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Lori (she/her)

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40-something dreamer, gamer, game designer, writer, agile coach, scrum master, professional cat juggler, and (mostly) loving wife of QueenofNoPants. Captain America and I don't like bullies.

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My wife is trans and doesn't pass. We don't feel safe going to protests as she is a primary target to both the administration & the campaign of hate against transness. Please, if you can go to a protest, do. We're calling people, donating $$ & passing on info. Please stand for us when we cannot.

25.01.2026 21:17 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 2    ๐Ÿ” 1    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Reports of my death have been premature. I am, however, still terrible at posting. I was reminded today that I have a tiny pair of antlers & for years when I had my kitty Josh, I'd put them on his head on 12/25 & see how long it took him to rip them off & plan my death. Usually it was ~ 4 seconds.

16.12.2025 22:31 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 7    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

I give primary characters temporary names - the more boring the better. After I've written a scene or 2 with them, I go back and give a new name that suits the character. I also do a quick review of the scene to make sure the new name/personality works, and end up doing some good editing.

05.08.2025 21:22 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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04.03.2025 05:17 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 2    ๐Ÿ” 1    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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Woohoo! It wasn't exactly a win, but it definitely wasn't a loss. People who are not trans or trans allies can feel a little safer knowing there's still one additional barrier between losing their own rights.

04.03.2025 00:50 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 4    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

I talked with my boss before I left for vacation. I brought her up to speed on the danger to trans folks & how it might affect my job. She was super supportive and asked me to keep her abreast of updates and changes, both in the world and my personal situation so she can support me however she can.

03.02.2025 02:01 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 5    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Back from Hawaiin and news vacation. So much has happened, been rolled back, and new atrocities proposed.

I wish the new administration had taken at least 1 government class because there are 5th graders out there who know more about how the government works than the Executive branch right now.

01.02.2025 22:01 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 2    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

The game console read to me as "Elden King." That would be hilarious: you're Jesus & you have to duck & parry weapons & slander from heathens while using bolts of holy light & crowns of thorns to take them down. Any of your blood & flesh torn off in the fight turns into bread & wine to heal you.

12.01.2025 21:21 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Being an adult means you can get mostly toys for Christmas (and the good, name brand ones you want) but also having steak, salad, and Yorkshire puddings for dinner while watching The Thin Man. I am super lucky and very privileged and I try not to forget it. Happy Holidaze to you all!

26.12.2024 07:43 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 5    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

I love that you love it so much. I also kinda wish you'd open it and read them sometime because it turns out that people really like and love you.

23.12.2024 07:00 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 2    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

I am currently playing the game, "Which of my cats is snoring?" If they had kitty c-pap devices, we'd invest. The snores are cute but loud.

05.12.2024 19:02 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

FYI: I'm speeding to my death while needing less embalming fluid than most due to the fact that the McRib is back in town again.

02.12.2024 22:22 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 4    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
WKRP Turkey Drop
YouTube video by Brian Henigin WKRP Turkey Drop

Happy Thanksgiving to those who celebrate.

28.11.2024 19:10 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 4    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
Happy Thanksgiving from the United Federation of Planets

Happy Thanksgiving from the United Federation of Planets

27.11.2024 18:08 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 128    ๐Ÿ” 32    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 1
Paper doll of Dani Utah, my OC street wizard character from a home-brew Urban Fantasy game. Blonde, white and skinny, she's like a skinny version of me.

The doll is in underthings, and ready for outfits! Text says: Oh no! Underwears! 

Then there is a mallard, with keys in his bill. Text says: Duck! You are bad!

Then one of my daily outfits; blue overalls, pinkish t-shirt, bag with a stuffed dinosaur and trans pride colored button with she/her pronouns. Tan Ked analogs. Text reads: This is definitely the outfit of a woman who would leave her keys by a dinosaur.

Then the outfit of the BAD-A trans woman, shirt-in-name-only with collar cut down to the belly button, black high-waisted short-shorts, ragged fishnets, combat boots, bolero-cut leather jacket with left sleeve missing to reveal CYBORG arm! Text reads: robut arm, anyone?

Then a Cthulhu pet that featured on the same comic that had the two aforementioned outifits, with a red, squiggly-tentacled head, a green neck with a black collar, and two tiny T. rex arms, then a lizardy body that is blue with white-striped legs and tail. Text reads: Lookit this weird dog!

Paper doll of Dani Utah, my OC street wizard character from a home-brew Urban Fantasy game. Blonde, white and skinny, she's like a skinny version of me. The doll is in underthings, and ready for outfits! Text says: Oh no! Underwears! Then there is a mallard, with keys in his bill. Text says: Duck! You are bad! Then one of my daily outfits; blue overalls, pinkish t-shirt, bag with a stuffed dinosaur and trans pride colored button with she/her pronouns. Tan Ked analogs. Text reads: This is definitely the outfit of a woman who would leave her keys by a dinosaur. Then the outfit of the BAD-A trans woman, shirt-in-name-only with collar cut down to the belly button, black high-waisted short-shorts, ragged fishnets, combat boots, bolero-cut leather jacket with left sleeve missing to reveal CYBORG arm! Text reads: robut arm, anyone? Then a Cthulhu pet that featured on the same comic that had the two aforementioned outifits, with a red, squiggly-tentacled head, a green neck with a black collar, and two tiny T. rex arms, then a lizardy body that is blue with white-striped legs and tail. Text reads: Lookit this weird dog!

