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Emma Sutton

@emmalgsutton.bsky.social

#SENDMum #AutismMom #ADHDMum to two incredible adopted children. Battling for an education that fits the needs of her neurodiverse children. Expressing the reality of being a SEND parent in books and cartoons.

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An old friend broke a world record today. Most miles in a wheelchair in a single day - 152. Previous record was 113.

Mike Egan. One of the kindest, most natural leaders I know.

Congrats Mike. You make us proud.

Mike's insta: www.instagram.com/mj_egan/

Story: www.msn.com/en-us/news/w...

11.11.2025 22:35 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 88    ๐Ÿ” 11    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 3    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

When teenage boys act out or vape or fight, or get I to trouble people are keen to blame the parents

What about the government?
The years of austerity reducing staffing in schools, in youth centres, in mental health?

So that troubled youth have nowhere to go, no-one to listen?

11.11.2025 17:28 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 2    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

And several bottles of gin

11.11.2025 17:24 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

It's not good value for money - I can get a pattern book and 24 balls of wool a heckuva lot cheaper than ยฃ150 (full price)

11.11.2025 17:24 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

ยฃ85!!!
Wow, is the thread made of pure gold by Rumpelstiltskin?

11.11.2025 15:46 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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What autistic people โ€“ and those with ADHD and dyslexia โ€“ really think about the word โ€˜neurodiversityโ€™ A new UK survey of more than 900 neurodivergent adults has revealed strong feelings about the language of neurodiversity.

'What autistic people โ€“ and those with ADHD and dyslexia โ€“ really think about the word โ€˜neurodiversityโ€™
New research by @draimeegrant.bsky.social,
@dramypearson.bsky.social
& Jennifer Leigh
theconversation.com/what-autisti...

11.11.2025 14:14 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 11    ๐Ÿ” 4    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 1

Unless millions of pounds are pumped into cutting waiting lists for

* screening & diagnosis
* speech & language help
* sensory assessments
* dyslexia / dyscalcula support
* mental health help

Plus time/ energy/ knowledge & implementation of inclusive practices, then nothing will change

09.11.2025 09:41 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
edgar allan poe meme

edgar allan poe meme

08.11.2025 23:46 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 829    ๐Ÿ” 139    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 15    ๐Ÿ“Œ 5

On one hand - this story is about someone investigating safety online & deeply concerning

On the other (selfishly), I'm now questioning if chatgpt's advice about the best colour tights to wear with a party dress is going to ruin my look...

09.11.2025 09:27 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Love this - particularly the bits about Morse being better than heroin

It's strange how we don't value the creation of a family (a home, loving relationships, caring, nurture) as highly as we do more obvious creations (stuff)

09.11.2025 08:46 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Oh goodie. Another politician with no grasp of nuance, of reality, of why children struggle to attend

As a child with two years EBSA and another with periods of school refusal, I can tell you that more tests, more pressure, more rules aren't going to turn that shop around

Try inclusion, welcome

04.11.2025 07:07 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 3    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
Autumn/ Fall trees with orange and yellow leaves, above a carpet of orange & brown leaves

Autumn/ Fall trees with orange and yellow leaves, above a carpet of orange & brown leaves

This view was just an incredible celebration of autumn/fall

Yay for autumn

Little did I know that one minute later I was going to slip & fall into a stream

Full on dunk
Had to wring water out of my dress

Stupid autumn & leaves covering slippy tree roots

03.11.2025 14:54 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Back to school anxiety in the morning

It's hard to sit next to my son as he struggles in the car to school

He ripples with emotional overload

Conversation is not recommended

Deep breaths Emma, you can hold the space for him..

03.11.2025 08:14 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Getting the base layer solid so you can pick up the wreath without it all moving makes a massive difference.

If you tie the groups too tight then the baubles pop out of their hangers...

Doing the base layer upside down really helped to give a flat back.

31.10.2025 18:26 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

One you have a solid base, turn the wreath over and fill in the gaps/ build it up from the top using glue

Fill in large areas with large baubles first.

