Good on you. Sadly that level of grace if something I struggle to find.
06.10.2025 08:59 โ ๐ 0 ๐ 0 ๐ฌ 0 ๐ 0@uglymugsie.bsky.social
We improve the safety of sex workers in Ireland and reduce abuse and crime, by bringing workers together to share information about potential dangers.
Good on you. Sadly that level of grace if something I struggle to find.
06.10.2025 08:59 โ ๐ 0 ๐ 0 ๐ฌ 0 ๐ 0Well done! You are a better woman than me. I'd have probably come in a dress with pockets to carry my strychnine! ๐ซฃ
06.10.2025 08:32 โ ๐ 0 ๐ 0 ๐ฌ 1 ๐ 0Thank you. I want to get up every morning and at least admire the beauty of cats! ๐
06.10.2025 08:27 โ ๐ 1 ๐ 0 ๐ฌ 1 ๐ 0Admittedly the likeness isn't exact but art is imagination! Also the big one does actually look like my Mr. Whiskers, a big old stray black and white who adopted me in the city in my 20s and we very happily lived together for a few years, before a car ran him over. I'm still looking for the driver ๐ก๏ธ
06.10.2025 08:26 โ ๐ 0 ๐ 0 ๐ฌ 0 ๐ 0I love cats and dogs. However I no longer have any cats because I have dogs and I have found there can be fights when you have both, and I don't want any animal distressed. I have had a total of 4 cats in my lifetime though, and I imagine these are my 4 cats when I look at this painting ๐
06.10.2025 08:21 โ ๐ 1 ๐ 0 ๐ฌ 1 ๐ 0Also OT, but Bohs fans - Would a super antique photo of the official 1914 Bohs team, large and in excellent condition, be worth a few quid? I bought one in a charity shop and was thinking to try to auction it for Gaza if it might be desirable and unusual enough to raise a little money.
06.10.2025 08:13 โ ๐ 1 ๐ 1 ๐ฌ 0 ๐ 0Painting of four black and whit cats
OT but I'm sure you want to see! I bought myself a cat painting this last weekend to reward myself for working so hard this year. Isn't it fabulous? ๐คฉ
06.10.2025 08:01 โ ๐ 5 ๐ 0 ๐ฌ 2 ๐ 0I continue to be massively grateful to all the sex workers continuing to offer constructive feedback on the new Ugly Mugs software. With this level of user engagement I feel excited about how good this software could be made! โบ๏ธ
06.10.2025 07:55 โ ๐ 2 ๐ 0 ๐ฌ 0 ๐ 0Ugly Mugs is currently receiving quite a few emails written in the Irish language. At a glance (my Irish is shamefully poor) I wondered with excitement, is there are revival of the Irish language among sex workers? Alas no! It is just a bunch of international spammers adopting Google Translate.
06.10.2025 07:53 โ ๐ 3 ๐ 0 ๐ฌ 0 ๐ 0Using it as an excuse not to do anything certainly resonates with me though, as never has any anti sex worker person ever offered to do anything to help Ugly Mugs, despite many claiming they care about sex workers.
06.10.2025 07:25 โ ๐ 0 ๐ 0 ๐ฌ 0 ๐ 0Yes it is both those things, but it is more too I feel. Promoting ideas like that sex workers cannot consent and that clients can do ANYTHING they want to sex workers etc, this sends a really damaging and dangerous message to society.
06.10.2025 07:24 โ ๐ 0 ๐ 0 ๐ฌ 0 ๐ 0However much you test new software, once thousands of sex workers are using it, bugs or usability issues will be identified. Thanks to all our members who are working with us so patiently currently to get the new Ugly Mugs software fully bug-free and easy to use ๐ I couldn't do it without you all ๐
05.10.2025 20:00 โ ๐ 2 ๐ 1 ๐ฌ 1 ๐ 0I abhor radical feminist types who say "sex work can never be safe." This is such a huge lie and utter malicious nonsense. How would they feel I wonder, if we said "Radical feminists must learn to accept violence if they do not leave radical feminism." We don't, because we are better than that.
05.10.2025 11:52 โ ๐ 0 ๐ 0 ๐ฌ 1 ๐ 0Sex workers who experience crime are competent adults who can make their own decisions about what if any contact they'd like with police. There isn't one right way to try to heal from the trauma of crime.
05.10.2025 11:48 โ ๐ 1 ๐ 0 ๐ฌ 0 ๐ 0Consent is key. Sex workers should never be forced to engage with police. Due to the long history of police abuses of sex workers, most sex workers don't want police anywhere near them. But there are also sex workers who'd like to have the option of access to a friendly Sex Work Liaison Officer.
