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30-something ancom. Black & gq, they/them πŸ³οΈβ€βš§οΈ. neurodivergent, disabled spoonie, & caregiver to disabled parent. fuck fibro. jewelry & candle maker

36 Followers  |  68 Following  |  49 Posts  |  Joined: 12.09.2025  |  1.8028

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a man is crying while laying on a couch and asking for help . Alt: a man is crying while laying on a couch and asking for help .

family is drowning in debt β€”
- internet & cable have been cut off
- electricity & gas are next
- food?
- i can’t afford new brakes
- sibling has cancer (newest horrible thing that’s happened, not to mention the $$$ aspect)
- house needs repairs

& i’m suddenly (unpaid) caregiving for a 2nd person

03.12.2025 23:21 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

so tired & weak today… & i wake up feeling completely wiped out

03.12.2025 21:27 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

why tf is pain so bad tonight

02.12.2025 07:23 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

tfw you’re on your way out the door but the receptionist calls your childhood crush’s name & you’re torn between curiosity & getting tf out before he (if it’s even the same he) sees you (even tho you’re much cuter & slightly more social now)

01.12.2025 17:08 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

what a horrible week

27.11.2025 02:32 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

one of the coolest things about ChatGPT is how you can actually just never use it. you can fill your whole entire life with simply not once using it. it's incredible.

25.11.2025 16:15 β€” πŸ‘ 23055    πŸ” 6632    πŸ’¬ 251    πŸ“Œ 285

…wrong acct but my point still stands

26.11.2025 05:45 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

like i still can’t even believe that made it to the stage. filmed a whole pilot, media interviews, & not one of them stopped & said β€œhey maybe that’s not a good idea”

no, i’m not gonna β€œtrust the process,” what got presented is transmisogynistic slop & y’all should say so

26.11.2025 05:43 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

they came up w/ the most transphobic revenge plot of the year, played by cis ppl, & all the stans are in the qrts like β€œomg what amazing rep 😍 diversity! a gl romance between a trans & a woman! don’t criticize, the author consulted psychiatrists, just wait til it airs! love is love”

🫠

26.11.2025 05:43 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0
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β€œThey’ll Be Street Kids”: From a Mother of Five to Caregiver of 36 Orphaned Grandchildren in a Tent - Quds News Network Inside a tent in a Gaza City neighborhood, Tita Reda Aliwa prepares a single meal for her 36 grandchildren. They jostle each other, each hoping to get just one spoonful of lentils.

"From tragedy to survival: One grandmother cares for 36 grandchildren after losing her five sons in Israeli attacks during the genocide in Gaza. Here’s the story of Tita Reda Aliwa."

24.11.2025 04:33 β€” πŸ‘ 34    πŸ” 18    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

there hasn't been even a single moment of good sims news in so long 😩

24.11.2025 02:45 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

lmao how did i manage to get the key that uses a battery size different from all the other nissans?!!!

having such a shitty night & this… hysterical

23.11.2025 03:19 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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TikTok Star Girlalala Dies at 21 as Boyfriend Is Arrested on First-Degree Murder Charge The creator, who had hundreds of thousands of followers, worked as a hairstylist in Pompano Beach, Fla.

Black trans women are paid dust by cis people and trans people. 21 is too young for a trans girl to die. It's not fucking fair. But per the course, Girlalala will be lost in a sea of stories of trans women of color who aren't as loved or as protected as we should be.

May she rest in peace.

18.11.2025 20:49 β€” πŸ‘ 960    πŸ” 540    πŸ’¬ 10    πŸ“Œ 12

i’m not at all convinced that my existence on this planet isn’t a huge mistake.

16.11.2025 22:28 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

seriously? i’m being yelled at for NOT saying anything.

16.11.2025 21:58 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

2 well known disability advocates have died this week…

15.11.2025 07:45 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Just an incalculable loss from which we won’t soon recover.

Alice was the best of us and I hope we all do (or keep doing) the kind of good work that burnishes her memory.

Fuck ableism. β€œDon’t let the bastards grind you down.”

15.11.2025 06:11 β€” πŸ‘ 381    πŸ” 119    πŸ’¬ 2    πŸ“Œ 1

oh my god

rip alice

15.11.2025 07:02 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

my dr thinks my not-panic-attacks are panic attacks but as i’m on the verge of an actual panic attack i can say with all certainty that they’re nothing alike

i need to get ready for an event tomorrow & i can’t find the right thing so i’ve been running around looking everywhere

15.11.2025 04:06 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

new brakes or groceries… 😭

13.11.2025 20:25 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

no matter how much you get paid, it’s never enough. car repairs alone will wipe out most of it, but this is my only chance to make the repairs. making a grocery list (after months of only eating saltines & buttered pasta) should not be this terrifying

13.11.2025 17:42 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

I feel like this whole focus on the idea that releasing the Epstein files will topple Trump gives the deeply flawed impression that rapists - especially powerful ones - frequently get punished.

12.11.2025 22:19 β€” πŸ‘ 28    πŸ” 6    πŸ’¬ 2    πŸ“Œ 0

β€œwe’re all gonna get it” is every bit as defeatist and doomerist as β€œwe can’t do anything about climate change”. why do so many who are so fervent about protecting the environment refuse to acknowledge this? is our collective health not equally important?

12.11.2025 23:00 β€” πŸ‘ 78    πŸ” 17    πŸ’¬ 3    πŸ“Œ 1

This is important. Please give if you can.

12.11.2025 07:19 β€” πŸ‘ 41    πŸ” 42    πŸ’¬ 2    πŸ“Œ 0

People are in denial about how quickly they could become disabled, unhoused or food insecure

It can happen to anyone & it can happen in an instant

Folks act like those receiving assistance have failed

That they should β€œtry harder”

The system is rigged. It’s failed us, not the other way around

12.11.2025 08:12 β€” πŸ‘ 933    πŸ” 320    πŸ’¬ 24    πŸ“Œ 14

is it just me or are ppl so much worse lately about using the right names & pronouns???

11.11.2025 20:12 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

my brakes are so bad

11.11.2025 19:34 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Sometimes when people ask me why I’m wearing a mask I say I’m traveling or have some important thing soon and can’t afford to get sick and miss it and that’s pretty much always true but I think it would be nice if it were more normalized to just say β€œI don’t want to get sick” and leave it at that

08.11.2025 16:49 β€” πŸ‘ 3637    πŸ” 483    πŸ’¬ 6    πŸ“Œ 110
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The government disables you, culture does the rest.

11.11.2025 01:11 β€” πŸ‘ 423    πŸ” 133    πŸ’¬ 3    πŸ“Œ 4

fuck, i’m $70 short…

05.11.2025 04:43 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

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