, how well do I stay grounded and centered in the present moment, rather than getting caught up in reactivity or anxiety? 5. Am I able to let go of judgments, expectations, and attachments to outcomes, allowing things to unfold naturally in the present moment?

Five charismatic questions for assessing your presence in the moment: 1. How often do I catch myself distracted by problems or worries so that I lose connection with the current moment? 2. Do I regularly practice mindfulness or meditation techniques to cultivate present moment awareness? 3. How often do I catch myself multitasking or engaging in distractions instead of giving my full attention to what I'm doing or who I'm with? 4. When faced with challenges or stressors, how well do I stay grounded and centered in the present moment, rather than getting caught up in reactivity or anxiety? 5. Am I able to let go of judgments, expectations, and attachments to outcomes, allowing things to unfold naturally in the present moment?

Charismatic Presence:

Merging with the state of BEING NOW that is life, your charisma shines brightest. It allows you to BE HERE.

Every interaction becomes an opportunity to leave a mark and create meaningful connections.

People feel ALIVE with you.

#Presence #Charisma #BeHere #Unfolding

30.03.2024 04:47 β€” πŸ‘ 2    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
Five charismatic affirmations for presence in the moment: 1. I am fully present, engaging all my senses to experience the beauty and richness of the moment. 2. I anchor myself in the present moment and savor the sights, sounds, and sensations that surround me. 3. I cultivate a heightened sense of awareness, tuning into the subtle nuances of my environment with clarity and curiosity. 4. I embrace my sensations, ground myself in the present moment and connect deeply with the rhythm of life. 5. I am Here. I am Now.

Five charismatic affirmations for presence in the moment: 1. I am fully present, engaging all my senses to experience the beauty and richness of the moment. 2. I anchor myself in the present moment and savor the sights, sounds, and sensations that surround me. 3. I cultivate a heightened sense of awareness, tuning into the subtle nuances of my environment with clarity and curiosity. 4. I embrace my sensations, ground myself in the present moment and connect deeply with the rhythm of life. 5. I am Here. I am Now.

Becoming One with the Moment:

It's not just about being present – it’s about merging with the unfolding moment.

This profound state of being and merging amplifies the impact of your charisma.

#Charisma #Presence #Affirmations #ThePresentMoment

29.03.2024 14:48 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

A couple of inspirational days await!

Today, I'm guesting the Hippy Chick Chats Podcast, recording a conversation with Kristen.

Tomorrow, I'll be having another charismatic conversation. This time with RΓ©e, host of Homeroom the Podcast.

#podcast #charisma #inspiration

27.03.2024 16:35 β€” πŸ‘ 3    πŸ” 1    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

I'm thrilled to announce my upcoming guest appearance on Hippy Chick Chats Podcast which we will be recording tomorrow!

Kristen and I will be exploring the transformative journey that occurs once we embrace our most charismatic selves and accept our true message to the world.

#Podcast

26.03.2024 08:24 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
Benefits of charismatic presence: 1. Reduced Stress and Anxiety 2. Improved Mental Well-Being 3. Improved Physical Health 4. Enhanced Emotional Regulation 5. Increased Focus and Concentration 6. Stronger Relationships and Deeper Connection 7. Heightened Awareness of Your Experiences 8. Enhanced Mindfulness 9. Improved Decision-Making 10. Enhanced Creativity and Innovation 11. Greater Resilience and Adaptability 12. Enhanced Self-Acceptance 13. Growing Self-Love

Benefits of charismatic presence: 1. Reduced Stress and Anxiety 2. Improved Mental Well-Being 3. Improved Physical Health 4. Enhanced Emotional Regulation 5. Increased Focus and Concentration 6. Stronger Relationships and Deeper Connection 7. Heightened Awareness of Your Experiences 8. Enhanced Mindfulness 9. Improved Decision-Making 10. Enhanced Creativity and Innovation 11. Greater Resilience and Adaptability 12. Enhanced Self-Acceptance 13. Growing Self-Love

The Power of Presence: Being fully present has a transformative impact on your vibe. Deep connection to the present moment shifts your energy and creates a pull. Your connection to LIFE itself radiates, drawing others towards your vibrant energy.

#Charisma #ElevateTheGame #Presence #ElevateYourVibe

25.03.2024 12:24 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
Five charismatic questions for assessing your presence with other people:

1. How present and attentive am I in my interactions with others, including family, friends, colleagues, and strangers?

2. Do I take the time to truly listen and empathize with others, or am I often preoccupied with my own thoughts, agenda, or devices?

