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@nvrnorthampton.bsky.social

We are a CIC providing NVR training & support to anyone living with and/or supporting young people who may present in violent, aggressive and controlling ways. https://linktr.ee/NVRnorthampton

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Our founder Penny Ruth Willis on her Graduation Day - she was awarded her MA with Distinction

Our founder Penny Ruth Willis on her Graduation Day - she was awarded her MA with Distinction

We're enormously proud of our very own brilliant colleague, friend and founder Penny Ruth Willis - she graduated yesterday, an MA with Distinction! πŸ’œπŸŽ“πŸŽ‰

29.10.2025 21:53 β€” πŸ‘ 2    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0
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Join professionals from education, social care, youth justice, the prison service & more as they embark on our next online accredited NVR Foundation Level Training.

Designed for professionals who want to bring this transformative approach into their practice.

Starts 14 October
bit.ly/NVR-FdnL1

18.09.2025 14:28 β€” πŸ‘ 2    πŸ” 1    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
β€œBe more responsive, less reactive.” - Diane Poole Heller

β€œBe more responsive, less reactive.” - Diane Poole Heller

β€œIt’s not about being passive, it’s about being receptively present…. Say yes to the feelings, even as you say no to the behaviour.” - Dan Siegel

#NVR can help - bit.ly/NVR_BM

#ChallengingBehaviour #CPV #Adoption #FosterCare #KinshipCare #SEND #ACES #ParentalSupport #Connection #RelationalRepair

24.08.2025 13:37 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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Beautiful art in my neighborhood #art

24.08.2025 12:18 β€” πŸ‘ 9177    πŸ” 1294    πŸ’¬ 134    πŸ“Œ 52
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β€œTraditional methods of managing a child’s behaviour through punishment and reward not only have little effect, but actually make things worse: for both child and parent.” - @stuartshanker.bsky.social

#NVR can help - bit.ly/NVR_BM

#ParentalSupport #Connection #RelationalRepair

23.08.2025 16:49 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 1    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Such good news, Lisa. Sending you best wishes from all of us.

23.08.2025 16:48 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0
23.08.2025 13:31 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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πŸ’¬ β€œWe’ve tried everything & nothing works!” If you’ve heard this from the parents/ carers you support - this post is for you.

#NVR can help - join us for our online NVR Foundation Level Training, starts 2 Sept - bit.ly/NVR-FdnL1

See you there?

#NonviolentResistance

22.08.2025 15:43 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 1    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Really enjoyed doing this…

22.08.2025 15:43 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 1    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
22.08.2025 15:42 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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β€œThe pervasive misunderstanding of trauma-related behavior has a profound effect on our educational, mental health, & juvenile justice systems.” - Bruce D Perry

#NVR is a powerful, systemic approach that can help - bit.ly/NVR-FdnL1

#TraumaInformed #TraumaResponsive

21.08.2025 09:13 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Holiday homes for neurodivergent families

Avoid strong smells - from hand soap and air fresheners. They can overwhelm or make people feel sick (cherry hand soap)

Reduce textures - esp for sofas and bedding. Throws can help if seats are textured, but embroidery on duvets/ pillows can be unbearable.

21.08.2025 07:44 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 1    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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From troubled & troubling tots to teens - from violent, destructive behaviours to anxiety-based controlling & self-injurious behaviours, we’ll equip you with strategies & techniques proven to help where traditional approaches don’t seem to work.

NVR - Beginner’s Mind
9 Sept | Online

bit.ly/NVR_BM

19.08.2025 07:42 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 1    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
19.08.2025 07:38 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 1    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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πŸ“£ The Government has announced that kinship carers will be included in a new review of parental leave and pay!

Are you a kinship carer and do you want to make sure your voice is heard? Respond to the review’s call for evidence: ow.ly/5nfc50WF5UR

#SameLoveSameLeave

13.08.2025 14:04 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 1    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Self funders, we now offer 0% interest payment plans across all of our trainings through PayPal*

We do not charge any additional fees for offering these options or if you choose to use them.

