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Latest posts by torentylfa.bsky.social on Bluesky

I finally made the decision to delete twitter off my phone! I only use on the desktop now to promo videos. Itโ€™s ready to become such a bog of hate i canโ€™t anymore

20.09.2025 15:20 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 49    ๐Ÿ” 4    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 5    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Immunocompromised isnโ€™t always visible. Mineโ€™s tied to trauma, mental health, and systemic neglect. Fatigue isnโ€™t laziness. Isolation isnโ€™t weakness. I fight battles you donโ€™t see and I do it with fire in my bones. #ChronicIllness #Advocacy

02.09.2025 08:34 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

There has been a fault with wifi connection so won't be fixed until Tuesday due to it being,a bank holiday weekend: they'll be coming between 1 pm - 6 pm so unfortunately we will have to skip next week's @transandthemouth.bsky.social Live

#WIFI

23.08.2025 13:16 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Peer review matters, yes. But so does consulting those directly impacted.

Would you dismiss survivors of rape or child abuse by saying โ€œyou donโ€™t need to consult themโ€? Then why exclude trans people when discussing their care? @charlesarthur.bsky.social

BTW, this isn't a pile on

08.08.2025 13:26 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

It does not answer my question, one that you have avoided more than once.

07.08.2025 15:12 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

There's nothing performative about me. Nor am I doing this as you claim to pile on you

07.08.2025 15:10 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

I know how they work. Being patronising and condescending Won't work

07.08.2025 15:08 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

I'm not ranting Charles and I can parse words I'm simply taking you to task on " we don't need to consult them" which you clearly have a problem with

07.08.2025 15:07 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Charles, your โ€œIFโ€ doesnโ€™t excuse dodging the question. Peer review isnโ€™t a shield for weak claimsโ€”especially when you wonโ€™t engage with critique.

Care to actually answer my question or are you going repeat " I've answered it multiple times" when you haven't @charlesarthur.bsky.social

07.08.2025 12:04 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 1

People do agree with me. Oh and on your "pile" on comment

I don't do pile ons so your inference is pathetic.

07.08.2025 11:57 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Oh so Charles i didn't ignore you " the big if" I am simply focusing on your line previous to that saying we don't need to consult them.

07.08.2025 11:54 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

I haven't misrepresented what you said Charles so that's a lie.

I'm focusing on " we don't need to consult" line

You're "if" peer review ( paraphrasing) is irrelevant.

If you can't handle people qting you, pulling you up on what you said then maybe I'm not the problem here.

07.08.2025 11:52 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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Let's Talk #80 Trans and The Mouth ยท Episode

New episode of @transandthemouth.bsky.social #80

We switched gears due deciding to talk about anything.

P.s: our debate will be rescheduled for next week.

You can listen/watch on Spotify and YouTube

#LGBTQ #Podcast

open.spotify.com/episode/3wXa...

06.08.2025 12:17 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 2    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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here's @charlesarthur.bsky.social saying you don't need to consult trans experts when it comes to trans youth Care.

Would you ever dismiss survivors (like me) of rape or child abuse by saying โ€œyou donโ€™t need to consult themโ€? Why then do you exclude trans people when discussing their care?

05.08.2025 10:47 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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Identity & Misinformation Debate With Exulansic #80 YouTube video by Trans & The Mouth

๐ŸšจThis Tuesday Aug 5 | 11 AM PDT / 7 PM BST ๐Ÿšจ๐Ÿ”ด

On @transandthemouth.bsky.social We will be Debating @ttexulansic.bsky.social on Identity & Misinformation

#NoHoldsBarred #LiveDebate #LGBTQAdvocacy #GenderAffirmingCare #DebunkMisinformation #TruthMatters

www.youtube.com/live/nRlMb2g...

01.08.2025 13:01 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 1    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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Bev Jackson Interview #79 ๐Ÿ”ด LIVE on Trans and the Mouth: Interview with Bev Jackson (LGB Alliance) #TransAndTheMouth #LGBAlliance #BevJackson #LGBTQDebate #LiveUnfiltered #NoHoldsBarred This Tuesday, Trans and the Mouth welc...

Join us on @transandthemouth.bsky.social YouTube channel as we Interview/ #Debate #NoHoldsBarred with Bev Jackson

Join us at 7 pm UK Time

www.youtube.com/live/S84bnfg...

29.07.2025 17:09 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 1    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
Join the The Veil & Flame Discord Server! ๐Ÿ”ฅ Welcome to The Veil & Flame ๐Ÿ”ฅA sanctuary for the fierce, the forgotten, and the flame-bearers. A queer-led space rooted in radical care, identity reclamation, and mythic defiance. Here, the veil shi...

Just updated our discord server with new channels. Be a part of our community

#LGBTQ #discord #server

discord.gg/PqzQxH6A

29.07.2025 13:18 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 1    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
Join the The Veil & Flame Discord Server! ๐Ÿ”ฅ Welcome to The Veil & Flame ๐Ÿ”ฅA sanctuary for the fierce, the forgotten, and the flame-bearers. A queer-led space rooted in radical care, identity reclamation, and mythic defiance. Here, the veil shi...