3. Do I notice subtle cues and nuances in the body language, tone, and expressions of others, allowing me to respond with empathy and understanding?

4. Do I tend to interrupt or dominate conversations, or am I able to patiently listen and allow others to express themselves fully before responding?

5. How comfortable am I with silence and pauses in conversations, allowing space for reflection and deeper connection to emerge?

Five charismatic questions for assessing your presence with other people: 1. How present and attentive am I in my interactions with others, including family, friends, colleagues, and strangers? 2. Do I take the time to truly listen and empathize with others, or am I often preoccupied with my own thoughts, agenda, or devices? 3. Do I notice subtle cues and nuances in the body language, tone, and expressions of others, allowing me to respond with empathy and understanding? 4. Do I tend to interrupt or dominate conversations, or am I able to patiently listen and allow others to express themselves fully before responding? 5. How comfortable am I with silence and pauses in conversations, allowing space for reflection and deeper connection to emerge?

Did you know that meaningful connections are created when you are being fully present?

Have you ever wondered β€œHow good am I with other people?”

Why not use these questions as journaling prompts, prompts for reflection, or as a mindfulness exercise?

#Presence #Charisma #ElevateYourVibe

24.03.2024 17:46 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
This is me. I'm wearing a purple and pink dress. I'm sitting on a bench in the forest in the summer.

This is me. I'm wearing a purple and pink dress. I'm sitting on a bench in the forest in the summer.

Essential to charisma - PRESENCE.

By fully immersing yourself in the present moment, you exude an aura of connection to Life itself.

Being one with Life itself is irresistibly captivating.

Give yourself a few minutes today to be FULLY PRESENT. You deserve it.

#Charisma #rizz #Presence #Elevate

22.03.2024 04:34 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
Five charismatic affirmations for presence and awareness.

1. I am fully present in this moment, embracing the gift of experience with mindfulness and awareness.

2. I anchor myself in the present moment, allowing me to respond to life's challenges with clarity and composure.

3. I am mindful of the present moment, releasing attachments to the past and worries about the future.

4. I tune into my inner wisdom and intuition, trusting in its guidance to lead me toward alignment and fulfillment.

5. I am aware of my thoughts, feelings, and sensations, allowing me to navigate life with grace and ease.

Five charismatic affirmations for presence and awareness. 1. I am fully present in this moment, embracing the gift of experience with mindfulness and awareness. 2. I anchor myself in the present moment, allowing me to respond to life's challenges with clarity and composure. 3. I am mindful of the present moment, releasing attachments to the past and worries about the future. 4. I tune into my inner wisdom and intuition, trusting in its guidance to lead me toward alignment and fulfillment. 5. I am aware of my thoughts, feelings, and sensations, allowing me to navigate life with grace and ease.

Presence nurtures our charisma. Here are five charismatic affirmations for you to elevate your ability to be completely in the moment and reignite your connection to life. The more you elevate your presence, the more you elevate your charisma. #Presence #charisma #ElevateYourVibe

21.03.2024 15:58 β€” πŸ‘ 2    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Charismatic presence is not about being the center of attention or seeking validation; it is about embodying a sense of purpose, passion, and authenticity that inspires others to be their true magnificent selves.

#Charisma #Presence #Elevate #Energy

21.03.2024 08:31 β€” πŸ‘ 3    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Oh there are many things worth a try! (Sagittarius here)

20.03.2024 15:03 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

Adorable!

20.03.2024 15:02 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

She sounds like a very inspiring woman!

20.03.2024 15:01 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0
Charismatic presence is a state of awareness and attentiveness to the present moment, free from judgment or attachment to the past or future. It involves being fully engaged in whatever you are doing, whether it's a simple task, a conversation, or a moment of stillness and reflection. Presence is a magnetic quality that captivates and inspires others because your aliveness creates a connection with life itself. It is an intangible yet palpable energy that emanates from an individual, leaving a lasting impression and influencing those around them in profound ways. Charismatic presence is not about being the center of attention or seeking validation; It is about embodying a sense of purpose, passion, and authenticity that inspires others to be their true magnificent selves.

Charismatic presence is a state of awareness and attentiveness to the present moment, free from judgment or attachment to the past or future. It involves being fully engaged in whatever you are doing, whether it's a simple task, a conversation, or a moment of stillness and reflection. Presence is a magnetic quality that captivates and inspires others because your aliveness creates a connection with life itself. It is an intangible yet palpable energy that emanates from an individual, leaving a lasting impression and influencing those around them in profound ways. Charismatic presence is not about being the center of attention or seeking validation; It is about embodying a sense of purpose, passion, and authenticity that inspires others to be their true magnificent selves.

