@rhondababe

"In a world where we are made to feel small and incapable of enacting political change, making room for pleasure, joy, and love is a way of fighting back against a cold world that would watch us die."

I cannot tell you how many tech journalists at prominent media organizations do not understand this

I don't know who needs to hear this, but if you have friends struggling through the shutdown, consider inviting them over for a family dinner this week. Make too much. Insist they take leftovers home. Some folks can't say they need help out loud but will appreciate the kindness.

the world is cruel and scary. but there are also women. you must remember this.

I'll never understand why saying sex workers deserve dignity and safe work conditions is so controversial.

if you stay true to your values and standards, are impeccable with your word, self-reflect often, and listen to your gut…

I fully believe the universe will bless you 💫

Whether you’re rocking a six‑pack or a comfy dad‑bod, confidence is the sexiest accessory you can wear. 🔥💋

Many inquiries lately are asking to discuss intimate things, in writing.

I must be blunt. In the US (except Nevada), you can discuss money, or you can discuss sex. Never both.

If LE, friends/family snooping in your phone, or hackers get ahold of that, you're cooked.

Be smart.

enshittification | noun | when a digital platform is made worse for users, in order to increase profits

Decriminalize the naked body

A Slut’s Reclamation — Queer Majority “If you think it’s strange that a man would call himself a slut, you are why I do it.”

A slut’s reclamation. Written from a man’s perspective, but gender inclusive. - www.queermajority.com/essays-all/a...

A Slut’s Reclamation — Queer Majority “If you think it’s strange that a man would call himself a slut, you are why I do it.”

www.queermajority.com/essays-all/a...

If you ever see me out in the wild, picking up my tab is the only acceptable way to make contact.

I’ve grown to appreciate quiet actions over endless words. I don't listen anymore, now I am just waiting for the show 💅

Written from a man’s perspective, but a great explanation of why I reject being shamed for being a slut.

Reminder that choosing to dress as a cop for halloween during peak state violence against migrants and swers is icky

There is really no point in telling swers they are ‘too expensive’. There are providers and creators who offer a variety of experiences and services in different price ranges so find someone within your budget and go from there.

If someone wrote this to you, what would you reply?

During Domestic Violence Awareness Month, we honor the bravery of survivors of domestic violence. If you or a loved one is a victim of domestic violence, call the 24-hour National Domestic Violence Hotline at 1-800-799-SAFE.

Excellent example of coercive control.

this is going to kill me

this is actively fucking killing me

ppl need to understand how violent coercive control / narcissistic abuse actually is

bones heal

your brain and nervous system are a different story

this is where I post from

there’s this weird idea a lot of people seem to have about how all of us writers and artists must secretly want to use AI and are merely resisting temptation for ethical reasons, and like, no, it’s not hard for me to resist drinking the bowl of Piss With Glass In It actually

Until you repair your relationship with yourself, your relationship with others will suffer.

“This is a man’s world, this is a man’s world. But it wouldn’t be nothing, nothing without a woman or a girl.” - James Brown

People are multidimensional and complex beings. It isn’t always cut and dry. And two things can be true at the same time.

High. Please have sex on shrooms. Please! 😂