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CEnv. Nature, train journeys, walks in the hills. Autistic. LGBT. Parent to a fab daughter who types to communicate. AAC, SEND, inclusion. She / her. Avoiding the dead bird app.

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14.08.2025 17:57 β€” πŸ‘ 4    πŸ” 1    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
A quote from a focus group participant

'The system's baffling. Nobody really has got the time to sit down and do it... It's a full-time job in itself just doing all the paperwork basically.'

A quote from a focus group participant 'The system's baffling. Nobody really has got the time to sit down and do it... It's a full-time job in itself just doing all the paperwork basically.'

A quote from a focus group participant

'It is a bit of a head mess, to be quite honest, the benefit system. ...The headache that they put people through, like who - when you're actually going through the stress of it all, who's even got the time or the mental capability to even go through another form?'

A quote from a focus group participant 'It is a bit of a head mess, to be quite honest, the benefit system. ...The headache that they put people through, like who - when you're actually going through the stress of it all, who's even got the time or the mental capability to even go through another form?'

Having to fill out lots of forms on top of the stress of caring for a disabled person or coping with a disability can be tiring and time-consuming.

Read more about the reality of many disabled people and carers here: buff.ly/u26GnmA

12.08.2025 15:35 β€” πŸ‘ 13    πŸ” 3    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

Once the language of hate is normalised this sort of incident becomes inevitable

12.08.2025 07:09 β€” πŸ‘ 988    πŸ” 372    πŸ’¬ 66    πŸ“Œ 14

uhhh

11.08.2025 15:58 β€” πŸ‘ 54    πŸ” 13    πŸ’¬ 2    πŸ“Œ 0
Motasem A Dalloul’s last message posted on X.

It has 3 SOS emojis and says:
Any rescue volunteers
We’re under fire
We’re torn to pieces
Helppp

Motasem A Dalloul’s last message posted on X. It has 3 SOS emojis and says: Any rescue volunteers We’re under fire We’re torn to pieces Helppp

BREAKING: According to reports, Israel has bombed the home of prominent Gaza journalist, Motasem A Dalloul. At least 10 are dead.

Israel is exterminating journalism in Gaza, prior to enacting its final solution.

The war crime of the 21st century is unfolding live & the world is just watching.

11.08.2025 19:47 β€” πŸ‘ 663    πŸ” 415    πŸ’¬ 20    πŸ“Œ 31
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a white cat is laying on its back on the floor and says `` hello . hello ... '' Alt: a white cat is laying on its back on the floor and says `` hello . hello ... ''

πŸ‘‹ We’ve left the other place and hoping to find a home here.

If you love unpaid carers, the people who support them or are one, do say hi.

We’d love to connect πŸ˜„

14.02.2025 14:00 β€” πŸ‘ 19    πŸ” 8    πŸ’¬ 7    πŸ“Œ 2
NPR: Defense Secretary Pete Hegseth reposts video of pastors saying women shouldn't vote

NPR: Defense Secretary Pete Hegseth reposts video of pastors saying women shouldn't vote

You know how people called women hysterical for predicting the right wing would take down Roe v. Wade (which they've done) and then attack access to birth control (which they're doing)?

Hear me when I say that women's very right to vote is next.

www.npr.org/2025/08/09/n...

11.08.2025 17:15 β€” πŸ‘ 6686    πŸ” 2658    πŸ’¬ 272    πŸ“Œ 201
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Autism assessment frogs the last thing autistics see before they die, scientists confirm A groundbreaking study has reportedly discovered that the flying frogs from the ADOS assessment appear to autistic people before they die. The study found that the frogs from the book Tuesday, used…

The study found that the frogs from the book Tuesday, used in the standard autism assessment, appear to autistic people in their final moments. In these visions, they seemingly explain the story, allowing autistics to pass to the other side finally at peace.