05.10.2025 11:44 โ ๐ 1 ๐ 0 ๐ฌ 1 ๐ 0BTW Two things can be true. Yes, sadly most sex workers have very bad experiences of police, and we absolutely desperately need less policing of sex work to reduce the rampant police abuses of sex workers. But also some sex workers would like to engage with police and there is room for that too.
05.10.2025 11:41 โ ๐ 1 ๐ 0 ๐ฌ 1 ๐ 0Not that Sex Work Liaison Officers (SWLO) are unheard of, but I do feel like safety of sex workers is generally a super low priority for police. We are still living in times where it is often accepted that almost all workers deserve safety, but not sex workers.
05.10.2025 11:37 โ ๐ 0 ๐ 0 ๐ฌ 1 ๐ 0All UK police forces appointing journalist safety liaison officers www.peeblesshirenews.com/news/nationa...
05.10.2025 11:33 โ ๐ 0 ๐ 0 ๐ฌ 1 ๐ 0As a Dubliner who dearly loves Belfast, I've noticed the decidedly sneery comments some fellow Dubliners do unfortunately make when I talk of my love of Belfast
04.10.2025 19:41 โ ๐ 3 ๐ 0 ๐ฌ 0 ๐ 0Of course no dog will ever come remotely close to replacing my soul dog (RIP). But I'm taking the "life must go on" attitude following his death and the gun dog needed a home. He howls a lot. You could say for no good reason. Or maybe its a rational reaction to the current state of the world? ๐คทโโ๏ธ
04.10.2025 16:26 โ ๐ 1 ๐ 0 ๐ฌ 0 ๐ 0Apart from he being just fine with fireworks, I'm afraid the gun dog has major anxiety issues, worse dog anxiety case I've ever known, before I took him he was at risk of being put down they were considered so severe. But I have major anxiety issues myself so I welcome him to my club ๐ค
04.10.2025 16:20 โ ๐ 1 ๐ 0 ๐ฌ 1 ๐ 0OT but who doesn't want to hear about my dogs? I now have a rescue dog that used to be a gun dog. He is still quite young, he failed pro gun training (Good on him I say!). Now it is firework season & every time he hears a firework he runs up to me and sits to attention as if reporting for duty ๐ถ
04.10.2025 16:15 โ ๐ 4 ๐ 1 ๐ฌ 1 ๐ 0Thank you. Luckily I'm good at managing really heavy workloads, so long as the type of work is ok for me, and this type is good work. Other types of work that are very psychologically draining for me, I do have to be very careful.
04.10.2025 08:00 โ ๐ 0 ๐ 0 ๐ฌ 0 ๐ 0"Do you support a sex purchase law as a way of tackling pimping, organised crime and sex trafficking?" The actual evidence says sex purchase laws drive sex work more underground and increase all these abuses. But these misleading questions trick people into responding the desired way.
04.10.2025 07:25 โ ๐ 4 ๐ 3 ๐ฌ 0 ๐ 0Some years ago the many Irish public opinion polls on sex purchase paid for by rich lobbyists were ludicrous questions leading people to only be able to respond the way desired. Looks like Scotland copying now - www.ireland-live.ie/news/scotlan...
04.10.2025 07:20 โ ๐ 4 ๐ 1 ๐ฌ 1 ๐ 0For me, when you are working crazy long hours non-stop and you feel like you are still failing, that I can struggle with. But happily that's not the situation right now. I'm happy because I feel like my hard work is doing some good currently ๐
04.10.2025 06:58 โ ๐ 0 ๐ 0 ๐ฌ 0 ๐ 0Yes I've been working so hard on the Ugly Mugs software upgrade for so long I may have gone half mad with sleep deprivation etc! But its a good madness. I feel like I'm getting somewhere and achieving positive outcomes. I do not mind working crazy long hours at all when I feel I'm doing good.
04.10.2025 06:56 โ ๐ 2 ๐ 0 ๐ฌ 2 ๐ 0If any one ever doubts that Irish sex workers are a strong community that deeply care about helping each other stay safe, just look at how many safety warnings sex workers post to Ugly Mugs Ireland - Over 120 thousand active safety alerts this morning. #sexwork #community #safety
04.10.2025 06:48 โ ๐ 4 ๐ 1 ๐ฌ 0 ๐ 0Sex workers in Ireland have always had a strong commitment to community support and helping each other. In the "old days" this didn't include helping by marking email as not spam. But in these modern times, it does, that's a way to help the community!
04.10.2025 06:42 โ ๐ 2 ๐ 0 ๐ฌ 0 ๐ 0Sadly emails being marked as SPAM does result in some of our members not seeing emails from us and not realising we are replying to them. Please keep an eye on your SPAM folder folks. Also, if you get an email from us marked as SPAM, if you can mark it as NOT SPAM with your email provider that helps
04.10.2025 06:40 โ ๐ 1 ๐ 0 ๐ฌ 1 ๐ 0