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Kimberly Starnes

@vehementlykiki.bsky.social

Books. Britain. Blue states. Board games.

323 Followers  |  109 Following  |  48 Posts  |  Joined: 11.11.2024  |  1.8411

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Iโ€™m Not the Villain: Reclaiming My Story How anger, resentment, and freedom taught me to stop being the victim and step fully into the role of heroine in my own life.

I have a new Substack up all about moving forward. vehementlykiki.substack.com/p/im-not-the...

25.08.2025 16:30 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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The Goodbye I Never Got What if closure isn't a conversation, but a choice?

Ever wanted a real goodbye but got silence instead?

My latest blog is about closure. Itโ€™s raw, personal, and includes an AI prompt that helped me write the goodbye I never got.

๐Ÿ’” Read here: open.substack.com/pub/vehement...

#Breakups #Closure #Healing #AIforHealing #EmotionalGrowth #AIPrompts

26.07.2025 22:47 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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Just released: Reboot You ๐Ÿ’” โ†’ ๐Ÿค– โ†’ โค๏ธโ€๐Ÿฉน
A free workbook with 5 powerful AI prompts (and 5 deeper dives) to help you heal after heartbreak, especially after a certain age.

๐Ÿ‘‰ Download it here: drive.google.com/file/d/11fUi...

Healing isnโ€™t linear. But you donโ€™t have to do it alone.

26.07.2025 20:39 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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Talking Back to the Silence: 3 AI Prompts to Help You Cope with the Quiet After a Breakup Thereโ€™s a certain kind of Sunday silence that hits different.

vehementlykiki.substack.com/p/talking-ba...

25.05.2025 19:33 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 2    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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The Echo of Absence: How to Cope with Post-Breakup Silence Learn why absence feels so loud after a breakup and how the quiet can shift over time.

Check out my new post on dealing with the silence after a breakup. #breakup #movingon #healing #relationships open.substack.com/pub/vehement...

18.05.2025 15:21 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 3    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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From Loops to Little Wins Using AI to Heal (When You're Still Kind of a Mess

vehementlykiki.substack.com/p/from-loops...

11.05.2025 14:35 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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Why Breakup Grief Feels Like Loops (and How Iโ€™m Untangling Mine) Healing Isnโ€™t Linear: The Grief Loops Nobody Warned Me About

Check out my new Substack post. open.substack.com/pub/vehement...

10.05.2025 20:22 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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Reboot You by Vehemently Productions | Kimberly Starnes | Substack Breakups are tough, but you donโ€™t have to navigate this pain alone. Reboot You is all about using the power of AI to help you heal, regain your confidence, and rebuild your emotional equilibrium. Clic...

Reboot You by Vehemently Productions
vehementlykiki.substack.com?r=5cevjk&utm...

04.05.2025 19:06 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

I saw three brides in one day. Is the universe telling me I'll be fulfilling another bucket list item soon? I hope so. Officiating a wedding is proving to be elusive. #bucketlist #therev #letmemarryyou

27.04.2025 02:31 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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Reclaiming my happy place was bittersweet, but worth it. #breakups #happyplace #memories

27.04.2025 02:29 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 2    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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Mom's are always right. Even as adults, we need to find the good kids and join their group. #breakups #motivation #momknowsbest #positivity

24.04.2025 01:33 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 2    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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Being grateful to the people who have supported my journey into a new job and new life makes me feel proud. #grownup #movingon #breakups #embracingchange

20.04.2025 02:02 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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Am I in my barnyard animal era? Which barnyard animal should I cuddle next? #babyduck #innerchild #happyeaster

20.04.2025 01:55 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 2    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

So it isnt just me? Thank goodness

17.04.2025 16:46 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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I stopped being afraid of failure and mistakes today. It felt good to take the chance that everything would be okay. (I was 4th out of 7 teams). #bebrave #breakups #movingon

17.04.2025 01:17 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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I found a reason for me to change who I used to be. A reason to start over new. #breakups #startingover #motivation

16.04.2025 02:07 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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I'm still out here checking off bucket list items. Highland cows were on tap for my birthday. Also, I've won $39 of the $100 I plan to win from the lottery this year. #lottery #bucketlist

08.04.2025 13:50 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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How do some people make it work? #dating #breakups #movingon

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Be kind Iโ€™m new ๐Ÿ’๐Ÿฝโ€โ™‚๏ธ

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I'm a first-timer, too. I like what you're doing. Just feeling things out. Keep it up. We are finding our voices!

04.04.2025 13:50 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Followed you here from TikTok. Most of your fans are here with their same handles.

04.04.2025 10:33 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

I may be tired and a little hoarse, but as I said again and again on the Senate floor, this is a moment where we cannot afford to be silent, when we must speak up.

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Finding that sense of belonging and being in sync takes time. Are we always out of step? #breakups #movingon #belonging

30.03.2025 18:53 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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What if you already have your person? #breakups #sisters #movingon

28.03.2025 21:00 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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This isn't how I envisioned the end of my forties, but I am stepping into the light and embracing me. #breakups #happybirthday #movingon

28.03.2025 12:29 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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Life is lots easier when you're seven. #breakups #bucketlist #willyoubemyfriend

23.03.2025 20:03 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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Need a rush of endorphins? May I suggest goat yoga? You can't have a bad day when there are baby goats. Plus, I checked off another bucket list item. #goatyoga #bucketlist #breakups

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I think healing from a friendship breakup is worse than a relationship breakup.

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