@memyselfjj.bsky.social
Cis-het, ADHD, anxiety, depressed mom of two early-stage adults: Child 1: non-binary, future best-selling author. Child 2: neurodivergent, genius AF son. Married 25+ yrs. He’s a conventionally normal guy. This is my life.
We think their chosen name is perfect and we couldn't have been more proud of them on a very significant milestone day.
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A connection to family remains, but their name reflects them as they live authenticity—a person who has no doubt of who they are & what they are passionate about. It’s awesome they can confidently move forward to the future knowing the name of their own choosing that can never be taken away.
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As witnesses, my husband and I proudly affirmed our child’s desire for a legal name change.
Once upon a time, we chose a name for our child that was meaningful to us. The name honored loved ones from both sides of our families. Now, they were able to legally choose a name meaningful to them.
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The middle name came out of two inspirations:
1. Years’ long passion for 11th Century Medieval history and the Vikings.
2. They wanted to honor Scandinavian roots on both of our paternal sides and because their middle name is the masculine version of a cousin’s first name in feminine version.
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As of March 6, 2025, it is so ordered by Minnesota Fourth Judicial District...our 22 y/o child has a new legal name.
At the hearing, the judge asked why they chose the name. They explained the long name is for formal use, and the shortened, everyday day felt right and comfortable.
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When and where?
23.02.2025 19:23 — 👍 1 🔁 0 💬 0 📌 0Checking in to see if we ride at dawn #resistance
17.02.2025 23:25 — 👍 3 🔁 0 💬 0 📌 0Staying up all night so I don’t have to wake up to another day forgetting, but then remembering, my dad is no longer here.
02.02.2025 11:12 — 👍 2 🔁 0 💬 0 📌 0This is great—Huitema is a lock-in for 5 yrs. He’s in charge of ensuring new new administration signs the ethics compliance agreement.
Trump is well past the signing deadline. What happens on Inauguration Day if he still hasn’t signed the agreement?
I feel like this is a copy/paste from 2016.
15.11.2024 07:44 — 👍 1 🔁 0 💬 0 📌 0Recommendation on accounts to follow on Bluesky. Looking for non-partisan news sources (e.g. AP, Reuters, NPR) and smart people (e.g. Heather Cox Richardson) who are straight about the current political climate here in the U.S.
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