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@memoirsofadoodle.bsky.social

Gay๐Ÿณ๏ธโ€๐ŸŒˆ|Dog Dad๐Ÿพ|Ophiuchus โœจ๏ธ|Plant lover ๐ŸŒฟ| Sober| wanderer trying to find his place in the world โค๏ธ

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Latest posts by memoirsofadoodle.bsky.social on Bluesky

I feel I have to be a different version of myself to attract a guy, but it would feel disingenuine. Why can't I just be me?

If opposites attract, then he must have an uno reverse card

Last relationship that didnt start online was in 2013

Do DMs really work?

Why is dating so hard?

#gay #single

11.02.2026 04:07 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 2    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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#bento #sidedish #Cucumbers #lunch #mealplan

11.02.2026 02:26 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 2    ๐Ÿ” 1    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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#bento #steak #lunch #single #mealprep

10.02.2026 12:31 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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#bento #steak #lunch #single #mealprep

10.02.2026 04:32 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

@nonzerosumjames.bsky.social thanks for the like :) hope you're doing well today

10.02.2026 01:17 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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When life gives you a yellow squash.... #funny #diy #creative #video #yellow #cooking #kitchen #viral #gay #lgbtq #bird #foodie #yellowbird

09.02.2026 13:50 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 5    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Adorbs ๐Ÿ˜

09.02.2026 00:42 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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Dancing while meal prepping to Daft Punk Discovery. This was my first CD I ever bought as a teenager. #dancing #cooking #music #daftpunk #discovery #lipsyncing #gay #lgbtq

05.02.2026 03:54 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 5    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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#bento #beef #foodie #lunch #single #meal

05.02.2026 03:37 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 3    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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#bento for one. #foodie #lunch #single

03.02.2026 01:11 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

For context, I said my back is sore from shoveling snow. I was hoping for I'll massage you if I was there, but instead he replied to the shoveling snow but not my sore back. Completely ignored the physical touch opportunity in the future. #single #dating #gay #lgbtq

27.01.2026 21:56 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

If you text something that's an open invitation to a person who's love language is physical touch, but they never directly response it, should I let it go or let my mind wander?

27.01.2026 21:56 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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#bento #foodie #lunch

27.01.2026 04:25 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Date #3 went well. He came over to my place. I made us hot pot. Watched anime and made out. Its a BIG deal to get to date #2 and even bigger to get to #3. I'm looking forward to what's next. #dating #relationship #single. #lgbtq #gay

26.01.2026 04:50 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Gameboy SP and Sapphire Ruby Emerald. The remake was ok but hated you got a legendary upfront mid game. But the step forward in graphics was very nice

22.01.2026 14:08 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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Korean flank steak with chimichurri sauce in the container. Shishito peppers and some Korean Style baby potatoes with a sweet soy sauce glaze. #bento #korean #lunch

20.01.2026 21:30 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Had date #2 today and man.... the kissing was perfect. You can say we were....lip syncing ๐Ÿ™ƒ #gay #lgbtq #kissing #dating

19.01.2026 05:29 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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Build a team of pokemon using the first letter of your name #pokemon

17.01.2026 01:28 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Build a team of Pokรฉmon using the first letter of your name

16.01.2026 20:20 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 4    ๐Ÿ” 1    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 1

Dark side

16.01.2026 04:48 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

๐Ÿคฃ if you didnt point out the typo

14.01.2026 22:27 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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Reposting due to typo ๐Ÿ˜…

Last week's photo. Not bad for a late day parking garage lighting #Selfie #gay #single #goodlighting

14.01.2026 22:00 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 3    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

I swear.... these dating apps are just swiping games at this point. Nobody takes filling out their profiles seriously or knows how to have an actual conversation ๐Ÿ˜ฎโ€๐Ÿ’จ

Anybody have recommendations that's not #Tinder, #Hinge, or #Bumble?

#dating #single #lgbtq #gay #virginia #apps #datingapps

14.01.2026 21:52 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 4    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

And now its a follow :)

14.01.2026 21:47 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Too much man beauty in one photo ๐Ÿซ 

14.01.2026 03:44 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

One might find soaking in a tub relaxing and the other might find tea and a book relaxing. One might love sports and the other can binge the Great British Bake off. But both dont feel left out or bothered by their preference. Gives the relationship space to breath. I think that's how it should be ๐Ÿฅฐ

11.01.2026 22:04 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Both Ambitious, both love to travel, both can communicate on each other's level and discuss similar interests, movies, politics, life experience etc. Independency is just enough opposites to have their own life outside relationship. One person might hiking vs the other might like biking...

11.01.2026 22:04 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

I think you need similar goals + your own independency to make it long lasting. Goals offer both of you the same mindset to move forward together, while having your own independency allows you to be your own person without changing what your interests are etc. Example...

11.01.2026 22:04 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

I had a discussion w/ a friend of mine about relationships. He made a valid point and I added to it to make it more balanced. To make a relationship you need 2 things; platonic love + erotic love. You need both friendship and physical compatibility for it to = relationship. Additionally...

11.01.2026 22:04 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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Clean shaven #gay #lgbtq #shaving #virginia

08.01.2026 03:35 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

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