What is charismatic presence? Any additions?

#Charisma #Presence #Awareness #Elevate #Vibe #Energy

20.03.2024 15:00 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Charismatic presence is an intangible yet palpable #energy that emanates from an individual, leaving a lasting impression and influencing others in profound ways.

It's a magnetic quality that captivates and inspires others, because your aliveness creates a #connection with life itself.

#presence

20.03.2024 09:21 β€” πŸ‘ 2    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Here is the podcast episode!

I am especially interested in your thoughts on referring to certain parts of our identity as who we ARE. Which parts of your identity do you call "You"?

player.captivate.fm/episode/5e03...

19.03.2024 18:01 β€” πŸ‘ 2    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Exciting news! The podcast episode where I made my first guest appearance is out!

Host George Sirois of Excelsior Journeys Podcast and I discuss charisma, authenticity, and embracing our identities as authors and creatives!

Share your reflections!

Link in comments.

19.03.2024 18:01 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0
Charisma thrives on presence.

Charisma thrives on presence.

Presence is essential to igniting your charisma. Charisma thrives on presence.

Awareness in the present moment help you understand how you truly feel and what you truly need.

Do you see how other areas such as your self-care will be elevated if you elevate your presence?

#Presence #Charisma

19.03.2024 04:52 β€” πŸ‘ 2    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Charismatic presence is a state of awareness and attentiveness to the present moment, free from judgment or attachment to the past or future. It involves being fully engaged in whatever you are doing, whether it's a simple task, a conversation, or a moment of stillness and reflection.

#Charisma

18.03.2024 16:59 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
This is a picture of me in a purple and pink dress. I'm sitting on a bench in the forest.

This is a picture of me in a purple and pink dress. I'm sitting on a bench in the forest.

Since my website is almost done, I'm guesting many podcasts, and I've basically created the circumstances where followers/listeners ask "What's the next step?"

Now is the time to create a Freebie to start growing an email list.

What Charisma Freebie would YOU find valuable?

#Freebie #Charisma

17.03.2024 15:43 β€” πŸ‘ 3    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
Five charismatic affirmations to strengthen you values:

1. My values are the compass that guides me toward a purposeful and fulfilling life.

2. I embrace the power of my values to shape, empower and elevate my actions, choices, and relationships.

3. As I strengthen my alignment with my values, I attract opportunities and relationships that resonate with my authentic self. 

4. My values inspire me to lead with integrity, and authenticity in all that I do. 

5. I am empowered by the clarity and conviction that my values provide.

Five charismatic affirmations to strengthen you values: 1. My values are the compass that guides me toward a purposeful and fulfilling life. 2. I embrace the power of my values to shape, empower and elevate my actions, choices, and relationships. 3. As I strengthen my alignment with my values, I attract opportunities and relationships that resonate with my authentic self. 4. My values inspire me to lead with integrity, and authenticity in all that I do. 5. I am empowered by the clarity and conviction that my values provide.

Strong values help you to be strong enough to uphold them despite external pressure or #expectations. Knowing who you are and what you value are essential qualities for turning your charisma into a superpower.

Here are five positive #affirmations to strengthen your #values and your #charisma.

16.03.2024 12:15 β€” πŸ‘ 3    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
Five charismatic questions for assessing the strength of your values:
1. How do my values influence the decisionsI make on a daily basis?
2. How do I respond when my values are challenged or compromised? 
3. How do I navigate conflicts between my values and external expectations? 
4. What sacrifices am I willing to make to uphold my values and integrity? 
5. How do I integrate my values into my goals and vision for the future?

Five charismatic questions for assessing the strength of your values: 1. How do my values influence the decisionsI make on a daily basis? 2. How do I respond when my values are challenged or compromised? 3. How do I navigate conflicts between my values and external expectations? 4. What sacrifices am I willing to make to uphold my values and integrity? 5. How do I integrate my values into my goals and vision for the future?

Did you know that values drive your decisions and shape your identity?

Do you know WHAT your values are?

And if you do have values clarity, then HOW STRONG are your values?

Do you have the power to stand up for your values?

