BMFwashere (they/them)

@bloodandsmoke.bsky.social I’m reading The Shining for the first time, and Wendy is lowkey a badass!!!

“Fuck your job.” YESSSS SIS.

what them graphics giving? 👀

i, myself.

am a “tits first, legs next.” girlie.

that’s just me. even in winter, you may see a little nipple. 😘

the way Janet Jackson gobbled up that All For You dancebreak!!!!

tits, popped. face SAT. legs
👏🏾at work.

AWW MY GIRLS AT DA PARTY. look at dat bawdy 👀.

“guess i’m gonna have to ride it tonite 🤷🏾‍♂️.” BREAK

i did this yesterday to a guy in the neighborhood. i didn’t mean to, but said aloud “well fuck you, too!” 😬🤷🏾‍♂️

OMG THANK U FOR SHARING THIS

hot.

“stay away from my window; stay away from my back door, too.

disconnect the telephone line; relax baby, and draw that blind.”

tonight’s…the night. 😘

no one’s giving you what Janet Jackson does; no one ever will MY LOVE.

“all my life i’ve waited; to see your smiling face again.

i want you; to come back to me.”

i feel like pickled jalapeños understand me on a profoundly deep level.

cause one thing i KNOW. is that mundane male culture is a very simple snake eating its own tail.

getting caught in a man-loop is reductive and silly, especially in this year of our communal resource and knowledge access 2025. boy, bye. lol

that in mind. i think it’s very important work to take our time and attention away from violent patriarchal structures and individuals.

and instead say, how can i repurpose this energy into sustainably uplifting vulnerable communities, and those who are regularly harmed?

i value no man and no form of acceptance more than i value my RIGHTS, and fundamental equality for all those harmed by violent men, their cohort and the systems designed to protect patriarchal violence.

and that’s never changing for me.

one thing i’m learning abt the longevity of my work is that the motivation has to be *well-centered*

we fight the patriarchy, yes. but at certain point, we have to prioritize pouring into those folks HARMED by patriarchy.

what do we do girls?

we shout LOUDER. 🤷🏾‍♂️

word.

LMAO!!!!!

me: stop this train!

damn.

me.

i like those shorts! very Janet circa Metamorphosis residency promo.

i watched the Luther Vandross documentary last nite. and sometimes one just needs to be a fag.

all those silences were so heavy.

“i wanna thank u for giving me TIME TO BREATHE.”

i mean.

*walks in the room*
*blinks. yawns.*
*waits two counts*

“WHAT A GIRL WANTS. WHAT A GIRL NEEEEEDS.

Come on!”

what happened?

[restaurant]

ME: the lady will have the goat tits

WAITER: you mean rack of lamb

ME: *whispers to my hand puppet* check out mr fancypants over here

😂

i love when ppl are watching Buffy for the first time.

buckle up, babe!