Using a wand on the end of the dilator usually helps soothe pain for me.
I hope you find a solution that works for you soon.
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Geeky trans woman interested in DFIR and CTI professionally. Anime, video games, history, and movies for fun.
Using a wand on the end of the dilator usually helps soothe pain for me.
I hope you find a solution that works for you soon.
Drawing if a tired puppy with the caption; "This too shall pass but like wtf"
Bruh
18.09.2025 12:12 β π 31452 π 11446 π¬ 109 π 103Iβd love it if I could sleep more than 5 hours in a night again. I really dislike being so caught up in my emotions that it messes with my sleep so much.
17.09.2025 18:20 β π 0 π 0 π¬ 0 π 0But biting is fun!
15.09.2025 14:25 β π 1 π 0 π¬ 0 π 0This is a really interesting look at the stories we tell ourselves after we figure out we are trans. For me I think I knew pretty well when I was young, that understanding was hindsight being 20/20. So I don't know for sure if that memory is true. All I do know for sure is I was 31 when I came out.
15.09.2025 14:21 β π 0 π 0 π¬ 0 π 0Dirty blonde haired woman with a red shirt sitting on a black couch with a pineapple green cheek conure sitting on her shoulder.
Me and my bird.
15.09.2025 02:09 β π 7 π 0 π¬ 0 π 0The last 48 hours have shown why people have stopped relying on legacy journalism and have migrated to independent journalists in droves.
The benefit of legacy journalism is supposed to be βeditorsβ and βfactcheckingβ and they canβt even get that right in a rush to blame trans people.
It's really hard not to spiral on some of this stuff, but I think you are right.
11.09.2025 16:43 β π 1 π 0 π¬ 1 π 0late for the assassination because i hired the guy that sells my name written on a grain of rice in the park to write my manifesto out on a bullet casing and he's taking sooooooo long
11.09.2025 16:33 β π 1205 π 94 π¬ 7 π 0be very careful about what you post online
10.09.2025 18:49 β π 8308 π 1660 π¬ 153 π 52βThere is no place for political violence in this countryβ say the politicians using legislation and rhetoric to attack trans people, immigrants, women and BIPOC daily. Just because itβs done with a pen and not a gun doesnβt mean itβs not political violence. Hypocrites. Not that they care.
10.09.2025 19:47 β π 1881 π 514 π¬ 35 π 7I am seeing a LOT of people misleadingly say "The senate will not pass this, they'll filibuster."
IF Democrats filibuster, that means the government shuts down. This was a major reason the NDAA restrictions on tricare for trans youth passed last time, Dems did not filibuster.
Being trans is great, but it would nicer during a time when my mere existence is not a form of protest
09.09.2025 14:43 β π 9890 π 1994 π¬ 55 π 15To my π³οΈββ§οΈ family, know that thereβs nothing more feminist & honorable than choosing to affirm your gender identity despite society telling you to be something else.
Trans women, you are showing that there is worth in being a woman, despite patriarchy telling us womanhood is something to be ashamed of
Ok, so Iβm putting this out there. If you could share this as widely as possible, Iβm hoping the creators of Ted Lasso could potentially see this and maybe have some π³οΈββ§οΈ representation in their newly announced season 4π€
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This administration's attacks on trans people aren't "a distraction" from everything else they're doing. We're not a distraction. What they're doing to trans people is the most bad thing of all - everything else being done is to distract people from the targeting of trans people for extermination.
18.02.2025 17:03 β π 1123 π 313 π¬ 26 π 24To my π³οΈββ§οΈ and queer siblings out there, I know things are scary and insane right now. It is happening and you are not crazy for seeing it for what it is.
That being said, donβt give in to despair. Weβve been here before. π§΅
Doesnβt happen to me but my YouTube feed is mostly trans people. Maybe they got the hint I want nothing to do with right wingers.
05.02.2025 20:34 β π 2 π 0 π¬ 1 π 0Honest to god, the legal orgs and attorneys need to sue one of the hospitals in one of these blue states with civil rights protections for not providing trans care to trans youth.
The lawyers at these hospitals only understand legal threats.
They are complying with Trump because they're scared.
Well said and Iβve been thinking about this a lot in the recent months.
24.01.2025 21:56 β π 1 π 0 π¬ 0 π 0And you are beautiful
03.12.2024 14:12 β π 0 π 0 π¬ 0 π 0Contradicting claims that Europe is moving away from gender affirming care, France issued new guidelines reaffirming gender affirming care for trans youth. A similar one is expected in Germany soon.
I have a feeling the New York Times won't report on this.
www.sciencedirect.com/science/arti...
I walked into that. Well played π
02.12.2024 17:55 β π 2 π 0 π¬ 0 π 0Horror video game protagonists coming across ammo early in the game before scary stuff has happened:
βHuh, just some ammo lying around in the only kitchen drawer I can open. Well, thatβs not ominous. I donβt even have a gun but I guess Iβll put it in my pocket for noooooo reason.β
What kept me sane was having a laptop in bed with me. Iβd sit on VCs with friends and partners and watch a lot of tv and play games.
02.12.2024 16:13 β π 1 π 0 π¬ 0 π 0Speak for yourself, I do it regularly lol.
02.12.2024 16:02 β π 1 π 0 π¬ 1 π 0I love scary movies but living in one for 4 years seems a little excessive.
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