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A page dedicated to shower thoughts, ideas, tips, confessions, discussions about polyamory, ethical/consensual non-monogamy, open relationships, and relationship anarchy. https://linktr.ee/Poly__thoughts

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Boundaries are not static; they can evolve as individuals and relationships grow. They provide a framework for adapting to changes while maintaining the integrity of each person. 8/

18.11.2024 22:55 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 3    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Establishing boundaries involves open communication and ideally mutual agreement. It's a collaborative process that requires active listening and understanding rather than an imposition of control. 7/

18.11.2024 22:55 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 6    ๐Ÿ” 1    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Boundaries help prevent codependent dynamics where one person's happiness or well-being is overly dependent on the other. They encourage both partners to have a sense of self and independence. 6/

18.11.2024 22:55 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 2    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Healthy relationships recognize and celebrate the individual identities of each partner. Boundaries ensure that each person maintains their own space, interests, and personal growth without feeling controlled or restricted. 5/

18.11.2024 22:55 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 2    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Each person is responsible for defining and communicating their own boundaries. It's not about dictating what the other person can or cannot do but about expressing personal limits and preferences. 4/

18.11.2024 22:55 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 2    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Setting boundaries is an act of self-empowerment and self-care. It's about expressing one's needs and values rather than imposing rules or restrictions on a partner. 3/

18.11.2024 22:55 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 2    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Boundaries are about acknowledging and respecting each other's autonomy.
They reflect an individual's needs, feelings, and personal limits, which may not necessarily align with their partner's. 2/

18.11.2024 22:55 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 3    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

I have boundaries, and why you should too. #polyamory #relationships 1/

18.11.2024 22:55 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 10    ๐Ÿ” 2    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

So glad to have found this! Letโ€™s build a community!

18.11.2024 01:30 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 2    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Polycule: A playful term for the interconnected network of people in a polyamorous group, representing relationships.

17.11.2024 21:13 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 3    ๐Ÿ” 1    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Metamour: Your partnerโ€™s partner, with whom you may not have a direct romantic or sexual relationship.

17.11.2024 21:08 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Compersion: Definition: The opposite of jealousy; it is the feeling of joy or happiness that comes from seeing a loved one happy with another partner.

17.11.2024 20:48 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 2    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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Submit an anonymous post! Letโ€™s build a community to share advice, stories, fun anecdotes, and more.

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17.11.2024 20:15 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

thank you so much!

17.11.2024 20:05 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Normalize Polyamory

16.11.2024 05:06 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 113    ๐Ÿ” 22    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 3    ๐Ÿ“Œ 1
This image highlights the common myths and realities about polyamory:

Myths:
	โ€ข	Polyamory is just about sex.
	โ€ข	Polyamory means no jealousy.
	โ€ข	Polyamory is the same as cheating.
	โ€ข	Polyamory is unstable long-term.

Realities:
	โ€ข	Polyamory is based on consent and communication.
	โ€ข	Polyamory is not inherently unethical.
	โ€ข	Polyamory can involve long-term commitments.
	โ€ข	Emotional and romantic aspects are central.

It also includes a gentle reminder: โ€œFollow for more!โ€ with the handle @POLY__THOUGHTS. The design is simple, with a lavender background and overlapping abstract shapes.

This image highlights the common myths and realities about polyamory: Myths: โ€ข Polyamory is just about sex. โ€ข Polyamory means no jealousy. โ€ข Polyamory is the same as cheating. โ€ข Polyamory is unstable long-term. Realities: โ€ข Polyamory is based on consent and communication. โ€ข Polyamory is not inherently unethical. โ€ข Polyamory can involve long-term commitments. โ€ข Emotional and romantic aspects are central. It also includes a gentle reminder: โ€œFollow for more!โ€ with the handle @POLY__THOUGHTS. The design is simple, with a lavender background and overlapping abstract shapes.

Hi all! Happy to be here, we're a page dedicated to shower thoughts, ideas, tips, confessions, discussions about polyamory, ethical/consensual non-monogamy, open relationships, and relationship anarchy.

17.11.2024 19:54 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 7    ๐Ÿ” 1    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

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