(Hot glue recommended).

Keep going until it feels balanced and complete.

Use ribbon to hang - between large baubles or the wreath tilts 2/2

31.10.2025 16:46 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Start by bundling up some large baubles in 4/5 groups - bundle with wire and attach to the frame (loosely).

Repeat until much of the frame perimeter is covered (work upsidedown on a table so it lays flat)

Then glue the groups together and to the frame. Without glue, it's hopeless 1/2

31.10.2025 16:46 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

You need 60-80 baubles of different sizes

31.10.2025 14:31 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

It took 2-3h and was deeply frustrating

But I now have tips

31.10.2025 14:31 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 2    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
Two people holding homemade baubles wreaths (left is mostly silver, right is red & gold) over their faces whilst laughing

Two people holding homemade baubles wreaths (left is mostly silver, right is red & gold) over their faces whilst laughing

Sarah: shall I buy you a metal ring & we can make baubles wreaths
Me: sounds fun

Several hours later, much gnashing of teeth & despair....

We both had something to hang up
Even if we forgot the Christmas cakes that were baking...

31.10.2025 14:21 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Went out to see Ardal O'Hanlon last night

I bought tickets on a "must get out more" buzz last year

What a crack!
We laughed throughout & had a fabulous time. Highly recommended you catch his "Not Himself" tour

Then I dreamt we became buddies & he invited me swimming.

31.10.2025 07:12 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 2    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
Large bowl of dried fruit soaking in sherry and orange juice - a spoon poking out of the mix.

Large bowl of dried fruit soaking in sherry and orange juice - a spoon poking out of the mix.

Halloween - it's a great time to honour family traditions and start on the Christmas cake

With a glass of sherry to remember my Dad and Grandma who both liked a glass before their evening meal

The smell is very evocative
Tomorrow I'll be with my twin @sarahfoxspeaker.bsky.social baking & crafting

30.10.2025 16:45 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 4    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Me: you've ยฃ10 for spending & bus fares
Teen: okay

Teen spends entire ยฃ10 on "snacks" he says he didn't like

Me: don't spend anything else or you've no bus fare
Teen: ok

Teen messages Dad asking for lunch money as he's hungry
Gets extra ยฃ10, spends on fried chicken
Still has no bus fare ๐Ÿคฆ๐Ÿป

29.10.2025 12:36 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 2    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

His sensory needs have become overwhelming, and he couldn't cope (esp with no friends for support)

At one point, he didn't go for 2 weeks

But he seemed to turn it around a bit near the end, but half term might ruin the routine again

27.10.2025 09:07 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

/ chewing & sucking helped them regulate faster

Downtime in a quiet secure bedroom with drinks and snacks helped

We vetoed homework too

27.10.2025 09:06 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

High school is a massive change for children - constant change of layout, seating, room, subject

It would take my child 3 months to learn to trust her teacher - at high school that became impossible

The post-school unmasking dysregulation is really tough

We found lollipops... 1/2

27.10.2025 09:06 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

We've had the hardest half-term ever too - after some right doozies

The move to a new school to avoid bullying has unearthed a whole host of other issues that were masked by that headliner

I need a break

27.10.2025 08:01 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

In Manchester at the literature festival

But he's touring at the moment, so catch him where you can

27.10.2025 07:59 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

At the moment we're living in "entirely unexpected" land, so I'm constantly being de-railed

It's exhausting as I'm having to rearrange plans, timings every day

27.10.2025 07:59 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

I was already a @patrickgrantism.bsky.social fan from Sewing Bee

Then I read "Less" and his passion, purpose, commitment made me a super fan (falling in love)

Last night (despite the host's annoying interruptions), he delivered that passion & knowledge in eloquent spades

I'm a convert

27.10.2025 07:12 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

I think it was just a perfect curved crisp - but there was alot of product placement in that snack cupboard

27.10.2025 07:10 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 2    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

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