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Heathen of the Urglaawe tradition | Philadelphia Pagan Pride President & Local Coordinator | Podcast: Witches Betwixt

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Overheard in Philly:

"What's the point in driving if you can't give someone the finger?"

17.04.2025 17:33 β€” πŸ‘ 2    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Oddly gender affirming things:

When gay dude pornbot blogs follow you on Tumblr and DM you asking if you'd like to be in a sugar relationship.

No thank you pornbot, but thanks for asking! πŸ˜…

10.04.2025 21:51 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
When you're fried, call on Freid. β€” Witches Betwixt I'm fried. There's no dancing around the truth. I'm burnt the fuck out and I have been for awhile - long before this fascist coup actively began. But I also know that is likely true for you as well,...

New blog post up:

Website: www.witchesbetwixt.com/the-grayves-...

Tumblr: www.tumblr.com/jay-grayves/...

16.03.2025 20:11 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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Philly schools will continue to allow transgender athletes to participate in sports that match their gender identity The move breaks with PIAA, which passed a policy that sides with an executive order from President Trump.

The Philadelphia School District indicated it will ignore a rule directing schools to ban transgender athletes from participating in sports that match their gender identities.

The move comes after the state’s interscholastic athletics governing body changed a key policy around transgender athletes.

25.02.2025 21:33 β€” πŸ‘ 230    πŸ” 54    πŸ’¬ 7    πŸ“Œ 11
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... So should we even bother with filing for taxes this year πŸ‘€

21.02.2025 12:08 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

If you identify as a Pagan/heathen/witch/ (and all the other things that fall under this wide umbrella term) and you have issues with queer folks, particularly trans people, I suggest doing some meditation about that.

You know. Shadow work and all that.

20.02.2025 00:04 β€” πŸ‘ 7    πŸ” 2    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

GMβ˜€οΈ

Woke up in my trans body, in my trans bed, next to my trans wife, in my trans house.

Drinking my trans coffee while I transgenderally prep for today's trans activities.

If any of this offends, scares, or makes you uncomfortable, please feel free to gargle my transgenderized balls.

17.02.2025 12:45 β€” πŸ‘ 4    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

So they're dissolving the Department of Education and every other part of the government and Musk has the Treasury but my student loan payment jumped from $100/mo (IBR Plan) to $500.

Joke's on you fuckers if you think I'm paying that.

See you at the fucking protest πŸ—½πŸ‡ΊπŸ‡Έ

16.02.2025 16:37 β€” πŸ‘ 2    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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50501 Not my President’s Day - Mobilizon Feb 17, 2025, 12:00:00β€―PM - GMT-5 - 1400 John F. Kennedy Boulevard, 19107, Philadelphia, United States - This is a 50501 protest to show that we, the people, are fighting back! We will not be silenced! We will NOT stand for the oppression going on right now!

See you at the protest:

https://events.pol-rev.com/events/5b4ab439-1a9a-455a-83a4-68f6e6e2967b

14.02.2025 15:54 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Almost wrote another 20-comment thread to say that:

1. trans women can be lesbians, bi, or straight,

2. it's reasonable for any woman to not like or trust men,

3. shaming us for the gender(s) we're attracted to (or not) is transphobic as fuck, and

4. sowing division among trans women is evil.

11.02.2025 02:41 β€” πŸ‘ 144    πŸ” 18    πŸ’¬ 5    πŸ“Œ 0

I didn't hear about the removal of the "end racism" text until this morning so I totally understand why folks boycotted the Superb Owl.

Oddly enough, I found myself watching the game and I can confirm that the overall message and theme behind the ads and entertainment was VERY anti-MAGA.

10.02.2025 12:20 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
10.02.2025 11:38 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

I don't think I've ever seen a street sweeper in NE Philly πŸ˜…

06.02.2025 17:51 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

https://www.youtube.com/live/qcwNCE4rH14?si=Lt05tGHgRm6nCr1y

04.02.2025 21:32 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
A book cover of β€œHeathen Traditions of the Pennsylvania Dutch. An Urglaawe Primer by Robert L. Schreiwer, Michelle A. Jones and Stacey Lynne Stewart. There is a double Distelfink bird in the center holding a sickle with tulip and flourished border around it.

