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@lavenderfluff.bsky.social

all pronouns ok – AuDHD – queer – in my 40s – Hyperfixation: (Thai) Y series, Danmei, Manhwa/Manga, learning Thai – movies, series, books in general – master of monologuing – mostly friendly – English is just my second language – no nazis, no terfs, 🔞

10 Followers  |  27 Following  |  343 Posts  |  Joined: 07.09.2025  |  1.6171

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#HisMan2
„Hi, my roommate..“
I knew it! I knew it! Argh, my heart!
(I try not to get any spoilers about who’s dating whom at the end even though that season is not the newest one..)

31.01.2026 23:12 — 👍 0    🔁 1    💬 0    📌 0

Reading #BossBxtchBaby or watching #HisMan2? Hmm.. ( #HeatedRivalry round 7 is for later at night when all the neighbors are sleeping.. and just me and my headphones are awake..)

31.01.2026 22:22 — 👍 0    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0

Ok timeline cleanser. Show me your teen celebrity crushes in gifs.

31.01.2026 19:56 — 👍 0    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0

#DuangWithYouSeries
First Episode..
They could have called the series „three little monkeys“ as well. I‘m laughing my head off! 😂

31.01.2026 19:20 — 👍 1    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0

#HisMan4 #HisMan2

Everybody is watching His Man 4 so I thought it would be a good idea to start with His Man 2… (couldn‘t find the first season without searching)

31.01.2026 12:16 — 👍 0    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0

Masking at home. When the fight against depression or the anxiety because of the world beeing as it is is too boring or not fun enough. /s

30.01.2026 18:41 — 👍 0    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0
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28.01.2026 12:01 — 👍 47    🔁 16    💬 3    📌 1

#CatForCash #ThaiBL
Episode 2
Khaotung‘s „shhh“ alone was worth the whole episode! 😅

Don‘t know if I like the pacing, but First, Khaotung and Cats are enough for me to watch it. Sometimes it‘s easy to make me happy..

27.01.2026 15:26 — 👍 0    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0

#CatForCash

Starting today, you can watch Cat for Cash not only on YouTube, but also on GagaOoLala!
(I don‘t know in which countries that‘s possible. It applies at least for Germany..)

27.01.2026 08:40 — 👍 0    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0

I started with #LoveIsInTheHeir (Manhwa) today,

I‘m at ch. 17 and it feels like the main topic of the story is „consent“. It‘s not just an abusive father. Nobody besides Jeonsu gives a fuck if Ah-Seong is giving his consent. To anything. Nobody. Such an amount of abusive behaviour. This hurts..

26.01.2026 18:05 — 👍 0    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0
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let’s be primitive horses with mama

24.01.2026 21:34 — 👍 8387    🔁 3081    💬 21    📌 11

#JinxManhwa
2/2
I asked myself what needs to happen for the redemption arc to become plausible. This. Exactly this.

24.01.2026 12:48 — 👍 1    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0

#JinxManhwa
1/2
After chapter 90:

I‘m convinced that Jaekyung will only find inner peace, if he tells Dan about „the incident“ with Heesung. What he did was so utterly unforgivable and without Dan's consent, redemption is only possible if he admits it to Dan.

24.01.2026 12:48 — 👍 1    🔁 0    💬 1    📌 0

(And that‘s important because then I can watch it together with my husband and I‘m really excited at what point in the story it will click in his brain too and he will be part of the mass euphoria like the rest of us.. 🤭)

23.01.2026 23:46 — 👍 0    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0

(Official start in Germany.)

23.01.2026 23:42 — 👍 0    🔁 0    💬 1    📌 0

Night no. 3 with Shane and Ilya.

Challenge: how often can I watch all 6 episodes until the official start on hbo max on Feb 6th?

23.01.2026 23:37 — 👍 0    🔁 0    💬 1    📌 0

At the cottage. Where else..

22.01.2026 20:26 — 👍 1    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0
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It's BS you need to love yourself first.
Even if you hate yourself now, love them fully and fearlessly🏳️‍⚧️🏳️‍🌈

I want a world where someday you'll love yourself
and live proud, just as you are

22.01.2026 18:10 — 👍 3568    🔁 935    💬 49    📌 24
Orange background. Two manhwa covers: on the left „Our sunny days 2. on the right „Roses and Champagne 2“. The first one in German, the second one in English

Orange background. Two manhwa covers: on the left „Our sunny days 2. on the right „Roses and Champagne 2“. The first one in German, the second one in English

Ah, the postman was here..

#OurSunnyDaysManhwa
#RosesAndChampagneManhwa

22.01.2026 18:05 — 👍 1    🔁 0    💬 1    📌 0

#LoveIsAnIllusionSuperstar

Oh, the second episode in a row where I‘m thinking at the end: „Nooo, Siwoo, why?? What are you doing??? 😩“

22.01.2026 17:48 — 👍 0    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0

When I was younger I didn’t know trans men existed. I didn’t know it was an option, and I felt alone and hopeless that I would never have a body that I felt comfortable in.

Hiding the existence of gay and trans people doesn’t make kids straight or cis, it just makes gay and trans kids miserable

15.01.2026 20:29 — 👍 1404    🔁 446    💬 16    📌 8

#HeatedRivalry
As a xennial person who is sitting with over 60% of their identity still in the closet… no words left. It is 6.50 a.m. I‘m through with the episodes and go to sleep. Good night.

22.01.2026 05:51 — 👍 3    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0

(I need the whole night for watching, because I watch almost every episode twice..)

22.01.2026 05:22 — 👍 0    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0

#HeatedRivalry
I read the book I know the story. But in Ep. 5, the monologue in russian made me cry (again). I like the book(s), but the series is a different level. Not better. But… it feels deeper? More intense?
Man, countless rewatches will follow. Last time I was this obsessed was with QAF (US)😅

22.01.2026 05:18 — 👍 2    🔁 0    💬 2    📌 0

#HeatedRivalry

Ep. 4, „All the things she said“.. The perfect song for this szene in the club..
I had my coming out as bi in 2002.. and I had an enormous crush on tATu at that time.. Still love the song.. 😅

22.01.2026 04:07 — 👍 1    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0

I‘m OBSESSED with Shane Hollander!

(And nearly 2 years with Thai BL have ensured that the delulu button for the two actors was pushed instantly. I‘m too old for this shit! 😩)

22.01.2026 03:44 — 👍 3    🔁 0    💬 1    📌 0

Yeah, no, couldn‘t wait until Feb 6th, when #HeatedRivalry will start in Germany.
It‘s 3.40 a.m. and I‘m binge watching all six episodes. The hype is absolutely justified. New obsession has entered the building.. 🫡

22.01.2026 02:43 — 👍 7    🔁 1    💬 2    📌 0

😩

21.01.2026 23:11 — 👍 1    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0

Yeah, I didn‘t like that either. I hope it was just for the first episode because the rest of ep. 1 was really good. (Kudos for the main actors!) Very sexual, very sensual and with a hint of plot for the next episodes.

21.01.2026 19:21 — 👍 3    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0

Do you talk about Peach Lover?

21.01.2026 18:23 — 👍 4    🔁 0    💬 1    📌 0

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