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Cilia Antoniou

@selfexpressedbabe.bsky.social

Podcast creator and host of Openly Spoken | Certified sxx, love, and relationship coach helping ambitious women with a history of toxic relationships feel deeply connected in healthy love ♥️ https://youtube.com/@openlyspoken?si=9cZ-jjhHNz8gfcFm

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What this brings to mind for me is how dangerous it is to have people in power who don’t understand the varieties and complexities of the human experience

19.02.2025 23:06 — 👍 2    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0

Healthy love doesn’t require you to:

🔸 Shrink yourself
🔸 Hide your emotions
🔸 Silence your voice
🔸 Suppress your needs

It allows you to be fully seen, heard, and valued for who you are.

#HealthyRelationships

15.02.2025 06:02 — 👍 10    🔁 3    💬 0    📌 0
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It takes TWO to be toxic. If you don’t explore how you’ve contributed to toxicity, you’ll sabotage healthy relationships.
#toxicrelationships #healingfromtoxicrelationships #healthyrelationships #love

16.02.2025 19:50 — 👍 0    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0

I’ll tell my American husband to try this. I’m German.

16.02.2025 18:14 — 👍 2    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0

Am I horrible for laughing bc of how I think the Swiss would react? I’ve been there and they don’t like Americans 😂

16.02.2025 11:20 — 👍 6    🔁 0    💬 1    📌 0

Is your rant genre specific?

16.02.2025 11:15 — 👍 0    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0

If sugar ages you, I don’t mind looking “old”

If smiling and laughing gives you wrinkles, I don’t mind looking “old”

If looking “old” means some people will overlook me or treat me in a negative way- I don’t f*cking care because those aren’t the people I’d build and nurture relationships with

16.02.2025 11:04 — 👍 0    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0

This can be a quick fix with an overlock machine/serger!

16.02.2025 08:22 — 👍 0    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0

I do kind of the opposite: find a color I like and then buy that in all the styles that brand sells it in. I’m picky about colors and mostly have neutrals in my closet so everything can go together

16.02.2025 03:59 — 👍 1    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0

If I share with you something traumatic that’s happened to me and your first question starts with “why didn’t you ___”, I want you far away from me.

15.02.2025 17:41 — 👍 308    🔁 25    💬 15    📌 2

Please stop believing we don’t owe each other anything. We owe each other so much! We owe each other love, equity, understanding, community, compassion, and much more. Don’t let this toxic hyper individualism cut you off from humanity. We’re all connected. We all need each other.

15.02.2025 19:04 — 👍 2659    🔁 1016    💬 35    📌 28

Also any and all curse words

16.02.2025 03:40 — 👍 1    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0

If you thought he cared about you, I'm going to predict that you've had problems with toxic relationships your whole life.

15.02.2025 21:02 — 👍 2    🔁 1    💬 1    📌 0

New nightmare visuals unlocked, thanks 😂

16.02.2025 03:27 — 👍 1    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0

I feel the same

16.02.2025 03:23 — 👍 1    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0

Ooo, shiny!

16.02.2025 03:13 — 👍 0    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0

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