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@freybytheway.bsky.social

Genderqueer disabled butch (they/xe). Writes cool disabled sapphic stories that are funny sometimes. Probably needs to lie down. Life is too loud. Lesbian&bi/pan solidarity is everything. Published in APEX.

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One week from today, humans! ๐Ÿ’š๐Ÿˆโ€โฌ›๐Ÿ’š

@happilander.bsky.social @kleopatraolympiou.bsky.social @freybytheway.bsky.social

27.10.2025 16:57 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 5    ๐Ÿ” 1    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 1
A small tabby and white cat curled into a ball with her paw over her eye.

A small tabby and white cat curled into a ball with her paw over her eye.

A tabby and white cat sleeping with her tongue out.

A tabby and white cat sleeping with her tongue out.

Introducing: The Ol' Razzle Dazzle (Razz for short) in her patented bun form (now with real bleps!)

17.10.2025 14:14 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
Small cat curled up with paws over her face

Small cat curled up with paws over her face

She gets it

30.09.2025 22:42 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 31    ๐Ÿ” 1    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

My wife and I just got approved to adopt a cat and I can't know how to wait now.

We're potentially meeting our matched kitty the week after next, and if all goes well we will have her home in two weeks.

26.09.2025 15:48 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 3    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
Cover of The Ruthless Lady's Guide to Wizardry by C.M. Waggoner, featuring various mystical / Victorian era symbols against a starry background.

Cover of The Ruthless Lady's Guide to Wizardry by C.M. Waggoner, featuring various mystical / Victorian era symbols against a starry background.

Reading The Ruthless Lady's Guide to Wizardry and how healing it is to see a character change from more feminine attire into men's clothes and become more attractive to her love interest after years of seeing only the opposite.

Also, it's deeply funny. Long live funny bisexuals.

26.09.2025 02:27 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Rereading the Blood Trials by NE Davenport was such a good move. I remember not caring for the ending the first time, but I loved it this time around. Maybe it's just the right book right time.

19.09.2025 23:56 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Somebody help, I did the "Don't look at the first draft, just write a second" and now I am reading both drafts and I love them both, but they're two completely different stories and I don't know which one to lock in.

I did not expect to have this problem.

18.09.2025 15:30 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

With all due respect: comfort books? No. Clever books? No. Sexy books? No. I read books for one reason and one reason only and it's sad butches. Make the butches sad and then you can have all that other stuff, idk.

17.09.2025 11:49 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 3    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

It's so interesting watching readers who talk about tropes when they clearly read very different sets of books.

Like, I understand intellectually not liking the unexpected pregnancy trope but the last time I saw that was in Twilight.

17.09.2025 11:47 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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I'm posting late today. I had a ton of errands to run this morning. I left the ranch in good paws ๐Ÿพ though while I was gone! ๐Ÿˆโ€โฌ›๏ธ #CatsOfBlueSky

16.09.2025 16:06 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 126    ๐Ÿ” 5    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 10    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Hey, I know books are expensive and money is tight right now.

But if there's a brand new book you really wanna read โ€” including my own Lessons in Magic and Disaster โ€”ย you can help get the book into way more hands by requesting it from your local library!

It's easy! Check your library's website.

16.09.2025 17:15 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 692    ๐Ÿ” 264    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 19    ๐Ÿ“Œ 37
Black and gold cover featuring triple goddess figure of Hekate, goddess of necromancy and the crossroads. Golden owls on either side and white hound around her legs.

Black and gold cover featuring triple goddess figure of Hekate, goddess of necromancy and the crossroads. Golden owls on either side and white hound around her legs.

I wrote my upcoming verse novel Hekate inspired by ancient Greek poet and playwright Euripidesโ€™ structure. I loved writing this book and was bereft when I finished it. Itโ€™s one of those stories that lingers - an intimating goddess of necromancy telling us her origins.

05.06.2025 09:22 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 463    ๐Ÿ” 61    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 34    ๐Ÿ“Œ 13

Writing horror is so weird because sometimes "there are six apples in the basket and I thought there were five" is in fact scarier than murder.

16.09.2025 11:56 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Not sure which lesbian or ace woman needs to hear this, but if dating real life men doesn't bring you joy, you can say, "I'm not attracted to men".

You don't have to be disgusted by men. You don't have to prove eternal lack of attraction to some hypothetical perfect man. Not feeling it is enough.

