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@thelifeshewrote.bsky.social

AuDHD • exvie • aspiring indie author (romance) • ex-church staffer • 🩷💜💙 • she/her • https://linktr.ee/thelifeshewrote

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Awe bummed I saw this too late. So glad they put you on! I’ll search around for a clip.

10.08.2025 04:34 — 👍 0    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0

There aren’t many I hear and think “ooh I wanna read that.” If anything I like them as an early warning system. Age gap? Run away. Non-spicy romance? Snooze-ville.😂

10.08.2025 04:29 — 👍 1    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0

I know the right answer is pre-Evita but there’s strong nostalgia for Ray of Light because that was high school for me.🥹

10.08.2025 04:24 — 👍 1    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0

No time to linger and it was the first of many goodbyes. #WritingLifeMonthly #romancewriters #militaryromance #loveatfirstsight #writersofbsky
#romanceauthors

09.08.2025 17:29 — 👍 4    🔁 1    💬 0    📌 0

True story: in youth group my bff was running during a game and somehow came down hard on the metal frame of one of those, broke her tailbone. She had sit on one of those inflatable donuts for weeks.

09.08.2025 04:34 — 👍 2    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0

I can hear the sound of the metal legs scraping when you stack them. *shudder*

09.08.2025 04:28 — 👍 3    🔁 0    💬 2    📌 0

I keep seeing authors say everyone hates their own writing/book at some point and honestly I’ve reached that point. But I think it’s also fear that something I let consume so much of my time wasn’t worth it. Don’t ask me to define that because I have no idea. My audhd brain is just letting me down.

07.08.2025 17:44 — 👍 2    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0

Absolutely fucking tragic. Brass shoe horn??😣 Corporal punishment is probably the one thing I can’t ever look at my parents and be like “well I understand how they got there.” As a parent? No, no I’ll never understand a desire to physically harm your children. Never.

06.08.2025 19:09 — 👍 3    🔁 0    💬 1    📌 0

For the discerning child abuser?🙄
My family just used any wooden spoon that was handy. I do distinctly remember one of my parents breaking one on my brother once, which my parents deny of course because they were just “doing the best they knew how” 😒

06.08.2025 15:34 — 👍 7    🔁 0    💬 1    📌 0

Stop scrolling and post two characters who bring you joy and happiness

06.08.2025 15:27 — 👍 0    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0

As an avid reader of that genre I couldn’t agree with you more. Thank you for offering this perspective.

06.08.2025 15:14 — 👍 1    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0

I knew it reminded me of something.

05.08.2025 20:53 — 👍 1    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0

I’ve set a self-imposed deadline to self publish my first contemporary romance novel by October 1st. I have a completed manuscript that’s in the editing phase. I have room for one more beta reader for anyone who’s an avid spicy romance reader. DMs are open.🌶️😘
#amwriting #indyauthor #romanceauthor

05.08.2025 18:02 — 👍 4    🔁 0    💬 3    📌 0
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CNN is gonna start a riot just for shits and giggles. I hate it here.

09.06.2025 21:26 — 👍 2    🔁 1    💬 0    📌 0

I’m not good at self-promotion but one of the reasons I haven’t been around here much is that I’ve been #writing… like a lot.

What began as a couple short stories has turned into 2 novels and 2 more in the making. Never thought my first finished book would be #contemporaryromance but here we are.

09.06.2025 15:03 — 👍 3    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0

This is the thing.

09.06.2025 14:51 — 👍 2    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0

So real tho. Those of us living here are like well ok he can stay for a minute I guess.🙄

09.06.2025 14:27 — 👍 0    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0

I’m just gonna save this to watch periodically all week…

09.06.2025 14:24 — 👍 1    🔁 0    💬 1    📌 0

I hope today doesn’t live up to last nights scaries.💜

09.06.2025 14:23 — 👍 2    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0

Oh my god. This is my almost 7yo. She’s so incredibly picky and that’s one of the few foods she eats these days. Make it make sense.

09.06.2025 14:10 — 👍 0    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0

There is literally no mystery what the “cause” of Autism is.

It’s primarily basic genetics & runs in families.

#RemoveRFK

17.04.2025 10:33 — 👍 67    🔁 12    💬 3    📌 0

Have you ever spent hours searching the internet for your most favorite pen of all time that is the perfect pen but the original vendor doesn’t sell them anymore and now you’re desperate to find a duplicate? Because I have.

And yeah I’m fun at parties why do you ask?

08.04.2025 19:28 — 👍 3    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0
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Cleaning out old bins in the garage and found some interesting things I’d saved in another life.😬

05.04.2025 17:00 — 👍 5    🔁 0    💬 1    📌 0

I don’t answer my phone but I sure will text you “what’s up” right after you call me

31.03.2025 20:12 — 👍 1123    🔁 118    💬 34    📌 12

I took my daughter to see Snow White. I have thoughts, most of them not good.

30.03.2025 01:54 — 👍 2    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0

I love my kids but other ppls kids generally stress me out. And then I feel like a shit parent for always saying no when they ask to have friends over so then I give in and say yes and then I’m literally watching the clock until they leave. Am I the only one? Am I a bad person? Asking for me.

25.03.2025 20:55 — 👍 4    🔁 0    💬 1    📌 0

Yes that’s it!

24.03.2025 23:57 — 👍 1    🔁 0    💬 1    📌 0

I’m more shocked than maybe I should be with Laura’s involvement. But after reading the article it feels like a proximity to power thing, which is what white women in evangelicalism are very used to doing, after all it was often the only play we had.

24.03.2025 22:30 — 👍 9    🔁 2    💬 0    📌 0

Every time I put some distance between myself and the deconstruction world for a little while…. I come back just to be reminded this shit will always keep happing as long as the sun keeps rising.

24.03.2025 21:25 — 👍 14    🔁 1    💬 0    📌 1

It’s one of those days where everything feels exhausting. Even the smallest things. My brain can’t seem to process anything today.

19.03.2025 20:48 — 👍 5    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0

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