*see Paypal for eligibility and T&Cs

14.08.2025 11:00 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 1    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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The objective... β€œis not to change people & their behaviour in order to get our way; it is to establish relationships based on honesty & empathy, which will eventually fulfill everyone’s needs.” - Marshall B Rosenberg

#NVR can help - bit.ly/NVR_BM

#SystemicApproach #Connection #ParentalSupport

14.08.2025 10:59 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 1    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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NVR is a powerful approach for parents who feel they’ve lost their voice, influence, or connection with their child. If you’re lying awake at night, anxious, feeling isolated, or even afraid - for your child or of them - NVR offers a way forward.

bit.ly/NVR_BM

#CPV #CPVA #NVR
#ParentalSupport

29.07.2025 11:56 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Brilliant!!! Huge congratulations @helenbonnick.bsky.social πŸ˜ŠπŸŽ‰

28.07.2025 18:46 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
A testimonial from Karen (Social Worker & Advocate) and previous attendee of our NVR Foundation level 1 course.  She said,  β€œA fantastic inspiring course! Penny and Donna have such extensive knowledge and real examples of how NVR works and is life changing for parents, children and families. Brilliant resources and delivery. I would recommend this course to all professionals…  I can't thank you enough.”

A testimonial from Karen (Social Worker & Advocate) and previous attendee of our NVR Foundation level 1 course. She said, β€œA fantastic inspiring course! Penny and Donna have such extensive knowledge and real examples of how NVR works and is life changing for parents, children and families. Brilliant resources and delivery. I would recommend this course to all professionals… I can't thank you enough.”

#NVR is a powerful, proven systemic approach that can help professionals support & empower families struggling with violent, aggressive & controlling behaviours from children & young people

NVR Foundation (L1) training
8 x bi-weekly ONLINE sessions
Starts 2 Sept
6:30 - 9:00pm BST

bit.ly/NVR-FdnL1

28.07.2025 14:20 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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β€œβ€¦everywhere you look - there are people impacted by trauma who are still misunderstood, and sometimes retraumatized, by the very systems that should be helping them.” - Oprah Winfrey

NVR can help - bit.ly/2TlRH2a

#NVR #SystemicApproach #Connection #RelationalRepair #ParentalSupport

25.07.2025 12:41 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 1    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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Autumn/Winter dates for our Online #NonviolentResistanceTraining…

For parents, grandparents, foster carers, or anyone raising children:-
β€’ NVR #BeginnersMind - bit.ly/NVR_BM

For Professionals:-
β€’ #NVRFoundation L1 - bit.ly/NVR-FdnL1
β€’ #NVRAdvanced L2 - bit.ly/NVRAdv

12.07.2025 12:09 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 1
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Across the late summer and autumn last year I spoke to parents, carers and professional about how we support families living with children's challenging behaviour. You can read my report and listen to all the interviews here.
#cpv #ccvab
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22.06.2025 18:03 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 2    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
NVR - β€˜Beginner’s Mind’ starts 9 September at 6:30pm BST

NVR - β€˜Beginner’s Mind’ starts 9 September at 6:30pm BST

Reward-and-punishment-based approaches simply do not work for all children or teenagers. There is another way…

β€˜NVR -Beginner’s Mind’
8 online, bi-weekly sessions
9 Sept, 6:30pm - 8pm (BST)

πŸ”— bit.ly/NVR_BM

For parents, grandparents, foster carers, or anyone raising children - you are not alone.

08.07.2025 06:05 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 1    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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β€œDon’t ever mistake my silence for ignorance, my calmness for acceptance or my kindness for weakness. Compassion & tolerance are not a sign of weakness, but a sign of strength.” - Dalai Lama

bit.ly/2TlRH2a

#NonviolentResistance #NVR #SystemicApproach #Connection #RelationalRepair #ParentalSupport

20.05.2025 11:10 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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Supporting Parental Alienation Awareness Day

#ParentalAlienationAwarenessDay

25.04.2025 11:54 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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β€œRelationships matter: the currency for systemic change was trust, and trust comes through forming healthy working relationships. People, not programs, change people.” - Bruce D Perry

NVR can help - bit.ly/2TlRH2a

#NVR #NonviolentResistance
#SystemicApproach #Connection
#RelationalRepair

22.04.2025 13:11 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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We are pleased to announce bookings are now open for our 10-week online NVR Advanced Level Training. Join us?

Level 2: Applied NVR Practice
Starts 20 May 2025 at 6:30pm-9:00pm BST

bit.ly/3YmJ7Ua

09.04.2025 10:14 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 1    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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via Vikki Reynolds (Facebook)

04.03.2025 00:27 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

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