Another page of weird aminals and and outfits!

Aminials are a non-JP-velociraptor, feathered and kitty-sized. Text reads: Danger Chicken!

Then a mini-dragon, drawn to sit on on the shoulder of the paper doll. Dragon has a purple body and wings, with a white belly and orange horns! Text reads: How much more boss can you get than having a dragon on your shoulders? None more boss.

First outfit is Dani Utah's actual clothes. A pink tank top with a red Gatchaman symbol on the front, tan cargo pants rolled up to mid calf, and slip-on free running shoes. Also her weird staff with a long, thin sword hidden inside. Text reads: Causal wear for the street magician on the go!

Next outfit is a leather armor set, with high boots and puffy, striped pants! Skulls feature on the spaulders, and a belt of many pouches. Also, a short sword worn across the back. Text reads: Check it! Rogue is the best type class for reasons! 

The last outfit, is the FREAKING VR-041 Saber Cyclone (if Robotech) or Ride Armor VR-041H Blowsuperior Yellow (if Genesis Climber Mospeada) The main body of the armor is blue, with white on thighs and light blue on upper arms. with trans pride color bars near the bottom of the tassets. 

Text reads: Every girl needs her own battle armor. The VR-041H Heavy Armor Cyclone comes with it's own giant switch blade!

Another page of weird aminals and and outfits! Aminials are a non-JP-velociraptor, feathered and kitty-sized. Text reads: Danger Chicken! Then a mini-dragon, drawn to sit on on the shoulder of the paper doll. Dragon has a purple body and wings, with a white belly and orange horns! Text reads: How much more boss can you get than having a dragon on your shoulders? None more boss. First outfit is Dani Utah's actual clothes. A pink tank top with a red Gatchaman symbol on the front, tan cargo pants rolled up to mid calf, and slip-on free running shoes. Also her weird staff with a long, thin sword hidden inside. Text reads: Causal wear for the street magician on the go! Next outfit is a leather armor set, with high boots and puffy, striped pants! Skulls feature on the spaulders, and a belt of many pouches. Also, a short sword worn across the back. Text reads: Check it! Rogue is the best type class for reasons! The last outfit, is the FREAKING VR-041 Saber Cyclone (if Robotech) or Ride Armor VR-041H Blowsuperior Yellow (if Genesis Climber Mospeada) The main body of the armor is blue, with white on thighs and light blue on upper arms. with trans pride color bars near the bottom of the tassets. Text reads: Every girl needs her own battle armor. The VR-041H Heavy Armor Cyclone comes with it's own giant switch blade!

MOAR Outfits, and one officially and legally-distinct non-Scooby Doo Great Dane!

The Great Dane is sitting, and has brown coloration that is COMPLETELY a few shades off from a very different dog with mild speech apraxia, and the pupper has a zombie hand in its mouth. 

Text reads: Oh for Pete's sake. What've you got in your mouth now?

The first outfit is NOT Velma Dinkley's. with a big orange turtleneck, a pleated magenta miniskirt, orange knee-high socks, and magenta Mary Jane flats. The legs that would cover the doll's legs are bruised and bear a bloody bandage on the right thigh. Text reads: Jinkies! Looks like that werewolf wasn't old man McGregor after all!

There is also a brown bag full off pointy wooden sticks, with a text note that reads: You can offer the vamps stakes for dinner.

Sigh.

Second outfit is... well, it's 1990's Jim Lee Rogue, with the yellow and green body suit, brown bolero-cut jacket, and knee-high yellow boots. Yellow gloves, too. Text reads: Who is your favorite X-Man and why is it Rogue?

Then there is a brown-haired wig with a white stripe that would cover the doll's blonde hair. Text reads: My stylist IS Pepe Le Pew. Why do you ask?

Last outfit is a weird monster-bunny onesie, with blousy sleeves that cover the hands all the way to the tips of the fingers, legs that are SUPER baggy, but tighten at the ankles for bare feet. The colors are soft trans pride. Text reads: Creepy pyjamas!