16.09.2025 11:53 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 2    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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Sophie ๐Ÿˆ was late this morning. ๐Ÿ˜บ #CatsOfBlueSky

15.09.2025 13:11 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 136    ๐Ÿ” 9    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 8    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

This. I had a European try and tell me that "half of America" believes in forcing 10 year olds to give birth. Only 1 in 3 Americans even believes abortion should be illegal, let alone in that specific scenario.

"Ask any evangelical." Roughly 1/4 of Americans and also all of them? Every single one?

16.09.2025 11:43 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Just so I have this straight:

Keir Starmer when Palestine Action paints a plane: Label them a terror group, arrest anyone who puts those words on a sign.

Keir Starmer when Reform racists spray paint the country for weeks, harass immigrants and attack cops: "Hey, guys, stop it. Stop it, guys."

14.09.2025 14:07 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 4    ๐Ÿ” 4    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

And there are great duology starters.

Raybearer by Jordan Ifueko is a first book of two and it has enough loose ends to tease the second book while still making the first installment a complete resolved story.

Malice by Heather Walter has a defined character arc that concludes in the first book.

13.09.2025 10:28 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Duology pet peeve: When you read the first book in a duology and it is genuinely half a story.

Like, obviously loose ends and sequel hooks are fine, but when it ends on a cliff hanger with nothing resolved? Especially when the pace is slow? That's half a book. Just edit and give me one book.

13.09.2025 10:13 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
photo of a grey and white kitten sitting on a baking tray covered with baking paper

photo of a grey and white kitten sitting on a baking tray covered with baking paper

cat loaf

13.09.2025 09:39 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 10    ๐Ÿ” 1    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Was at the library today and cried with the librarian while describing the subject of a specific book. Libraries are wonderful places. ๐Ÿ“š

12.09.2025 20:46 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 146    ๐Ÿ” 12    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 7    ๐Ÿ“Œ 1
A fox like creature with long pointy ears and a leafy tail stood in a puddle in a forest

A fox like creature with long pointy ears and a leafy tail stood in a puddle in a forest

A leafy fern fox ๐Ÿƒ๐ŸฆŠ

12.09.2025 19:01 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 781    ๐Ÿ” 218    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 11    ๐Ÿ“Œ 1
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I bought this as a litter box from Chewy. Leia's been using it as a play house and a bed.

12.09.2025 07:30 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 22    ๐Ÿ” 1    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 2    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
Photo of a missing slice of cheesecake that looks like a cheesecake hull floating in a deep blue ocean. The "ocean" is actually the blueberry topping on the large cheesecake that we don't see completely.

Photo of a missing slice of cheesecake that looks like a cheesecake hull floating in a deep blue ocean. The "ocean" is actually the blueberry topping on the large cheesecake that we don't see completely.

All I saw was cheesecake boat and ocean for at least 5 minutes

12.09.2025 17:08 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 23570    ๐Ÿ” 5176    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 416    ๐Ÿ“Œ 493

Imagining Gallifreyan relationship dynamics is fascinating.

If your partner regenerated into a person with the same memories but a completely new face/gender/personality would you still be in love? Would relationships usually end at regeneration? How do you approach a partner who's mourning you?

12.09.2025 20:51 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Ahhh, Melissa's a fantastic writer and one of my favorite people and now sheโ€™s AGENTED. Canโ€™t wait for yโ€™all to read her books! ๐ŸŽ‰

12.09.2025 16:45 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 11    ๐Ÿ” 2    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

I've joined an IRL lesbian writing group, and I'm thinking I might share some writing next week. It's really hard for me to share, especially earlier drafts, so I'm working on that.

12.09.2025 15:12 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 2    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

I do get rather tired of hearing about dudes "just sharing their opinion".

If I say, "Fantasy books are boring" I'm sharing an opinion. If I devote my career to the cause of removing all fantasy from libraries and bookstores, that's pursuing policy. It's a different thing.

12.09.2025 15:08 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

That moment where you read a story and it's so good and so inspiring, but the way it's written involves skills you're still developing so you're just kind of, "I want to write that... somehow."

12.09.2025 13:28 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

I keep hearing "this is going to justify" justify what? To who? Is there some secret fascism the GOP were sitting on until they could find the perfect justification to get Ryan on board?

Being constantly threatened with "more" loses its impact when we've spent years watching more happen regardless.

12.09.2025 04:29 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

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