Ohhh they’re gorgeous!
16.11.2025 06:01 — 👍 0 🔁 0 💬 0 📌 0@chinders.bsky.social
Oh god not another one of these Right okay I’m a queer trans parent ADHD gym rat techie nerd.
Ohhh they’re gorgeous!
16.11.2025 06:01 — 👍 0 🔁 0 💬 0 📌 0I have just finished an 18 year stint of working at the same company.
Now I’m like “oh I’ve started enjoying food again, that’s nice” and then “waaaaait when did I stop” so I think I’ve independently discovered what burnout is like.
There’s been a big upswing in various personal crises FOR SOME REASON
16.11.2025 05:15 — 👍 0 🔁 0 💬 0 📌 0Yeaaaah
16.11.2025 05:13 — 👍 0 🔁 0 💬 1 📌 0As you may be picking up I’ve been crispy as hell for a while lol. How’s things with you?
16.11.2025 03:44 — 👍 1 🔁 0 💬 1 📌 0Oooh interesting! That feels a little daunting (in a way that may just mean I should get over my imposter syndrome already, lol) but super interesting. Any idea how urgently you’re looking to fill the role? Sadly if there’s much time pressure it may not be a great fit for my burnout recovery.
16.11.2025 03:44 — 👍 0 🔁 0 💬 0 📌 0This is great, thanks!
16.11.2025 03:40 — 👍 0 🔁 0 💬 0 📌 0Right now I’m watching a lot of TV and hiking and frankly counting my blessings that the burnout isn’t worse than it is (I mean, it’s not the Olympics etc, but)
16.11.2025 01:26 — 👍 0 🔁 0 💬 0 📌 0Aw thanks!
16.11.2025 01:25 — 👍 1 🔁 0 💬 0 📌 0Missed you too!
16.11.2025 01:24 — 👍 1 🔁 0 💬 1 📌 0Hah, I feel that really hard right now.
15.11.2025 21:16 — 👍 2 🔁 0 💬 2 📌 0so I’m genuinely in no big hurry to get to work. So the time thing is NBD.
15.11.2025 20:09 — 👍 3 🔁 0 💬 1 📌 0Actually that sounds sort of great? Full disclosure I haven’t done contract work before but money coming in is awesome and leaves me more flexibility in a lot of ways, so it sounds like that could be a win-win. Happy to chat informally whenever, but I’m recovering from burnout right now anyway
15.11.2025 20:09 — 👍 4 🔁 0 💬 1 📌 0Oh man accessibility is so important and so hard. My last team was an internal maps editor at literally the take on a11y was “users who need accessibility won’t be able to use this anyway so why bother” which is…not entirely unreasonable but not awesome
15.11.2025 20:06 — 👍 3 🔁 0 💬 1 📌 0Building from scratch is a tempting decision to make but it’s frequently the wrong one.
15.11.2025 20:03 — 👍 1 🔁 0 💬 0 📌 0And if not, please accept the tip of my hat for the work you’re already doing. I’ve always been pleased and impressed with what Dreamwidth is up to.
15.11.2025 20:02 — 👍 1 🔁 0 💬 0 📌 0There’s a lot to be said for filling a niche and doing it well.
Seriously, if you might be interested in figuring something out with me, I’d be interested in talking. No big urgency on my end, though. (Do I have a resume ready? lol no, but I could fix that.)
Oh I’m familiar with dreamwidth! Y’all do great work, on admittedly a UI that is built on the finest modern affordances from 1999 (but that’s intentional, which counts for a lot)
Also I am great at endearing to myself to potential employers
(I mean, I realize you’re the org structure, but you take my point)
15.11.2025 19:42 — 👍 5 🔁 0 💬 1 📌 0And/or that the org structure might understand the value of not breaking shit all the time
15.11.2025 19:42 — 👍 6 🔁 0 💬 1 📌 0TBH the nice thing about a change averse user base is that then UI/UX shit isn’t changing every 30 seconds so you have half a chance of setting up good testing foundations while you make those changes
15.11.2025 19:41 — 👍 8 🔁 0 💬 1 📌 0I mean, that does sound like a fun challenge in many ways. I would probably need a little more cat fur to put me over the edge though
15.11.2025 19:40 — 👍 4 🔁 0 💬 1 📌 0and discuss difficulty and impact of UI/UX work.
15.11.2025 19:38 — 👍 1 🔁 0 💬 1 📌 0That’s good to hear. I have come away from my career so far with the impression that mostly eng cultures are like “sure, your UI is pretty, but why should I care?”
Which is not the fucking point actually, but because the culture at large doesn’t care we also don’t have great ways to measure…
My own stuff aside, there is seriously so much money to be had in not having ethics. In some ways the miracle is that there are any jobs in the industry that feel ethical.
15.11.2025 19:35 — 👍 4 🔁 0 💬 1 📌 0(I recently ended an 18 year career at the goog and now I’m realizing I can like…work on my own terms, and those terms are gonna be way more focused on my values and well being and way less on numbers
But also, where am I gonna find myself a 50-70% time job offer, lol)
Word. You looking for a not-very-well paid UI/UX person to work about 20-30hrs/week by any chance?
15.11.2025 19:31 — 👍 4 🔁 0 💬 2 📌 0It was an entire debacle. Joining the privacy team was really funny too cause it was like “wow, this team has huge percentages of trans and queer people, I WONDER WHY”
15.11.2025 19:29 — 👍 3 🔁 0 💬 0 📌 0Huuuuuh. That TS role is kind of a great fit actually, damn
15.11.2025 19:28 — 👍 2 🔁 0 💬 1 📌 0Oh interesting. I’m honestly used to thinking of UI/UX as hamstringing me in this backend-heavy industry so I’ll have to chew on that
15.11.2025 19:27 — 👍 2 🔁 0 💬 1 📌 0