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John Pendal

@johnpendal.bsky.social

I'm an online coach helping English speaking adults all over the world. I specialise in kink and neurodivergence. Coaching website is https://www.johnpendal.com/ ... other sites: https://linktr.ee/JohnPendal

74 Followers  |  84 Following  |  25 Posts  |  Joined: 04.09.2025  |  1.6434

Latest posts by johnpendal.bsky.social on Bluesky

#kink #bdsm #BDSMworkshop #KinkEducation #LearnKink
#KinkCommunity #BDSMTraining

27.11.2025 10:49 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
The picture is John's face over a swirling purple background. The text says "Dungeon Disasters" worldwide, online Dec 14 @ 11am PDT. Praxium. The Heart of Learning.

The picture is John's face over a swirling purple background. The text says "Dungeon Disasters" worldwide, online Dec 14 @ 11am PDT. Praxium. The Heart of Learning.

Sunday 14 Dec I'll be teaching an online class with Praxium called "Dungeon Disasters" from 11am-1pm PST/ 2pm-3pm EST/ 7pm-9pm Ireland & UK. It's about all the mistakes I've made in my kink life so that you don't copy them! Tickets available from forbiddentickets.com/events/praxi...

27.11.2025 10:49 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

#kink #bdsm #BDSMworkshop #KinkEducation #LearnKink
#KinkCommunity #BDSMTraining

27.11.2025 10:47 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
Picture of John's face, with his blonde beared neatly trimmed

Picture of John's face, with his blonde beared neatly trimmed

I've been trying to grow my beard out, but it's a challenge when I need to keep it neat for work and when I do go to a barber they tend to chop too much off. Had a good experience today, thanks to West End Barbers in Worthing. Now I just have to not fiddle with it myself!

18.11.2025 13:59 β€” πŸ‘ 3    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
Photo of John looking into the camera. The text says "Autism and Kink Workshop." Sun 23 Nov @ 11am-1pm PST/ 2pm-4pm EST/ 7pm-9pm UK

Photo of John looking into the camera. The text says "Autism and Kink Workshop." Sun 23 Nov @ 11am-1pm PST/ 2pm-4pm EST/ 7pm-9pm UK

6 days to my online class on "Autism and Kink" on Sunday November 23rd. The workshop runs from 11am-1pm PST/ 2pm-4pm EST/ 7pm-9pm Ireland & UK/ 8pm-10pm Central European time.

Tickets available from forbiddentickets.com/events/wicke...

Please let me know if you have any questions x x

17.11.2025 16:20 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
The image is of two stick people, one pushing a triangular sign with an exclamation mark up a hill, the other reacting to pain. The text advertises two workshops titles and times - this information is given in my post as well.

The image is of two stick people, one pushing a triangular sign with an exclamation mark up a hill, the other reacting to pain. The text advertises two workshops titles and times - this information is given in my post as well.

Sat 30 November I'll be teaching 2 kink workshops in Portsmouth on the South coast of England. 1pm-2.40pm on "Edge Play: Pushing Limits" and then 3pm-4.40pm "Pain management." Tickets available for CLUED members from clued.org.uk & full class descriptions: www.leatherlondonguide.com/workshops.html

14.11.2025 12:49 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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My friend @jadefarrington.bsky.social has created an amazing free resource "a community guide to a neurodivergent Christmas" - available for download from jadefarrington.substack.com/p/download-t... x x

10.11.2025 14:46 β€” πŸ‘ 3    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0
A Community Guide to a Happy Neurodivergent Christmas
https://jadefarrington.substack.com

A Community Guide to a Happy Neurodivergent Christmas https://jadefarrington.substack.com

Wow! Just received a message from someone who's read A Community Guide to a Happy Neurodivergent Christmas & wants to send it to 1000s of parents & professionals in their newsletter πŸ₯°

The answer was 'Yes please!' This is a free community resource so please share so long as it isn't altered or sold.

06.11.2025 11:29 β€” πŸ‘ 6    πŸ” 4    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 2
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Hope you're able to relax this weekend. This is Lizzie, she has run our lives for 12.5 years ...

25.10.2025 14:37 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Thanks - solidarity back to you!

19.10.2025 08:50 β€” πŸ‘ 2    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

I saw exactly the same arguments used when I went through gay conversion therapy. That being gay was somehow a commercial identity, and it was invented. Exactly the same.

18.10.2025 12:14 β€” πŸ‘ 2    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

What a horrible article. Did a doctor really say that rather than providing accommodations we should be "addressing the root cause of a condition, or questioning whether a pupil has it at all"? .... That's made me feel sick.