MOAR Outfits, and one officially and legally-distinct non-Scooby Doo Great Dane! The Great Dane is sitting, and has brown coloration that is COMPLETELY a few shades off from a very different dog with mild speech apraxia, and the pupper has a zombie hand in its mouth. Text reads: Oh for Pete's sake. What've you got in your mouth now? The first outfit is NOT Velma Dinkley's. with a big orange turtleneck, a pleated magenta miniskirt, orange knee-high socks, and magenta Mary Jane flats. The legs that would cover the doll's legs are bruised and bear a bloody bandage on the right thigh. Text reads: Jinkies! Looks like that werewolf wasn't old man McGregor after all! There is also a brown bag full off pointy wooden sticks, with a text note that reads: You can offer the vamps stakes for dinner. Sigh. Second outfit is... well, it's 1990's Jim Lee Rogue, with the yellow and green body suit, brown bolero-cut jacket, and knee-high yellow boots. Yellow gloves, too. Text reads: Who is your favorite X-Man and why is it Rogue? Then there is a brown-haired wig with a white stripe that would cover the doll's blonde hair. Text reads: My stylist IS Pepe Le Pew. Why do you ask? Last outfit is a weird monster-bunny onesie, with blousy sleeves that cover the hands all the way to the tips of the fingers, legs that are SUPER baggy, but tighten at the ankles for bare feet. The colors are soft trans pride. Text reads: Creepy pyjamas!

Paper dolls can be cathartic in times of existential crises. People can make the world a very not-good place to be.

Paper dolls, generally, do not.

Let's make paper dolls!

23.11.2024 19:04 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 66    ๐Ÿ” 13    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 6    ๐Ÿ“Œ 4

An almost Cat 1 Hurricane was predicted to come into parts of WA last night. We got battered, but not nearly as bad as folks further south of us. We lost power on and off but its on now. The yard (& probably our roof) is littered with giant branches. I hope everyone in the PNW is safe & warm today.

20.11.2024 18:07 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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My wife is @queenofnopants.bsky.social. She's trans. She shared this, this morning. I thought I should share it here. Stay safe, everyone.

20.11.2024 18:02 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 8    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

I finally got a new job! It starts tomorrow. The work is what I specialize in/am really good at. It's WFH. The benefits are awesome. I love my new manager. We had a call on Friday to check in about onboarding and we talked for more than 15 minutes because we liked each others' brains. Wish me luck!

18.11.2024 00:54 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 15    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 2    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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MS Word is Using You to Train AI How to turn off AI-scraping from your Word documents

Can we have a law that makes opt-out the default of all AI scraping? 3/2024, MS said they don't use your content for AI. Surprise. MS has started using your content for AI. The setting is hard to find. Open Word/Excel, click "File" in the top left, then follow the rest of the instructions here:

18.11.2024 00:48 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 3    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

I hope folks are doing as well as can be. My wife & I are taking steps to be safe if things get bad for trans adults/married gay couples. We're also securing our $$; I recommend putting $$ in an FDIC-insured account (up to $250K); the economy will be a little rocky soon w/ Trump's planned tariffs

14.11.2024 21:15 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 5    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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Hang tight, folks.

05.11.2024 22:41 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 23    ๐Ÿ” 1    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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Settling in for a nerve-wracking day. Wife and I bought ourselves some treats and I'm going to hide from the news while she gorges on it, occasionally coming up for air to tell me something she thinks I should know about the election. So glad I'm not working today.

05.11.2024 20:15 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 4    ๐Ÿ” 1    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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Trump Says Heโ€™ll Protect Women, โ€˜Like It or Not,โ€™ Evoking His History of Misogyny Polls show Donald Trump is already facing a significant deficit with female voters in his race against Vice President Kamala Harris.

"I want to protect the women...I'm going to do it, whether the women like it or not, I'm going to protect them." said Trump."

PASS THIS ON. It doesn't have to be my post you retweet. Use any method to share this, please.

Trump plans to substitute his judgment for that of every woman in America.

31.10.2024 19:33 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 3    ๐Ÿ” 1    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 1
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A good fart joke must be shared, unlike the subject matter of the joke.

29.10.2024 22:29 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 4    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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Dracula author Bram Stoker's lost story unearthed after 134 years A Bram Stoker fan stumbled upon the short story that evaded scholars and biographers for a century.

The discovery and what they've decided to do with the story is remarkable.

20.10.2024 19:51 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 2    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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We just filled out our ballots. I'll drop them in the drop box tomorrow.

For those in the Seattle area, I always recommend the Stranger's election guide. It's irreverent and unabashedly lefty, but it's well researched and almost always spot on.
www.thestranger.com/elections-20...

20.10.2024 01:06 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 15    ๐Ÿ” 5    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 1
Rogue platypus named Perry returns home #shorts
YouTube video by That Good News Girl Rogue platypus named Perry returns home #shorts

Saw this today (it's probably very old) and it immediately reminded me of you for some reason. www.youtube.com/shorts/JyDm-...

16.10.2024 19:01 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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Stop Project 2025 Comic Trump's Project 2025 is a detailed plan to shut you up, and shut you out. Donโ€™t let it do either. Read on, then vote.

I don't like to be too political. But in this case, I cannot be political enough. If you were born with female reproductive parts, Project 2025 is gunning for your rights. If you were born trans, of color, or gay, Project 2025 is gunning for your life. Please take a look, hold your nose, and vote.

16.10.2024 02:54 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 5    ๐Ÿ” 1    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

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