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31.12.2023 18:09 — 👍 1 🔁 0 💬 0 📌 0@snarkraider.bsky.social
neurodivergent. spoonie. aspiring bog witch. cynical, snarky, profane. black lives matter. intersectional feminism is a MUST. (she/her)
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31.12.2023 18:09 — 👍 1 🔁 0 💬 0 📌 0honestly the "vote blue no matter who" has the same vibe as "I could stand in the middle of 5th avenue and shoot somebody and I wouldn't lose voters"
28.12.2023 20:06 — 👍 1 🔁 0 💬 0 📌 0can you lmk who it is? I want to block him asap
28.12.2023 20:03 — 👍 1 🔁 0 💬 1 📌 0tweet: If you're a Democrat and spending time criticizing Biden on one issue or another, you're missing the danger facing America-and the duty to do whatever you cannot to support the survival of democracy. quote tweet: Asking my Dem friends and followers to keep in mind that your venting about Biden on this or that does not help Dems. At all. Think about what you put into the ether, the universe, the dinner conversation. If it what you're saying will help Trump, please gently bite your tongue.
"the only way to save democracy is to suppress all dissent of our current political leader"
27.12.2023 22:46 — 👍 820 🔁 179 💬 55 📌 25I really hope the Vote Blue No Matter Who people finally grew up enough to realize how shitty Biden is.
28.12.2023 19:59 — 👍 1 🔁 0 💬 1 📌 0can you describe how absolutely fucked up you have to be to watch thousands of people get murdered just for existing and being like...yeah they kinda deserve it
would yall care more if some world power started a genocide on ppl who look like you?
no, we aren't desensitized to it. no, we aren't disconnected from it. it's happening right in front of our fucking faces.
the people who actively support the oppressors/murderers in these situations simply do not care about the genocide of Black and Brown people.
yet... every day I see anti-Gaza propaganda that blames Palestine for the violence & praises extreme zionists.
every day I see the wildest colonist excuses about what's happening in DR Congo (an article from The Atlantic mentioned how it was good for climate change)
an excuse I've heard for Holocaust denial is that we've become "detached" from it, bc most of us didn't witness it...
but what's happening in Gaza, what's happening in DR Congo - we're all here witnessing genocide LIVE. IN REAL TIME.
welp, supervisor did what I expected (adding sarcastic comments, non-apologetic, not acknowledging certain critiques, avoiding accountability, etc.).
he likes getting the last word. is it worth sending a response or should I let it be
ANYWAYS. let's wait & see what his response is...
(what I didn't tell him is that I'm going to HR & anyone else who will listen if he comes back with a nasty response. also if he pulls this shit again. I'm done.)
plus it's impossible to explain to NT people how your ND brain just doesn't "brain" sometimes. they just don't get it.
doesn't help that he's a hardheaded, narrow-minded boomer who's a former marine. he probably doesn't believe in mental health
so anyways... waiting on his response. he might surprise me and be apologetic... or, he might tell me I'm lying about miscounting & I intentionally fudged the numbers. that would be more on-brand for him.
08.12.2023 16:10 — 👍 0 🔁 0 💬 1 📌 0I did it over email because I have documentation. I have tangible proof.
my last job literally emotionally abused me on the daily & routinely violated company conduct/harassment laws, but bc I had no 'proof' of it, no one did anything about it.
so don't come for me bc I sent an email.
then I start lighting into him. asking why other coworkers (bc he plays favorites) receive more grace when they make mistakes. why I've had to fight for grace since day 1. why he jumped to conclusions instead of fucking talking to me like an adult.
08.12.2023 16:06 — 👍 0 🔁 0 💬 1 📌 0so my email starts off:
"[Name],
Unless we had some kind of conversation about this, there is no way you would have known if my mistake was earnest or not."
I explain my brain fart of miscalculation to him. not sure if he'll believe it but I mostly did it for my peace of mind
I was mulling over this for a long time. and I ended up sending him an email. I almost was going to let it go. why? because I hate conflict and I lack a backbone. but he's done this to me once before & he does not get to walk the fuck all over me.
08.12.2023 16:02 — 👍 0 🔁 0 💬 1 📌 0yeah, there's no way he would have known. maybe I could have tried to explain that before he fucking blasted an email to my colleagues accusing me of timecard fraud & then basically threatening me by saying that employees have been fired over it before.
08.12.2023 16:01 — 👍 0 🔁 0 💬 1 📌 0and now those 5 employees think I'm out here breaking laws when in reality I'm just fucking unable to count correctly when I'm tired. that's literally it. it's not that deep. my ND brain stopped braining for a second & I counted 10hrs instead of 9.5hrs.
08.12.2023 16:00 — 👍 0 🔁 0 💬 1 📌 0but the worst part about his implicating email, outside of the fact that he didn't even fucking have a conversation with me, was that he included the other 5 employees on it. and there's only 5 of us, so it is pretty easy to deduct who the email was about. (me. it's about me)
08.12.2023 15:58 — 👍 0 🔁 0 💬 1 📌 0which, first of all, if you actually do this intentionally, plz know I don't give a shit. corporations exploit & abuse us in so many ways. so if you can charge a little extra time and get away with it, I heard and saw nothing.
08.12.2023 15:56 — 👍 0 🔁 0 💬 1 📌 0my supervisor accused me of timecard fraud. didn't talk to me, didn't ask why my timecard might be off. just automatically assumed I am trying to steal company time. and guess what? I didn't fucking do that.
08.12.2023 15:55 — 👍 0 🔁 0 💬 1 📌 0close up selfie showcasing the huge red lump on her forehead.
CW: spider bite
uugggghhh!! I woke up with a planet-sized lump on my forehead... I think it's a spider bite. must've bit me when I was asleep... and I was going to go out in public today 😩
I wonder if they'll cover the racist "triple-k" romance novel on the podcast. 🙃
it's fuckin asinine what you can get away with writing about... even more asinine how many people love that shit. what is wrong with people.
and don't even get me started on Men Are From Mars, Women Are From Venus.
summary: a sexist/misogynist scammer writes a book that glorifies weaponized incompetence in men & puts the onus of any accountability solely on women.
The Secret, for instance.
the author literally made up a quote from Ernest Hemingway, to give you an idea of the bullshit. she didn't just infer causation from correlations, she made up causational relationships between things that weren't actually related.
through TikTok, I discovered the "If Books Could Kill" podcast & it's pretty hilarious. So much sarcasm & satire. The Atomic Habits episode is 👌🏻
there are some wild, horribly-toxic self-help books out there based on nothing but pseudoscience & bullshit.
I apologize for my lack of nuance when using "z!ionist" to describe the CEOs of squishmallows.
what I should have used is "are pro-Netanyahu" or "support the destruction of Palestine".
does anyone have recommendations for alternatives to squishmallows?
I do not want to support a brand whose founders are die-hard Z!onists.