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Dr Dar Hawks

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Healing Hearts. Transforming Words. Building Better Relationships.

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Post image 04.11.2025 17:18 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 4254    ๐Ÿ” 1042    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 100    ๐Ÿ“Œ 42

For millions of Americans, today will bring the chance to be heard.

If there's an election where you live, then you get to send a message on the policies and leadership you believe in - and begin changing the trajectory of this country.

04.11.2025 15:05 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 10593    ๐Ÿ” 2343    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 159    ๐Ÿ“Œ 87
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I would love to hear from you. What did you think about this episode? Do you have any questions? (https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/1614502/open_sms)
What if the person you love has you living on eggshells while telling you itโ€™s all a joke? We open the door on emotional...

30.10.2025 16:30 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Me too as an Asian. Respect is whatโ€™s itโ€™s about. Something those who are up in arms about this apparently know nothing about.

29.10.2025 11:09 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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Did you know trauma can shape our willingness to change? Understanding this can transform your relationships and compassion levels. Join me as we dive deepโ€”link below! #TraumaHealing #RelationshipAwareness #PersonalTransformation

26.10.2025 23:04 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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Healing emotional projections is a practice, not a destination. Each moment of awareness brings more freedom and peace into your relationships. #OngoingPractice

25.10.2025 23:04 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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Silent rules can lead to loud problems if left uncheckedโ€ฆ Time for a check-in on your relationship standardsโ€”listen now, linkโ€™s right there in the first comment! ๐Ÿ”#CheckYourself #RelationshipHelp

24.10.2025 23:04 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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When you recalibrate your own inner state before big conversations, everything shiftsโ€”including how people respond to you! Dive deeper into this practice on todayโ€™s episode: link below! #CalmCommunication #EmotionalBalance

23.10.2025 23:04 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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Want a happier relationship? It starts with YOUโ€”your mindset, your energy, your actions. Learn how to become the catalyst for positive change: podcast link in 1st comment! #SelfGrowth #RelationshipHealing #Connection

22.10.2025 23:04 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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Sometimes just hearing โ€œyour feelings are important to meโ€ can change everything between partners! See why acknowledgment matters so much on Podcast Ep 57โ€”listen via link in comments.

21.10.2025 23:04 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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Is your dominant relationship need love & belonging, power, fun, freedom, or safety/survival? Understanding this can transform how you address hurt feelingsโ€”find out more on the podcast (link below).

20.10.2025 23:04 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

You know what to do!

20.10.2025 08:51 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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Hurt feelings can be an invitation to deeper self-understanding. What message is your discomfort trying to deliver? Listen within. #EmotionalWellness

18.10.2025 23:04 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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If constant happiness feels out of reach, it might be time to look at your expectations differentlyโ€”join me for an honest conversation on Ep61, Part 2 (link below)! #RelationshipReality #ListenNow

17.10.2025 23:04 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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Change isnโ€™t about ultimatums; itโ€™s about showing up differently every day. Let your actions speak louder than words! More insights in my new episodeโ€”link in 1st comment. #MarriageMatters #RelationshipCoaching #ChangeStartsWithYou

16.10.2025 23:04 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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Love means making space for each otherโ€™s needsโ€”even when it feels uncomfortable at first. Get inspired with actionable tips on my latest podcast episode! Listen via link in comments.

15.10.2025 23:04 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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Why do some relationships thrive while others struggle silently? The answer might lie within unspoken expectationsโ€ฆ Discover more on my latest episode (link 1st comment)! ๏ฟฝ'๏ฟฝ๐Ÿ”—#ThrivingTogether

14.10.2025 23:04 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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Did you know hurt feelings are deeply personal and shaped by our unique histories? Youโ€™re not alone if your partner doesnโ€™t always โ€œget it.โ€ Explore ways to bridge that gapโ€”listen to Episode 57! Link in comments.

13.10.2025 23:04 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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Next time you catch yourself feeling defensive, breathe and reflect: โ€œWhat part of me is being touched right now?โ€ Healing starts with honest self-reflection. #HealingJourney

12.10.2025 23:04 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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Pause before responding with anger or silence: What outcome do you want from this conversation? Set yourself up for success with guidance from Podcast Ep 57! Link in comments.

11.10.2025 23:04 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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Need help expressing how you feel without blame? Try โ€œIโ€ statements and see the difference they makeโ€”learn more about healthy communication on Episode 57 (link below).

10.10.2025 23:04 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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When was the last time you talked about your needs with someone close to you? Letโ€™s make those conversations easier togetherโ€”catch my new episode, linked in the first comment! ๐Ÿ—ฃ๏ธโค๏ธ #TalkItOut #PodcastChat

09.10.2025 23:04 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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Remember: growth is always a choiceโ€”and each personโ€™s journey is unique. You can set the stage, but they must walk their own path. Letโ€™s talk about supporting each other through these changes! Podcast link below. #GrowthTogether

08.10.2025 23:04 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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Healing doesnโ€™t mean forgettingโ€”it means finding new ways forward together with grace and resilience โค๏ธ Hear my warmest advice for couples on Episode 57 (link below).

07.10.2025 23:04 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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Creating space between stimulus and response helps us connect with our truth rather than react from old wounds or stories. Practice the pause today! #MindfulLiving

06.10.2025 23:04 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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What do you consider necessary in your relationships? Your unspoken needs matter more than you think! Find out why on my latest episodeโ€”link in the first comment. ๏ฟฝ'๏ฟฝ #RelationshipAdvice #EmotionalIntelligence

05.10.2025 23:04 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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Feeling pressured by societyโ€™s ideal images of marriage? Youโ€™re not alone. Letโ€™s unpack these pressures togetherโ€”Tune in to the new episode! Link in 1st comment. #RelationshipAdvice #Podcast

04.10.2025 23:04 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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Transformation takes timeโ€”but if you stay consistent, even little glimmers of change spark bigger shifts over time. Hear real-life examples and strategies now: link in first comment! #ConsistentChange

03.10.2025 23:04 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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So many of us have hopes and needs that we never express, yet they shape every interaction. Learn why addressing expectations is key to healthier bonds! Tap the link in 1st comment for more. ๏ฟฝ'๏ฟฝ #CommunicationMatters #ListenNow

02.10.2025 23:04 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

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