11.08.2025 17:01 β€” πŸ‘ 93    πŸ” 14    πŸ’¬ 8    πŸ“Œ 6
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Jon Williams from @rorypecktrust.bsky.social : "The murder of 6 journalists in a single incident is one of the worst attacks on journalists ever... killing and targeting journalists is a war crime"

11.08.2025 14:22 β€” πŸ‘ 1022    πŸ” 402    πŸ’¬ 29    πŸ“Œ 15

Loved this when it came out 20 years ago (gulp), still one of my all-time favourites today.

11.08.2025 15:36 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
β€œWe have had the police knocking on every door,” said a dog walker and resident of Dean, as a helicopter buzzed overhead. β€œThey wanted the names of everybody living there and details of their social media. I know several people refused. We asked them if they were protecting us, or Vance. At least they were honest and said it is for him and that it will all be passed on to the American security people.”

β€œWe have had the police knocking on every door,” said a dog walker and resident of Dean, as a helicopter buzzed overhead. β€œThey wanted the names of everybody living there and details of their social media. I know several people refused. We asked them if they were protecting us, or Vance. At least they were honest and said it is for him and that it will all be passed on to the American security people.”

Buried in The Observer yesterday was this: UK police knocking on doors demanding details of social media accounts of people, to pass to a foreign government, simply because they happen to live near where a US politician wanted to have a holiday observer.co.uk/news/nationa...

11.08.2025 06:59 β€” πŸ‘ 1514    πŸ” 1007    πŸ’¬ 111    πŸ“Œ 242

β€œWould it be easier if I just call you?”

Nope, texting is working just fine, thank you.

10.08.2025 13:41 β€” πŸ‘ 408    πŸ” 54    πŸ’¬ 8    πŸ“Œ 4

We are on a bullet train to the end of US science, and possibly the country as a whole, when political appointees are reviewing every scientific grant submitted to NIH to determine if The Regime finds the science acceptable.

07.08.2025 22:28 β€” πŸ‘ 945    πŸ” 282    πŸ’¬ 32    πŸ“Œ 17
Screenshot of an email: Hi Rachel,
 
Thank you for contacting us about the article you’ve seen.
 
We want our stores to be inclusive and welcoming places for our colleagues and customers. We have written to this customer and explained that our colleagues typically work across all departments in our stores and customers can always ask to speak to the colleague they feel most comfortable with.
 
We also explained that our colleague was asking a customer if they needed help; they were not working on bra fit or offering this.
 
Thank you again for getting in touch.

Screenshot of an email: Hi Rachel, Thank you for contacting us about the article you’ve seen. We want our stores to be inclusive and welcoming places for our colleagues and customers. We have written to this customer and explained that our colleagues typically work across all departments in our stores and customers can always ask to speak to the colleague they feel most comfortable with. We also explained that our colleague was asking a customer if they needed help; they were not working on bra fit or offering this. Thank you again for getting in touch.

I wrote to M&S about the stupid lingerie department story - confirms nobody offered a bra fitting to a teenage girl. The Telegraph and JK can (always) do one.

08.08.2025 09:36 β€” πŸ‘ 1875    πŸ” 646    πŸ’¬ 39    πŸ“Œ 62

Great history thread and & lots of parralels between Section 28 & present day attacks on trans rights.

While it's human and fair to feel deeply frustrated at fighting the same battles of decades ago all over again, seeing how similar storms have been weathered in the past can give us hope.

21.06.2025 10:36 β€” πŸ‘ 25    πŸ” 9    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 1

M&S isn't a women only space. The lingerie section can be located right next to any other department, including menswear. The hate has cooked her brain.