A book cover of β€œHeathen Traditions of the Pennsylvania Dutch. An Urglaawe Primer by Robert L. Schreiwer, Michelle A. Jones and Stacey Lynne Stewart. There is a double Distelfink bird in the center holding a sickle with tulip and flourished border around it.

Release date is July 8th!

#Urglaawe #Heathen #Pagan #Witch #Deitsch

17.01.2025 16:36 β€” πŸ‘ 15    πŸ” 1    πŸ’¬ 2    πŸ“Œ 0
Black letters on light blue background that say β€œcommit the sin of empathy. There is. Lantern with a hexafoil on it and a cluster of elder flowers.

Black letters on light blue background that say β€œcommit the sin of empathy. There is. Lantern with a hexafoil on it and a cluster of elder flowers.

Find your unlikely allies and fight against fascism.

#heathen #pagan #Urglaawe #Braucherei #interfaith #Zusaagpflicht

27.01.2025 13:51 β€” πŸ‘ 24    πŸ” 6    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Follow up thought:

All sports from local playground leagues, bar leagues, all the way up to the pros - should be gender neutral.

If you can play, you can play.

An athlete is an athlete.

26.01.2025 00:52 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

You cannot call yourself an ally to trans people when this comes out your mouth: "now the only thing I *do* agree on is when it comes to sports..."

Full stop πŸ›‘

Fuck you πŸ–•

Do better πŸ—½

26.01.2025 00:47 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Haven't logged into WebToon for a long while and decided to catch up on Lore Olympus only to find out you have to pay for everything now. Even shit I already read for free is locked behind a paywall.

Uninstall πŸ–•

End stage capitalism ruining literally everything.

🚬😩

24.01.2025 03:43 β€” πŸ‘ 2    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 1

Took a few mins on my lunch to walk over to City Hall. The energy there feels tired but hopeful. Angry but focused. Philly is where the bell of Liberty resides and we will keep freedom ringing.

23.01.2025 21:28 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

A well-researched blog post can be the foundation of a future book ☺️

23.01.2025 21:09 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

That's where my thoughts and efforts have been focused too. I'm determined to survive this and win the long fight πŸ’ͺ

23.01.2025 19:59 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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Reflections on Katherine Kurtz's "Lammas Night" β€” Witches Betwixt For those unfamiliar with the book, Lammas Night is a work of historical fiction set in the WW2 era that follows a group of British occultists trying to recruit other groups of occultists to join them in a combined working on Lammas night to drive back the Nazi invasion of Britain. This post isn’

https://www.witchesbetwixt.com/the-grayves-yard/reflections-on-katherine-kurtzs-lammas-night

23.01.2025 17:48 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

You could tell he was gassing himself up for that "salute". You could see it in his eyes he was so fucking excited about it like a little kid. "Yeah, I'm gonna do it! It's gonna be so cool! I'll show them!"

I'm not a bullying advocate but someone beat him up and take his lunch money please 😩

22.01.2025 10:50 β€” πŸ‘ 4    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

I think the reason I never got into TikTok is because I prefer text-based social media vs. video. Bless modern day subtitles (good use of AI) because I watch most videos that come across my feeds on mute πŸ˜…

20.01.2025 11:52 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

All this TikTok shit is theater. I was able to login into the account I have for the podcast and post a video. (I deleted it because it was just me awkwardly staring.) But yeah... Shit is back on it seems just so Cheeto & Co can take credit for "saving it" or w/e.

So tired πŸš¬β˜• 😩

19.01.2025 18:30 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

Never got into TikTok and I'm more of a lurker on social media overall, but that doesn't mean I can't be outraged at the ban. This is a direct violation of our First Amendment rights. There was never any national security issue. This was all about control.

Christo-Fascism must be stopped.

19.01.2025 17:22 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Someone had a black lab puppy on the elevator at the office this morning. Everyone was Awkward Elevator Quiet but everyone was smiling at the dog πŸ˜…

15.01.2025 22:50 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

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