Does this mean I should stop getting angry at people who second guess me that Iβm as experienced as I am at work? Who go to my boss and question whether Iβm truly qualified for the job I do?
Nah. Those people are still fuckers.
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Does this mean I should stop getting angry at people who second guess me that Iβm as experienced as I am at work? Who go to my boss and question whether Iβm truly qualified for the job I do?
Nah. Those people are still fuckers.
Kiddo shared a picture of me with their friend at school. My professional headshot taken a year or two ago.
βHow old do you think she is?β
βI dunnoβ¦ 25? Maybe 30?β
And my 43 year old ass doesnβt know how to feel about it.
Texting my kiddo while on the flight home and itβs hilarious how much theyβre like me. And dang it, theyβre pretty damn cool. π₯°
26.10.2025 12:51 β π 7 π 0 π¬ 0 π 0Giving myself permission to not go explore the city on my own but to actually get the rest and relaxation that Iβve been missing the last several months.
25.10.2025 12:09 β π 11 π 0 π¬ 0 π 0π€« π€« π€«
25.10.2025 10:24 β π 1 π 0 π¬ 0 π 0A day to myself and I really should be out exploring the cityβ¦ but fuck, Iβm exhausted from this week and just want a warm bath and to lie in bed until my business meeting this afternoon.
25.10.2025 10:23 β π 10 π 0 π¬ 0 π 0βThese dance moves arenβt going to learn themselves.β
25.10.2025 01:00 β π 7 π 0 π¬ 2 π 0Itβs a sad state of affairs when Iβm the only one touching my tits
25.10.2025 00:54 β π 29 π 0 π¬ 4 π 0lol. A friend is getting married in London. :)
22.10.2025 10:07 β π 0 π 0 π¬ 0 π 0You have two cheeks for a reason, right?
22.10.2025 09:43 β π 0 π 0 π¬ 2 π 0Youβre amazing and deserve this. Good luck and I hope it turns out exactly how you want it to!
22.10.2025 09:40 β π 2 π 0 π¬ 1 π 0Next yearβs plans include Spain, the UK, maybe Iceland and perhaps Mexico.
If it werenβt for my kiddo needing to be in school, weβd certainly be doing much more.
I didnβt know what I wanted to be when I grew upβ¦ but I knew I wanted to travel the world.
Today I arrived in the 6th country Iβve visited this year - not including Puerto Rico.
I think younger me would be proud.
We got that game and havenβt had a chance to break it out. Glad it was fun!
18.10.2025 23:48 β π 1 π 0 π¬ 1 π 0Fuck, I hate when the insecurities hit and the they feed the voice that says asking for reassurance will either annoy themβ¦ or just confirm your worries.
18.10.2025 23:28 β π 10 π 0 π¬ 1 π 0Itβs fun having multiple people describe you as being one of the βweirdosβ and moments laterβ¦ of one of the people who βget itβ and who others should aspire to.
I feel seen. And appreciated. And given permission to be weird and loud about it.
Right?! Like wtf
15.10.2025 10:51 β π 0 π 0 π¬ 1 π 0One guess where my sheets are right nowβ¦ Lol
15.10.2025 02:10 β π 2 π 0 π¬ 0 π 0Or when theyβre still in the dryer when youβre ready to crawl into bed. π
15.10.2025 02:00 β π 2 π 0 π¬ 1 π 0Phew. No matter how easy therapy is, it always takes everything out of me. Really want to be able to jump back into life but what I really need is just toβ¦ be invisible for a bit.
15.10.2025 00:33 β π 15 π 0 π¬ 3 π 0Tonightβs question for my therapist:
How many stuffies is βtoo manyβ to bring to our session? π
Results from my heart monitor came back. Turns outβ¦ Iβm stressed.
Now who would have guessed? π
Itβs been a ROUGH summer and into fallβ¦ but this morning Iβm feeling a bit optimistic and serene.
Thereβs more craziness coming but weβre gonna relay the fuck outta this.
Chopped my hair and feeling all petite and dainty andβ¦ dang, I feel cute today. π
10.10.2025 13:13 β π 16 π 0 π¬ 1 π 0Right??? After our 50 minute was up, she declared it βout of sessionβ so we could info dump without worry. Itβs lovely having an adhd therapist.
09.10.2025 12:02 β π 1 π 0 π¬ 0 π 0Pro tip! If youβre worried about sleeping too late and missing your early morning meeting, just forget to take the meds that help you sleep through the night. π
08.10.2025 09:18 β π 8 π 0 π¬ 0 π 0β¦ but legit, if I say I need something every Monday at noon, why am I chasing you down for it on Tuesday?
07.10.2025 14:53 β π 2 π 0 π¬ 0 π 0Having a super annoyed day where Iβm tired of people around me being satisfied with mediocrity. Really really trying to curb my annoyance and be encouragingβ¦.
07.10.2025 14:53 β π 2 π 0 π¬ 1 π 0Still in recovery and will be for a while but at least not in emergency mode anymore
03.10.2025 00:55 β π 4 π 0 π¬ 1 π 0