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Challenge Perfectionism DeepSeek’s fourth suggestion when I asked it how to develop acceptance was: 4. Challenge Perfectionism Accept that life is imperfect, and so are you. Strive for progress, not perfection. Embrace mistakes and failures as opportunities to learn and grow. "We seek spiritual progress rather than spiritual perfection." - AA Big Book I struggle with this one a lot. Being raised as the firstborn son of two pastors really put me under a spotlight. I quickly learned that I had to be, not just good, but perfect in order to be accepted.

Challenge Perfectionism

DeepSeek’s fourth suggestion when I asked it how to develop acceptance was: 4. Challenge Perfectionism Accept that life is imperfect, and so are you. Strive for progress, not perfection. Embrace mistakes and failures as opportunities to learn and grow. "We seek spiritual…

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Let Go of Control DeepSeek’s third suggestion when I asked it how to develop acceptance was: 3. Let Go of Control Recognize that many things in life are beyond your control. Focus on what you can control (your actions, attitudes, and responses) and let go of the rest. Some things are in our control and others not. Things in our control are opinion, pursuit, desire, aversion, and, in a word, whatever are our own actions. Things not in our control are body, property, reputation, command, and, in one word, whatever are not our own actions.

Let Go of Control

DeepSeek’s third suggestion when I asked it how to develop acceptance was: 3. Let Go of Control Recognize that many things in life are beyond your control. Focus on what you can control (your actions, attitudes, and responses) and let go of the rest. Some things are in our…

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Practice Mindfulness DeepSeek's second suggestion when I asked it how to develop acceptance was: 2. Practice Mindfulness Mindfulness helps you stay present and observe your thoughts, feelings, and experiences without judgment. Try meditation, deep breathing, or simply paying attention to your senses in the moment. One thing that I've learned (maybe "accepted") over the last few years is that mindfulness is not the same thing as meditation. Meditation may help a person develop mindfulness, but it's not necessary. Mindfulness is just paying attention to what's going on, right here, right now, without judgement.

Practice Mindfulness

DeepSeek's second suggestion when I asked it how to develop acceptance was: 2. Practice Mindfulness Mindfulness helps you stay present and observe your thoughts, feelings, and experiences without judgment. Try meditation, deep breathing, or simply paying attention to your…

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Understand What Acceptance Means In my last post, I did a copy and paste job of what DeepSeek thought we could do to develop more acceptance. Its first suggestion: 1. Understand What Acceptance Means Acceptance doesn’t mean giving up or agreeing with everything that happens. It means acknowledging reality without judgment or resistance. It’s about letting go of the struggle against things you can't change. Let's explore that. Acceptance, in the sense that we mean it here, can be summed up in five words: Right Now, It's Like This We don't have to like it.

Understand What Acceptance Means

In my last post, I did a copy and paste job of what DeepSeek thought we could do to develop more acceptance. Its first suggestion: 1. Understand What Acceptance Means Acceptance doesn’t mean giving up or agreeing with everything that happens. It means acknowledging…

02.02.2025 08:39 — 👍 0 🔁 0 💬 0 📌 0

Acceptance Things have been difficult lately. I've allowed myself to fall into victim mode, full of negativity and fear. What I've really been lacking in is Acceptance. So I figured, why not ask an AI how to develop more acceptance? Here's what DeepSeek had to say: Developing acceptance is a process that involves cultivating a mindset and practices that help you embrace life as it is, rather than resisting or struggling against reality. Here are some steps to help you develop acceptance: 1. Understand What Acceptance Means Acceptance doesn’t mean giving up or agreeing with everything that happens.

Acceptance

Things have been difficult lately. I've allowed myself to fall into victim mode, full of negativity and fear. What I've really been lacking in is Acceptance. So I figured, why not ask an AI how to develop more acceptance? Here's what DeepSeek had to say: Developing acceptance is a…

01.02.2025 09:02 — 👍 0 🔁 0 💬 0 📌 0

When You Quit… Quit It! It's a bit ironic that my last post on here was about creating a bunch of crap to get good at whatever it is you want to do. The Perfectionist has been strong lately, and is strong right now. He's feeding the Inner Critic with all kinds of ammo. "Why do you write? It's useless. You are meant for one thing and one thing only - to put things in boxes and move stuff around in a warehouse. That's all you've ever been and all you'll ever be. "Fuck this 'personal development' bullshit.

When You Quit… Quit It!

It's a bit ironic that my last post on here was about creating a bunch of crap to get good at whatever it is you want to do. The Perfectionist has been strong lately, and is strong right now. He's feeding the Inner Critic with all kinds of ammo. "Why do you write? It's…

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Create A Bunch Of Crap Failure is essential for growth and reaching potential. Quantity becomes quality. Focus on daily production rather than perfection. Success is in the creation, regardless of its perceived value.

Create A Bunch Of Crap

Failure is essential for growth and reaching potential. Quantity becomes quality. Focus on daily production rather than perfection. Success is in the creation, regardless of its perceived value.

13.12.2024 08:15 — 👍 1 🔁 0 💬 0 📌 0

Consciousness, Allegory, and Jesus: Insights from Neville Goddard An exploration of Neville Goddard's teachings, emphasizing that consciousness is equivalent to God, interpreting the Bible as allegorical rather than factual, and that Jesus serves as an example rather than a messianic figure.

Consciousness, Allegory, and Jesus: Insights from Neville Goddard

An exploration of Neville Goddard's teachings, emphasizing that consciousness is equivalent to God, interpreting the Bible as allegorical rather than factual, and that Jesus serves as an example rather than a messianic figure.

06.12.2024 11:50 — 👍 1 🔁 0 💬 0 📌 0

Understanding Unconditional Self-Acceptance Exploring Unconditional Self-Acceptance, highlighting the importance of recognizing that one's behavior does not define their identity.

Understanding Unconditional Self-Acceptance

Exploring Unconditional Self-Acceptance, highlighting the importance of recognizing that one's behavior does not define their identity.

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Word of the day is ‘sequaciousness’ (16th century): the slavish and reckless following of another person in matters of thought or opinion.

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Advocates of capitalism are very apt to appeal to the sacred principles of liberty, which are embodied in one maxim: The fortunate must not be restrained in the exercise of tyranny over the unfortunate.

-- Bertrand Russell

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Australia’s Macquarie Dictionary names ‘enshittification’ word of the year Australia’s Macquarie Dictionary says term captures widespread sense that things are getting worse.

Australia’s oldest dictionary of Australian English has chosen “enshittification” – a slang term referring to the deterioration of products and services online – as the word of 2024.

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This is very cool!

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Word of the day, though I’m sure no one will need it, is ‘eye servant’ (16th century): an individual who only pays attention or works hard when the boss is looking.

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This is your reminder to get a library card. They have so many services and basically all of them are free.

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