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Tom Zimbardo

@tommostlyzen.bsky.social

Neuropsychologist, Mad Dok, Ork Enthusiast, Ukraine Supporter, Dogfather

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Your assumption that I’m neurotypical is wrong, along with the rest of your assumptions

10.05.2025 21:00 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

That’s a really horrible response. You have no idea who I am. I’ll chose to be compassionate rather than being mean back

10.05.2025 20:06 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 2    πŸ“Œ 0

I’ve never worked in trans services but I am a clinician and I’ve had trans patients and been cool with them. Sorry if you or people you know have had bad ones

10.05.2025 17:50 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

Definitely - there’s a thing called diagnostic overshadowing which is when someone has one label, people often think *everything* is due to that label, when in fact people can have several things going on at the same time, all of which need to be identified

10.05.2025 17:49 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

I don’t think you can coerce someone into an autism assessment - the waiting lists are unacceptably long though - there are biological brain differences for some trans people like sexually dimorphic nucleus etc… if anything that validates being trans I’d say

10.05.2025 17:47 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

Thanks for agreeing with the logic. I do accept some people could exploit this in bad faith and hope that this isn’t the case too often

10.05.2025 17:46 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

Cis Straight male and ADHD here - I accept you and hope it’s helps you understand yourself and feel happier ❀️

10.05.2025 17:45 β€” πŸ‘ 4    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

And that’s not to knock anyone who is genuinely trans, just that it’s not always the answer for everyone. Being gay is hard and being trans is even harder no doubt.

Anyway, just trying to be kind and open minded. Take care ❀️

10.05.2025 17:43 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 3    πŸ“Œ 0

But I do worry that some kids, especially girls, who don’t fit in with typical girls, might think being trans is the answer when being gay and/or autistic might be closer to what’s going on

10.05.2025 17:42 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 10    πŸ“Œ 0

I’ve got a friends daughter who is waiting for an autism assessment. Also thinks she might be non binary. Not sure who she finds attractive cos it’s not cool to ask 14 year olds that unless you know them very well. Kindness and acceptance is what’s important

10.05.2025 17:41 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

I mean there could be some people who want to pretend it’s all autism and no one is trans, but these things aren’t mutually exclusive. We need to accept people whether they’re trans, autistic, gay or whatever

10.05.2025 17:40 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 3    πŸ“Œ 0

There are higher rates of being autistic and other sorts of neurodiversity in trans people though, and also higher rates of being trans in autistic people too, so it’s not completely daft to assess people for this. Pre-natal testosterone for example can affect neurodiversity and gender identify too

10.05.2025 17:30 β€” πŸ‘ 2    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 8    πŸ“Œ 1

Probably should have tweeted about it earlier really πŸ˜‚ what are people called Tweets on Bluesky anyway? Miaows?

10.05.2025 17:18 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

It’s Pye Corner Audio that has be come to hear because of his track Storm Cloud in the YouTube video above @headtech.bsky.social is his handle on here and here’s the gig

bsky.app/profile/seve...

10.05.2025 17:18 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

Looking forward to hearing you and the others tonight man 😁

10.05.2025 17:16 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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Two weeks to go - a lot of interest in this - cracking line up! Banco de Gaia+ @headtech.bsky.social + @warringtonruncorn.com as part of the The Seventh Wave Festival of Electronic Music: 15 at The Castle and Falcon in B'ham. Tickets skiddle.com/g/theseventh... (also available at See Tickets)

26.04.2025 17:22 β€” πŸ‘ 6    πŸ” 1    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 1
Acid Hibernation (Acid Ambient Techno Downtempo IDM Mix)
YouTube video by Voggl242 Acid Hibernation (Acid Ambient Techno Downtempo IDM Mix)

Going to an electronic music night at the Castle and Falcon in Birmingham. Think it’s gonna be ambient acid type stuff like this youtu.be/eAML6sGrqV0?...

10.05.2025 17:15 β€” πŸ‘ 4    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0
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Be

10.05.2025 11:28 β€” πŸ‘ 3    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Yeah it’s been fun so far. A welcome distraction from the real world

10.05.2025 11:16 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

We have been watching all of the Star Treks, in chronological order of the in universe timeline, in an attempt to ignore the monsters (Trump and Musk). So far we are up to Deep Space Nine season one

10.05.2025 09:32 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0
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Om nom nom…

10.05.2025 09:20 β€” πŸ‘ 4    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Only if it’s a 30 min or less Power Nap. If you exceed 30+ mins you go into the deeper sleep phase and you’ll wake up feeling groggy #SleepNeuroscience

09.05.2025 11:55 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Sausage doesn’t translate well from one culture to another I don’t think. In Mississippi they have this brand of spiced sausage called Country Pleasin’ and it’s like if German and Italian sausages had babies. Nothing like it over here

08.05.2025 16:55 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

I’m ok thanks - been diagnosed with ADHD recently, so am processing that but it makes sense of a lot of things. Work is ok and wife and dog are still lovely - how are you doing?

08.05.2025 08:41 β€” πŸ‘ 4    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

Good luck 🀞

08.05.2025 08:22 β€” πŸ‘ 2    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

Haha well for me that would be Characteristically Grumpy. Will see if ADHD meds help later this summer I think. Earl Grey Tea at 2pm seems to have the best effect so far though #MadSkyChat

07.05.2025 19:30 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

Nope and I think they are still figuring out how it works. There have been studies here but it’s not legal medicine yet. There’s a documentary called Magic Medicine. It’s provisionally good for depression and end of life care #MadSkyChat

07.05.2025 19:26 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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Oh, also I typed #MadSkyCat earlier and I had to ask the AI to draw me a Mad Sky Cat - here’s what it did #MadSkyChat

07.05.2025 19:25 β€” πŸ‘ 3    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

So I’m going to wait until I’ve done that before I try any ADHD meds. Am currently meds free after withdrawing from my citalopram last year #MadSkyChat

07.05.2025 19:24 β€” πŸ‘ 2    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 2    πŸ“Œ 0

I could try meds. If I do it won’t be until July though, because in June I am going to Holland to do some psychedelic psychotherapy training. It’s a combination of Acceptance and Commitment Therapy and Psilocybin (magic mushrooms πŸ„) #MadSkyChat

07.05.2025 19:23 β€” πŸ‘ 3    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 3    πŸ“Œ 0

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