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Hi, Iโ€™m Haven! ๐Ÿณ๏ธโ€โšง๏ธ๐Ÿณ๏ธโ€๐ŸŒˆ๐Ÿณ๏ธโ€โšง๏ธ I'm a vegetarian trans woman who loves women, doggos, programming, math, board games, D&D, and geeking out with enthusiastic people. Expect friendly posts about queer joy ๐ŸŒˆ and nerdy stuff.

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Latest posts by danihaven.bsky.social on Bluesky

This sounds like the Linux experience

21.01.2025 06:30 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 4    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Well that's worrying

21.01.2025 06:14 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Meta have reportedly removed Pride and LGBTQ+ themes from Facebook Messenger just days after changes to hate speech rules which will allow users to call queer people โ€œmentally illโ€.

(So yeah, need to move some family to a new messaging app. Telegrams out for being "too difficult". Suggestions?)

14.01.2025 09:08 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 4    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Wishing I felt better now!

13.01.2025 20:34 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 2    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Awww

27.12.2024 17:21 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 2    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Happy holidays everyone! I hope you all have a lovely day x

25.12.2024 06:11 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 5    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

I'm finding myself so easily caught up in negativity and rage posts.

Time to take a deep breath and try to focus on the positives. Giving people nice big squishy hugs.

21.12.2024 06:46 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

See it's like that but they made the monster so irritating that we can't stop looking at it.

19.12.2024 20:54 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Random musing of the day:

What would be different about the world if the standard weekend was instead Wednesday and Sunday?

I feel like generally it would be worse but that we might have high speed rail to get more done in a single day.

Not sure, I'm gonna think about this some more.

19.12.2024 20:52 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

My Christmas dresses simultaneously are not warm enough and cover up too much to feel gorgeous.

This is the worst possible outcome.

17.12.2024 07:33 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

This is a deep truth

13.12.2024 07:37 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 2    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

This feels like it should be the new advertising slogan.

12.12.2024 06:02 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 2    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
Preview
Wes Streeting announces indefinite ban on puberty blockers for trans youth Puberty blockers for under 18s with gender dysphoria will be banned indefinitely due to anย โ€œunacceptable safety riskโ€ the UK government said.

If the NHS can help cis teens whose puberty is affecting them in negative ways then surely they can help trans teens in the same situation!

How does this make me feel? Angry. Angry and so damn scared. Why is targeting children somehow seen as acceptable?

www.thepinknews.com/2024/12/11/w...

12.12.2024 06:01 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 5    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

I'm being pedantic here but that would be multiplicative rather than exponential.

Likes = People x 100

11.12.2024 04:27 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
Three panel comic with crudely drawn stick people.

Panel 1: A grayscale person wearing a shirt with a flag composed of green, red, blue and black stripes is talking to a green person.

Shirt: "Hey so after the election I've done some thinking, and I need to make some hard choices."

Green: "Uh okay who-"

Shirt: "I have to drop the whole chromatic issue. We just went too hard on it and it lost us votes."

Panel 2: The shirt person puts their hand on green's shoulder.

Shirt: "Look. I'm deeply and truly sorry okay."

Green: "Please don't touch-"

Shirt: "You just have to understand. Supporting you this much. Saying green people are green? It was just too extreme. I will still affirm that your feelings about being green are valid. But I have to think about electoral strategy too. I have to take a clear stance that nobody wants children to be green."

Panel 3: The shirt person starts sobbing while Green looks awkwardly.

Shirt: "Please... *sniff* please understand... This is so incredibly difficult for me, the emotional toll on me is worse than you could ever imagine! I just can't keep doing this! It's too politically inconvenient!"

Green: "Who are you, even? Were you doing anything for us?"

Three panel comic with crudely drawn stick people. Panel 1: A grayscale person wearing a shirt with a flag composed of green, red, blue and black stripes is talking to a green person. Shirt: "Hey so after the election I've done some thinking, and I need to make some hard choices." Green: "Uh okay who-" Shirt: "I have to drop the whole chromatic issue. We just went too hard on it and it lost us votes." Panel 2: The shirt person puts their hand on green's shoulder. Shirt: "Look. I'm deeply and truly sorry okay." Green: "Please don't touch-" Shirt: "You just have to understand. Supporting you this much. Saying green people are green? It was just too extreme. I will still affirm that your feelings about being green are valid. But I have to think about electoral strategy too. I have to take a clear stance that nobody wants children to be green." Panel 3: The shirt person starts sobbing while Green looks awkwardly. Shirt: "Please... *sniff* please understand... This is so incredibly difficult for me, the emotional toll on me is worse than you could ever imagine! I just can't keep doing this! It's too politically inconvenient!" Green: "Who are you, even? Were you doing anything for us?"

strategy

09.12.2024 09:25 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 2276    ๐Ÿ” 340    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 29    ๐Ÿ“Œ 12

I played an ironman save with a friend. We spent 55 mins creating characters and he pushed me off a ledge to my death!

08.12.2024 21:09 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

โ€˜I just want a humble, murderously simple thing: that a person be glad when I walk into the room.โ€™ (Marina Tsvetaeva, from โ€˜On Loveโ€™.)

08.12.2024 21:03 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 4    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

My friends say I give off Glinda vibes!

(Is this a sign I need to work on myself or do I double down on this?)

07.12.2024 18:42 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Finally went to go see Wicked!
It was lovely!

So many parallels with the politics today which was interesting.

07.12.2024 18:38 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 2    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

I kinda thought a presidency would be more expensive than that...

07.12.2024 06:04 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Also houses are generally affordable

07.12.2024 05:59 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

That's not a rude awakening. That's just rude.

07.12.2024 05:56 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Suffering from success!

07.12.2024 05:54 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Conversations with the 8yo DM:

8yo DM: Your new character is Durv Lundfeld. He is an older dwarven fighter who is immune to thieves.

Me: How is he immune to thieves?

8yo DM: He doesnโ€™t own anything.

#dnd

07.12.2024 01:09 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 447    ๐Ÿ” 62    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 19    ๐Ÿ“Œ 11

Oof!

06.12.2024 21:51 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 3    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

That is an impressive gag reflex

06.12.2024 21:48 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 1    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

I'm going to train my dog to run for help...

06.12.2024 21:47 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

For the programmer geeks out there. I know you exist.

06.12.2024 21:45 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 3    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

I feel like I'm going to start judging murder mystery films by this metric as well.

06.12.2024 21:39 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 2    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

This has the same vibe as the narcissist's prayer

06.12.2024 21:34 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

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