๐Ÿšจ #Discord #Server

I have created a Discord server that's adjacent to @transandthemouth.bsky.social podcast focusing on creating and building a community. A safe space for discussions on important topics and other stuff.

Would absolutely love to have you on board.

discord.gg/PqzQxH6A

29.07.2025 11:44 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 2    ๐Ÿ” 1    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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Bev Jackson Interview #79 ๐Ÿ”ด LIVE on Trans and the Mouth: Interview with Bev Jackson (LGB Alliance) #TransAndTheMouth #LGBAlliance #BevJackson #LGBTQDebate #LiveUnfiltered #NoHoldsBarred This Tuesday, Trans and the Mouth welc...

Live on Trans and The Mouth: Interview with LGB alliances Bev Jackson @transandthemouth.bsky.social

Date: Tuesday, 29th at 7 pm ๐Ÿ“ Live on YouTube

#TransandTheMouth #LGBAlliance #BevJackson #LGBTQDebate #LiveUnfiltered #NoHoldsBarred

www.youtube.com/live/S84bnfg...

25.07.2025 08:26 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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Carl Benjamin, Rebranded Section 28 2.0 & Puerto Rico #78 YouTube video by Trans & The Mouth

We are live over on @transandthemouth.bsky.social YT channel

#YouTubeLive
#LGBTQ
#Pride2025

www.youtube.com/live/4q7pOs8...

22.07.2025 18:06 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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The Stronger Sex A myth-busting vindication of womenโ€™s physical strengths that's "fun, rooted in science, and a strong pitch for a stronger sex" (Cat Boh...

starrevartan.bsky.social published #TheStrongerSex this week, detailing the endurance, power, and strength of #AFAB bodies! I was interviewed about #gender and am quoted in the book's Introduction. Congratulations, Starre!

purpl.pw/strongersex

#SexVsGender #trans #transgender #lgbtq #queer

18.07.2025 23:03 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 2    ๐Ÿ” 1    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Ah yes the affliction is very bad with me ๐Ÿ’œ๐Ÿ˜น

18.07.2025 16:34 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

That is so kind of you. Yeah MsChif has joined a couple of our streams before. Just a warning though, our streams can be chaotic as me and my two Co-hosts have what we call a sailors mouth ๐Ÿ’œ

17.07.2025 18:01 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

I very much did and I look forward to joining more of your discussions/lives in the future. ๐Ÿ’œ๐Ÿ’œ๐Ÿ’œ

17.07.2025 13:08 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

You are so welcome. I have finished 2/10 audio books currently so can't wait to listen to it when its released.

When I have, and have told my Co-hosts I'd love to have you as a guest.

16.07.2025 17:46 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 2    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
Screenshot of the Audible app showing the pre-order confirmation for The Stronger Sex by Starre Vartan. The audiobook cover features bold typography over a backdrop of textured violet and black, radiating empowerment and resistance. A live stream with Amethysta Herrick is referenced in the caption, tying the purchase to a moment of collective reflection and advocacy.

Screenshot of the Audible app showing the pre-order confirmation for The Stronger Sex by Starre Vartan. The audiobook cover features bold typography over a backdrop of textured violet and black, radiating empowerment and resistance. A live stream with Amethysta Herrick is referenced in the caption, tying the purchase to a moment of collective reflection and advocacy.

During @amethysta.io live last night I pre-ordered @starrevartan.bsky.social The Stronger Sex on #Audible

16.07.2025 16:55 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 2    ๐Ÿ” 1    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 2    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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Conversion Camp #77 YouTube video by Trans & The Mouth

We're going live again Tomorrow night at 7 pm UK time on @transandthemouth.bsky.social YT Channel so join me, @conqueredbread.bsky.social & @nerdyactivist84 as we speak with our guest who was sent to conversion camp

#LGBTQ #ConversionCamp
#YouTubeLive

www.youtube.com/live/qujs7gI...

14.07.2025 13:48 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

I've had 'busy' jobs and I have had ' slower paced' jobs @karimwafa.bsky.social and I can without fail tell you that I still struggle/struggled with anxiety and depression so this unpopular opinion of yours is simply boiled down platitudes that helps no one.

They're skyrocketing for a reason also.

14.07.2025 02:09 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Depression isn't just 'being too busy.' That lens erases trauma, systemic inequality, and the reality many Cis & marginalized folks live with. Letโ€™s stop oversimplifying mental healthโ€”it deserves better.โ€

14.07.2025 02:01 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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Toren๐Ÿณ๏ธโ€๐ŸŒˆ๐Ÿณ๏ธโ€โšง๏ธ๐Ÿ‡ฎ๐Ÿ‡ช (@ThornOfEriu) / X Toren๐Ÿณ๏ธโ€๐ŸŒˆ๐Ÿณ๏ธโ€โšง๏ธ๐Ÿ‡ฎ๐Ÿ‡ช (@ThornOfEriu) / X

As of yesterday I finally got access to my original account on X back and so if you want to refollow me then go here ๐Ÿ‘‡

Don't worry, I'm still using #Bluesky

x.com/ThornOfEriu?...

14.07.2025 01:51 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

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