18.10.2025 12:11 β€” πŸ‘ 2    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0
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Blog posts from John Pendal Blog posts from John Pendal - mostly about autism, ADHD, Alexithymia and some other forms of neurodivergence

I've uploaded a new blog post today on Rumination (repetitive thinking), with tips and strategies to help: www.johnpendal.com/blog.html

17.10.2025 11:39 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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My next online workshop is "Autism and Kink" on Sunday 23rd November from 11am-1pm PDT/ 2pm-4pm EDT/ 7pm-9pm UK & Ireland. More info & tickets available on a sliding scale from forbiddentickets.com/events/wicke...

14.10.2025 14:44 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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Last night we saw the film "I Swear", a dramatised account of the life of John Davidson. John has Tourette Syndrome, lives with physical & verbals tics, & been the subject of several documentaries during his life. The film currently has 100% score on Rotten Tomatoes, now I know why. It is incredible

13.10.2025 12:29 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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I've made it to Bergen, Norway. It's as beautiful as I remember, and very windy. One class down ... two to go.

#kinkferansen #bdsmeducation #kinkworkshops

03.10.2025 13:16 β€” πŸ‘ 3    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
Photo of John in a coffee shop. Over the image are the words: John is consistently kind, genuine, professional and most importantly for me fundamentally attuned to neurodivergent experiences. I am so grateful to him for helping me reclaim my life and happiness." - Sarah F

Photo of John in a coffee shop. Over the image are the words: John is consistently kind, genuine, professional and most importantly for me fundamentally attuned to neurodivergent experiences. I am so grateful to him for helping me reclaim my life and happiness." - Sarah F

I received a lovely quote from a client this morning: "John is consistently kind, genuine, professional and, most importantly for me, fundamentally attuned to neurodivergent experiences." - Sarah F

(You can see the full quote and other reviews at www.johnpendal.com/reviews.html)

01.10.2025 11:35 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Thanks for the interview! 😊

18.09.2025 19:17 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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Spotlight on Being an Autistic Stand-Up Comedian with Neurodivergent Coach John Pendal Why comedy and coaching aren't as different as you might think

NEW article: Neurodivergent coach @johnpendal.bsky.social shares what it's like to be an autistic stand-up comedian - and why the two things really aren't that different!

jadefarrington.substack.com/p/spotlight-...

18.09.2025 10:22 β€” πŸ‘ 7    πŸ” 3    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0
John stood in front of a stone wall. The text says "Fri 3 to Sun 5 October I'll be in Bergen, Norway teaching three workshops at Kinkferansen."

John stood in front of a stone wall. The text says "Fri 3 to Sun 5 October I'll be in Bergen, Norway teaching three workshops at Kinkferansen."

Fri 3 to Sun 5 October I'll be in Bergen, Norway teaching three workshops at Kinkferansen. Tickets available from www.kinkferansen.no ... more importantly, please let me know if you'll be there. I'll be travelling solo this time!

12.09.2025 14:12 β€” πŸ‘ 3    πŸ” 1    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

It depends on the circumstance. If I've been working without a break for a few hours, taking a break could be a short walk. If I'm closer to burnout it could be cancelling social engagements/ the gym/ anything I can let go from my diary. I agree it's tough, but necessary.

06.09.2025 09:10 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Thanks, I've followed them :-)

05.09.2025 12:25 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Thank you!

05.09.2025 12:25 β€” πŸ‘ 2    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

I had it made for events where I'm teaching.

05.09.2025 12:25 β€” πŸ‘ 2    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Thanks for the recommendation - followed!

05.09.2025 12:24 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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Blog posts from John Pendal Blog posts from John Pendal - useful if you're not on social media and want to see what he's been posting.

I've just posted a new entry on my blog. This one is about "Early Warnings Signs of Burnout": www.johnpendal.com/blog.html - it's accompanied by a photo of me hitting my elbow walking through a doorway, which is a sure sign that I'm overdoing things.

05.09.2025 12:22 β€” πŸ‘ 7    πŸ” 2    πŸ’¬ 2    πŸ“Œ 1
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Hi everyone - I'm new here. Just finding out what's what before I start posting. If you have any tips for a newbie I'm all ears! :-) Thanks, John

05.09.2025 09:20 β€” πŸ‘ 41    πŸ” 3    πŸ’¬ 11    πŸ“Œ 0

@johnpendal is following 20 prominent accounts