Emma Minty 🏳‍⚧

Think I'm gonna spend less time on here. Comparison is the thief of joy and almost all I do here is focus on my envy for what others here have that I lack

I'm truly happy for ya'll, but I need to learn how to be happy for me first

DM me if you wanna connect on discord or text or whatevs. Love 💖

REALLY HAS TO PEE GF Are you serious, you have to pee AGAIN?? I told you not to drink all that monster before we went out! You were just in the bathroom like 45 minutes ago! We have a really good spot, are you sure you can't just hold it for the first set? *sigh* okay let's find the bathrooms

hashtag RELATABLE amirite girls

I'm desiring!

I feel that, but like, what if she's fun? We can't leave her trapped in there if she just wants to hang out and have a good time!! 🥺

Omg she was still there in the mirror this morning

Do you think she's trapped? >.>

A girl with straight light blue-green hair and a black shirt on. She has blue eyes and her hair is kind of messy

About to go to bed when I saw this cute girl in the mirror ✨

Wikipedia snippet from duckduckgo on Romance: Romance Love Romance or romantic love is a feeling of strong attraction towards another person, a mental state of being "in love" directed towards having a relationship, the courtship behaviors undertaken by an individual to express those feelings and resultant emotions, and the practice of initiating relationships based on passionate feelings over more practical or ordinary concerns. Romantic love is considered to be a motivation or drive, which is distinct from the concept of attachment. Wikipedia

Whenever I wonder if I'm aromantic, I just start looking up what romance is and then I feel like I'm an absolute alien who has never understood a single human emotion

That's amazing! I don't know anything about your work, but I know it takes an incredible amount of courage to speak in front of others like this

I'm sure you touched so many hearts and showed people how being able to be genuine to yourself is *everything*

So very proud of you 💖

In the same way where all the love and caring that I've received when struggling with my low self-esteem, my depression, my hopeless outlook on my future, all the love can't change that. I have to be the one to learn how to change my habits and thought patterns.

Only I can change myself.

One of the hardest things I've had to learn this year is that you cannot care about someone in a way that will encourage them to make good decisions.

Your love and support can help if they're looking for it, but the desire for someone to change for the better has to come from inside them

Yayyy now I gotta find someone to celebrate with hehe 💖

we deserve to bask and frolic with our bodies and hearts ✨

this honestly gives me so much hope for the future, thank you 😌

Ah woaww goodnight woww wow 👀

I would like this, it sounds very normal to me 💖

Top or bottom?
Domme or sub?
You might as well ask me if I prefer the sun over the moon, whether I prefer grass or sand, or if I give or receive penetrative sex.

I'm very much in camp "neat!" ✨

Reframing my thoughts:

I'm not weird, I'm actually a real blessing to be around and anyone who doesn't feel honored to be in my presence is missing out 😘

Just gotta keep trying to make it work

We can be the first if we believe ✨

Awwww well definitely count me in! 🥰

I feel like I was always meant to run with the dolls 💖

Still from The Good Place with the captions edited. Top half: Eleanor with her arms out, arguing, “I mean… When did Silent Hill become about feminism?” Bottom half: Chidi in front of a chalkboard for Ethics 101. A screenshot from Silent Hill 1 on the board. Screenshot is of the head cult lady proclaiming, “My daughter will be the mother of god.” Chidi argues back: “Silent Hill 1”

Whaat that would be amazing 🥺 I miss running in the sun for fun, especially around people I trust

I'm uncoordinated as hell but I'd still have a really good time!

Aww I like that! I've played guitar while others have sang along before and that's been nice. Creating music with others is beautiful! 💖

Ehehehe true, they can just unfollow me if they don't like that I get sad sometimes 🤭

(but, like, I hope they don't unfollow me! >.>)

Awwww! I believe in you, you can do it! 💖 I've never sang in a choir but singing with others like that sounds so fun and pretty ✨

You're wonderful and you reaching out truly helps ❤️

I've been working in therapy to figure out why I spiral around thoughts and emotions. My CPT homework is to write down my emotional reactions, so doing that now would probably help

Ahh that does make sense. I know depression tends to make us find ways to isolate ourselves, so the idea to not talk about it is probably the depression taking over

I think posting can be good! I kind of use it like a journal and that feels nice, especially if my words resonate with someone

You're totally right! I just get in my head sometimes. I think this might be the most followers I've ever had anywhere online, so I feel like I need to be entertaining or something. Maybe that's weird? I hope me being vulnerable is helpful in ways somehow at least.

It's something I really want to believe for myself! It's okay if someone else does it, I'm there for them, but if I do it, then I'll be judged or worse 😔

I'm trying to change this, as I'm not the most reliable person for myself sometimes

Discipline is so hard, I get that. I just have songs with parts that have always been too high for me that I keep going for

I'm too shy to sing in front of others, so it's all really for my own enjoyment. But maybe, maybe I'll karaoke or something for more than a friend or two >.>

This isn't even what I'm feeling upset about, I'm just anxious about being seen being sad. I'm having emotions about emotions

Thank you for giving me kindness and being sweet and reaching out to a stranger like me, Aurora, feeling heard and seen by you does help a little ❤️