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AuADHD as fvck. (He/Him). ๐Ÿณ๏ธโ€๐ŸŒˆand๐Ÿณ๏ธโ€โšง๏ธally. Sometimes sweary. Poor Law Student; Life Drawing Model; baby Sex Worker under decrim; violinist. Formerly many things, most recently a nurse for over 25 years.

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On this date, Matthew Shephard died 27 years ago. He was beaten, tortured, and left for dead on fence for being gay. Please keep him and his wonderful mother Judy in your thoughts. And let's all work for a world where such horrific things do not happen to anyone. โค๏ธ๐Ÿณ๏ธโ€๐ŸŒˆ

13.10.2025 00:25 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 29596    ๐Ÿ” 8093    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 805    ๐Ÿ“Œ 425

In answering anecdata with anecdata, I used to work as an ICU nurse in a unit that looked after post op cardiac patients. No, but might skew towards males.

Note that female signs & symptoms of chest pain & AMI are different to โ€œclassicโ€ (ie, male) and there is an ongoing push to recognise this.

13.10.2025 10:04 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

It has to be said, someone is tarnishing Linda Reynoldโ€™s reputation.

I canโ€™t say who, though.

13.10.2025 09:18 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 52    ๐Ÿ” 1    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Explain to me why โ€œconversion therapyโ€ is banned in 28 countries and ABA is not, when they have the same creator (O. Ivar Lovaas) and utilize similar if not identical principles, techniques, and goals (forced assimilation).

13.10.2025 01:26 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 521    ๐Ÿ” 217    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 10    ๐Ÿ“Œ 5

That feeling where you write and delete several posts aboutโ€ฆa thingโ€ฆbut canโ€™t write it properly, so you justโ€ฆdonโ€™t.

13.10.2025 08:10 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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Behind the mask, I am the hidden face of poverty in WA Increasingly in WA, poverty looks like me: a 67-year-old grandmother who once ran a thriving business, owned a home, and raised two sons surrounded by love and opportunity.

www.watoday.com.au/national/wes...

As Anti-Poverty weeks begin in Australia, for those affected by it, itโ€™s a long journey of loss.

Loss of security, home, safety, health and dignity.

The #masks many must wear may fool you. #StructuralInequality and #homelessness is unacceptable. #auspol ๐Ÿ˜” ๐Ÿ 

13.10.2025 07:38 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 51    ๐Ÿ” 16    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 5    ๐Ÿ“Œ 3

#AusVotes2028

13.10.2025 04:41 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 5    ๐Ÿ” 2    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 1

One of the main impediments to accessibility for disabled people is the majority think of accessibility as a bonus disabled people are being given.

12.10.2025 23:46 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 84    ๐Ÿ” 16    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 8    ๐Ÿ“Œ 1

In โ€œthings I didnโ€™t expect todayโ€ฆโ€
โ€ฆat least we know what their Grand Nagus Staves would look like.

12.10.2025 23:34 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Apparently Americans are annoyed that there was booing of their national anthem at the wrestling in Australia at the weekend.

We fought fascism together 80 years ago.

Idle thought, if it offends you that one of your hardiest ally doesnโ€™t like what your anthem represents, maybe go think about that.

12.10.2025 22:50 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 4    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Ping @amellee.bsky.social

12.10.2025 09:10 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Mogh.

(sorry)

12.10.2025 09:09 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

โ€ฆand today Iโ€™ve discovered another former colleague gone.

We all need to know itโ€™s ok, not to be ok.

And we all need to be able to check in on anyone in our workspaces regardless of power and responsibilityโ€ฆ

Fvck. Anaesthetists in particular are not ok. Iโ€™m sure Iโ€™ve lost others I donโ€™t know yet.

12.10.2025 05:08 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 6    ๐Ÿ” 2    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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NSW police wrongly categorise โ€˜significantโ€™ number of incidents as antisemitic Anti-Palestinian graffiti and verbal abuse of pro-Palestine protestors incorrectly recorded as antisemitism in figures government cited to defend restrictions on protests

www.theguardian.com/australia-ne...

11.10.2025 21:11 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 1    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

I missed that part.

And now Iโ€™m confused about whether to feel lucky I did or not.

10.10.2025 21:49 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Due to the proximity of posts I was rather startled to discover Linda Reynolds had won the Nobel Peace Prize.

But alasโ€ฆ

10.10.2025 08:53 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 2    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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Sunset

10.10.2025 08:50 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 5    ๐Ÿ” 1    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

LOL

10.10.2025 07:30 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 2    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Wish it were so. Iโ€™m glad youโ€™re able to avoid it when you need to.

For some of us, though, itโ€™s a terrifying competitive sport that you canโ€™t ever win. You can only lose. (eg โ€œAnd now someone else thinks Iโ€™m weirdโ€)

10.10.2025 02:32 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

He knows that the rate of circumcision in most populations globally has been falling for yearsโ€ฆ

And AFAB donโ€™t have foreskins anyway?

I mean, even if you ignore the *actual* autism facts, thereโ€™s less circumcision practiced than there ever wasโ€ฆ

09.10.2025 18:35 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 2    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Damn I hate that.

You think you get everything right, you leave work and take some homework with you (clinical quiz stuff).

Then you get an email from someone you donโ€™t need to think about.

So now I have my first fvcking sick day because ๐Ÿฅ„๐Ÿฅ„๐Ÿฅ„, and I only started *this* week.

(Grumble grumble)

09.10.2025 18:23 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Is there a new term for โ€œsnow-droppingโ€?

Where you lose the items hanging on the washing line to someone who needs them more than you do?

They were from a local op-shop, so I hope the universe intended for you to have themโ€ฆ

08.10.2025 21:20 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Through LOTR in there and you get Force of Hobbit in a habitโ€ฆ

08.10.2025 10:25 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Hinton Battle, after checking (and 2002)

This AuADHD thing is wild.

08.10.2025 10:16 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Hilton someone his name is.

Will look it upโ€ฆbut surprised/not surprised I know this much after nearly 25 years of not thinking about it.

Now, where are my keys?

08.10.2025 10:11 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

โ€ฆand I have admin to do, but surely that can wait a day or twoโ€ฆbecause I know now a shutdown is loomingโ€ฆitโ€™s just a question of how big itโ€™ll beโ€ฆ3/3

08.10.2025 09:38 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

โ€ฆbut feelings are happening. And Iโ€™m not contacting family because Iโ€™ve worked really hard at setting boundaries and none of them know what that means.

So now Iโ€™m in bed early, wondering if Iโ€™ve made some massive mistakes or if I just need to hold it together for about one more fortnightโ€ฆโ…”

08.10.2025 09:38 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

So. Bit of a public confessional.

Iโ€™ve moved for work, but waiting to *actually* earn. In the meantime, my significant other has returned (currently flying) home to be with cats (always planned this way, will FIFO when organised & resourced).

Butโ€ฆmum died last week. I thought I was over itโ€ฆโ…“

08.10.2025 09:38 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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Holy crap. Trump will make the FCC crucify Jimmy Kimmel for this.

08.10.2025 03:59 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 2281    ๐Ÿ” 862    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 44    ๐Ÿ“Œ 122

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