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Lisa Wade โญ๏ธ

@fenwench.bsky.social

Historian by training. I write things and row ๐Ÿšฃ๐Ÿปโ€โ™‚๏ธ a bit. You can find me as @fenwench elsewhere โ˜บ๏ธ

222 Followers  |  183 Following  |  43 Posts  |  Joined: 04.10.2023  |  1.6877

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If you Google my name, one of the first things that comes up is that iโ€™m a survivor. Itโ€™s not nice.

I couldnโ€™t get justice for myself. if women who have experienced something similar are better placed to then waiving my right to anonymity was worth it.

27.02.2025 08:39 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 2    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

My greatest hope in speaking out was that other women wouldnโ€™t have to go through what I did and watch sexually violent men walk free without consequence. That people would understand why that creating that offence was so important.

It sounds like it has helped.

27.02.2025 08:39 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 2    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Non-fatal strangulation became a specific offence in England and Wales on 7th June 2022, as part of the Domestic Abuse Act 2021.

It is quite something to hear that this change in law has made a difference.

27.02.2025 08:39 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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'He almost killed me then walked free' Lisa Wade feared she would die when she was brutally throttled during sex - yet when she reported the assault, her attacker claimed it had been consensual.

I talk about my experience here: www.dailymail.co.uk/home/you/art...

27.02.2025 08:39 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

A bit choked up. Someone I know, socially, who is a police officer dealing with SV/DA cases has just told me that she deals with cases that come under the offence of non-fatal strangulation on a daily basis.

I was one of the women who spoke out to show why this law was needed.

27.02.2025 08:39 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 3    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Oooh thank you!

23.02.2025 17:52 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Have gone through two sets of bike lights for #rowing outings this winter. They either break or simply arenโ€™t bright enough.

Can anyone recommend any?

Need to be able to fit to rigger/bow of boat.
Ideally rechargeable
Good brightness/size
Wonโ€™t break the bank

๐Ÿ™

22.02.2025 19:29 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Iโ€™m not entirely sure what possessed me to buy leopard print leggings for my winter #rowing kit, but Iโ€™m going with itโ€ฆ

21.02.2025 21:31 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 2    ๐Ÿ” 1    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Hi Felicity - itโ€™s not letting me DM you for some reason :)

06.12.2024 10:12 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 2    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Yes, I would. That guy got so many well meaning people

05.12.2024 23:05 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 3    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Ooooh yes. ยฃ300 to Depherโ€ฆ.

05.12.2024 22:00 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 1    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Would Depher/James Anderson count?

05.12.2024 21:59 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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Currently taking bets on how long this will stay up before one, two or all three of my cats are in it. One bauble casualty so farโ€ฆ

02.12.2024 16:59 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 3    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Treated myself to a bottle of Chanel Coco Mademoiselle on Black Friday, which has just arrived. Naturally, I am now swanning around the house, in my leggings and cardi, smelling fantabulous.

26.11.2024 12:49 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 2    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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Ian Hislop, "Farmers didn't pay inheritance tax at all, and now they're going to pay half of what everybody else pays.. Jeremy Clarkson who originally bought his farm in order to avoid paying any tax on it"

HIGNFY play the clip where Jeremy Clarkson denies buying his farm to avoid paying IT

24.11.2024 11:55 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 2024    ๐Ÿ” 718    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 39    ๐Ÿ“Œ 14
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My Year Inside Britain FIrst A first-hand account of infiltrating Britain First, revealing their hate and hypocrisy.

A remarkable piece this.

A @hopenothate.org.uk activist Infiltrated Britain First... and... well it's even worse than you might think
hopenothate.org.uk/britain-firs...

23.11.2024 17:23 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1226    ๐Ÿ” 556    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 68    ๐Ÿ“Œ 33
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Me with David Cameron in 2013.

Very misspent youth.

23.11.2024 19:03 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
Woman laid in bed with a ginger cat laid on her chest with his head on her shoulder

Woman laid in bed with a ginger cat laid on her chest with his head on her shoulder

One of my cats - Oscar - decided to come up and give me a real cuddle this morning. Heโ€™s such a wonderful animal.

21.11.2024 16:02 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 6    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Itโ€™s 2c. Iโ€™m working under a pile of blankets, trying to hype myself up to get changed and go downstairs to do my 30 min erg session. Reluctant would be an understatement.

21.11.2024 11:52 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Itโ€™s snowing here in the Fens ๐Ÿ˜ฎโ„๏ธ

18.11.2024 22:49 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 2    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Not remotely shocked by this. Surprised itโ€™s not already happened tbfโ€ฆ

17.11.2024 15:26 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 2    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

I saw Farage had tried to create an account too. Hopefully he goes the same way: everything he and his ilk touches turns to ๐Ÿ’ฉ๐Ÿ’ฉ. Theyโ€™re like Unpleasant smells.

17.11.2024 14:50 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Ooooh thatโ€™s fantastic. Iโ€™m surprised that without a real block function X is even allowed to be used in Europe now.

17.11.2024 13:49 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 2    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Hiya! Hereโ€™s hoping itโ€™s much less toxic than X!

17.11.2024 13:38 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

This is true - on my way to do it nowโ€™

17.11.2024 12:01 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Can someone tell me to get off my a*se and do my Sunday erg (row)?

17.11.2024 11:46 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 2    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

This makes me really happy โ˜บ๏ธ

16.11.2024 13:50 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Exactly - itโ€™s so utterly depressing

16.11.2024 13:49 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Heโ€™s such a comedian. I have three cats in total, including Booโ€™s brother Louis. My little clowder! ๐Ÿฅฐ

16.11.2024 13:48 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Iโ€™d like to be in a space where, as a survivor, I can speak freely without men threatening me with further violence but receiving no consequences for it.

The normalisation of extreme and violent speech is concerning: speech isnโ€™t truly โ€œfreeโ€ if it causes others to feel scared/threatened.

15.11.2024 22:33 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

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