#values #charisma #strength #clarity #alignment #standinyourpower

15.03.2024 11:57 β€” πŸ‘ 2    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
Benefits from living in alignment with your values:
1. Clarity: Alignment begins with identifying which values, principles and ideals that matter most to you.
2. Congruent Decision-Making: You prioritize actions and choices that reflect what you truly value in life.
3. Authenticity: You value your own truth and opinion about yourself more than meeting external expectations.
4. Purpose and Meaning: Living a purpose-driven life gives you a deep sense of fulfillment and satisfaction.
5. Resilience and Integrity: Your values give you the strength and courage to stand by your principles, even in the face of challenges, criticism, or adversity.
6. Positive Impact: Living in alignment with your values allows you to make a positive impact on other peopleβ€˜s lives and the world around you.
7. Inner Peace: You feel more grounded, balanced, and at peace with yourself and the world around you.

Benefits from living in alignment with your values: 1. Clarity: Alignment begins with identifying which values, principles and ideals that matter most to you. 2. Congruent Decision-Making: You prioritize actions and choices that reflect what you truly value in life. 3. Authenticity: You value your own truth and opinion about yourself more than meeting external expectations. 4. Purpose and Meaning: Living a purpose-driven life gives you a deep sense of fulfillment and satisfaction. 5. Resilience and Integrity: Your values give you the strength and courage to stand by your principles, even in the face of challenges, criticism, or adversity. 6. Positive Impact: Living in alignment with your values allows you to make a positive impact on other peopleβ€˜s lives and the world around you. 7. Inner Peace: You feel more grounded, balanced, and at peace with yourself and the world around you.

Are you living a life aligned with your values?

Here are some signs of what values alignment does for your resilience, well-being and inner peace. And of course, your charisma thrives the more your life is in alignment.

How aligned are you?

#Values #Why #Purpose #Alignment #Charisma

14.03.2024 11:09 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
Five Charisma Affirmations to understand your values:

1. I am connected to my inner wisdom, guiding me to uncover my true vaues.

2. Every day I gain clarity and insight into what truly matters to me.

3. I trust myself to identify and honor my deepest and truest values. 

4. I trust that my values reflect the essence of who I really am and who I aspire to be.

5. As I live in alignment with my values, I radiate authenticity and integrity.

Five Charisma Affirmations to understand your values: 1. I am connected to my inner wisdom, guiding me to uncover my true vaues. 2. Every day I gain clarity and insight into what truly matters to me. 3. I trust myself to identify and honor my deepest and truest values. 4. I trust that my values reflect the essence of who I really am and who I aspire to be. 5. As I live in alignment with my values, I radiate authenticity and integrity.

Did you know that values are the driving factor behind most of our decision-making?

Here is a list of positive affirmations for you to program your subconscious mind to start showing you your core values.

By getting clear on your #values, you are one step closer to charisma mastery.

#Charisma

13.03.2024 20:26 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
5 Charismatic Questions for Identifying Your Values:

1. What qualities do I admire in others and why?
2. What do I prioritize above all else in my personal and professional life?
3. What do I want to be remembered for by those closest to me?
4. What insights and legacy do I want to leave behind for future generations?
5. When have I felt most authentic and true to myself?

5 Charismatic Questions for Identifying Your Values: 1. What qualities do I admire in others and why? 2. What do I prioritize above all else in my personal and professional life? 3. What do I want to be remembered for by those closest to me? 4. What insights and legacy do I want to leave behind for future generations? 5. When have I felt most authentic and true to myself?

To become your most charismatic self, make sure to identify your values. Strive for living a purpose-driven life aligned with YOUR core values. This will bring you joy and fulfillment. These values clarifying questions can be used as prompts for reflection or journaling.

#Values #Charisma #Purpose

13.03.2024 10:32 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
Values are a set of strongly held beliefs and principles. They guide our decision-making and shape our identity as well as our perception of reality.

Values are a set of strongly held beliefs and principles. They guide our decision-making and shape our identity as well as our perception of reality.

How do you know what values you live by?

Sometimes values work in the background. But even though you might not be aware of them, they still shape your reality in profound ways.

To become your most charismatic self, make sure to identify YOUR values.

#Values #Why #Charisma

12.03.2024 16:59 β€” πŸ‘ 2    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Thank you. I will be touching on many of the elements that constitute charisma. Authenticity is one of them. Others are presence, confidence, body language, life vision, and several more. They combine in unique ways in each individual, making charisma unique for everyone.

12.03.2024 16:49 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Thank you, I agree. This is something we can free ourselves from and thrive.

11.03.2024 18:25 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

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