06.08.2025 12:13 β€” πŸ‘ 110    πŸ” 46    πŸ’¬ 5    πŸ“Œ 0

JK Rowling will not rest until she has eliminated trans people from the public sphere. I get furious when I remember pseudo-liberals insisting to me that she wasn’t a bigot and had been terribly defamed. Presumably they’ve got the message by now

06.08.2025 12:30 β€” πŸ‘ 348    πŸ” 90    πŸ’¬ 28    πŸ“Œ 2
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Just spent a while rushing around campus in pursuit of a weird, buzzy insect that turned out to be a humming-bird hawkmoth: my first ever encounter with this amazing species. Big credit to the estates and sustainability teams @universityofleeds.bsky.social for encouraging biodiversity. #teammoth

06.08.2025 12:38 β€” πŸ‘ 100    πŸ” 17    πŸ’¬ 6    πŸ“Œ 0

(As a side note, GC activists love to emphasise pregnancy and birth as an experience of β€œwomanhood” that needs to be protected but, quite apart from how false that is as a binary in terms of who can get pregnant, it’s also nonsense in terms of who you might interact with as a pregnant person.)

06.08.2025 12:21 β€” πŸ‘ 114    πŸ” 5    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 2

Just today I asked a male (!!!!!!) shop assistant in Boots about maternity pads. This level of proposed segregation by sex is truly Victorian in its morality and moral panic.

06.08.2025 11:30 β€” πŸ‘ 880    πŸ” 135    πŸ’¬ 24    πŸ“Œ 4
JK Rowling tweeting got a boycott of M&S, stretching facts to the breaking point, and making the world a worse place for absolutely everyone.

JK Rowling tweeting got a boycott of M&S, stretching facts to the breaking point, and making the world a worse place for absolutely everyone.

The employee asked the girl and her mother if they needed help shopping. That’s it. That’s all. The misinformation, the insinuations (because the facts are inconveniently benign) are EXACTLY what was done to lesbians in the 80s. This is the product of hate and fear, not reality.

06.08.2025 09:39 β€” πŸ‘ 6385    πŸ” 1895    πŸ’¬ 185    πŸ“Œ 267

10/10
πŸ“„ Read the full response and our analysis here: buff.ly/7e3NoBB

#StopTheCuts #AccessToWork #DisabilityRights #OpportunitySecurityRespect

06.08.2025 13:30 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 2    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

9/10 The Gov says it's still consulting on Access to Work. But people are losing support NOW. This erodes trust and threatens the future of workplace accessibility.

06.08.2025 13:30 β€” πŸ‘ 2    πŸ” 2    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

8/10 Finally, many of you have told us that the Access to Work scheme is already being quietly dismantled with support reduced or withdrawn without explanation.

06.08.2025 13:30 β€” πŸ‘ 2    πŸ” 2    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

Feedback from the mysterious LA panel about my daughter, I paraphrase:

"How can a child be academically able, and yet so disabled?"

Ignorance and low expectations are entrenched. Funding of the required access adjustments is vital.

Young people with SEND deserve equitable access to education.

05.08.2025 11:15 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 1    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

In the UK, being disabled means proving you’re struggling - but not too much.

Needing help - but not being β€œdependent".

Masking - then being told you’re fine.

The system is designed to break us.

But our needs are valid.

And we won’t disappear quietly.

05.08.2025 07:32 β€” πŸ‘ 44    πŸ” 9    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 1

I’ve noticed a strange, paradoxical mentality in some people who seem to simultaneously believe that London is basically Gotham City - terrifyingly full of crime and fundamentally unsafe - but also that the people who live there know nothing of β€˜real struggles’?

04.08.2025 11:08 β€” πŸ‘ 578    πŸ” 78    πŸ’¬ 25    πŸ“Œ 11

"...research shows that for people providing 50 hours or more of unpaid care a week, the health impact of being a carer is equivalent to losing 18 days of full health each year."

01.08.2025 13:40 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

They want to take us back to the 19th century when women knew their place and were forced to rigidly conform to gender norms. Yet they claim to be supporting women's rights.

01.08.2025 09:39 β€” πŸ‘ 2    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

'EHCPs are not golden tickets or magic wands. They are tools that work when implemented properly. The law isn’t the problem. The problem is the refusal to implement itβ€”and the effort to convince you that the law itself is to blame.'
Same in Wales. Result? Worse ALN system & not implemented properly.

01.08.2025 08:42 β€” πŸ‘ 3    πŸ” 2    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

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