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@oxinabox.bsky.social

Minors DNI Neurodivergent, queer, 30 something, EDS, POTS, hearing impaired. Lives in Australia.πŸ³οΈβ€βš§οΈ she/it. Literally just a girl If you know me IRL and see me horny posting be cool, ok? Or stick to my professional bsky: @oxinabox.net

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Gonna be bidding again my cousins.
JFC
This is gross.

12.12.2025 04:53 β€” πŸ‘ 3    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

tonight the auction opens for all of my grandmother's misc possessions. Apparently I am going to have to bid to try and buy some old family photos. etc.
This is fucked.

Also I just filed to get a copy of her probate and hopefully Will.

12.12.2025 04:45 β€” πŸ‘ 6    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 2    πŸ“Œ 0

I met a trans dude once. Pre-HRT,.no surgery yet, didn't bind etc.
G cups or something stupid.

Had a custom misgender misgender him at work. "Sorry mate, I'm a guy"
customer looked at his chest, looked back and was like "fucking man-boobs, amiright?"

12.12.2025 01:39 β€” πŸ‘ 2    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
Post image

A little bit of fairy doodle before bed. :3 Finding the harmony between my digital style and my traditional style is fun~~
#illustration #blackartist #fairyart #watercolor #marker #sketchbook

11.12.2025 17:16 β€” πŸ‘ 2694    πŸ” 305    πŸ’¬ 42    πŸ“Œ 1

Spain because that's where Facial Team is. And they have a great reputation.
And esp because I have EDS so I a worried about complications. I think recovering in their facilities with like their nurses and stuff, will reduce that chance/impact a lot.
And we don't have anything like that in Australia

12.12.2025 00:49 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

About €38k euro ($AU67k)
after a €4500 discount because I am filling a vacant slot in the schedule.
That's for jaw, brow and hair transplant, plus hospital, scans, their accommodation facility etc.

12.12.2025 00:49 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0
Frames, as described. She looks very happy

Frames, as described. She looks very happy

If I was successfully male socialised I wouldn't be sitting here with D cups and a cute top and skirt combo, would I now?

11.12.2025 04:08 β€” πŸ‘ 33    πŸ” 4    πŸ’¬ 3    πŸ“Œ 0

stationary until proven in motion

11.12.2025 14:21 β€” πŸ‘ 26    πŸ” 4    πŸ’¬ 3    πŸ“Œ 0

So we tried different ways of folding it etc.
And when we found one that works they stitched it into place.

And now some of their love and support is going to be on me on my wedding day.

11.12.2025 15:47 β€” πŸ‘ 9    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Like they were around, and I was getting them and another partner to help me try on wedding stuff. And my veil was just like a single _very_ long piece of fabric with a hair clip. So it run behind.

And they were saying it didn't cover my face, so it would not be able to be pulled back.

11.12.2025 15:47 β€” πŸ‘ 6    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

It's really special to me that one of my other partners sewed the veil that I am wearing to remarry my wife.

11.12.2025 15:47 β€” πŸ‘ 13    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 2    πŸ“Œ 0

I think I know 2 systems that have system wide aphantasia

11.12.2025 15:32 β€” πŸ‘ 3    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

It's happening.
I just paid the deposit, and I have the time off work.
And I am getting a discount for going soon to fill an empty slot in their schedule.

Off to Spain to get my face cut off on the 25th of March

11.12.2025 14:59 β€” πŸ‘ 14    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 3    πŸ“Œ 0

from the creators of "this meeting could have been an email"
we bring you:
"this email could have been you meeting me in the parking lot"

11.12.2025 09:41 β€” πŸ‘ 12    πŸ” 4    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

that's not enough D!
(that sure ain't what she said)

11.12.2025 09:51 β€” πŸ‘ 2    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

from the creators of "this meeting could have been an email"
we bring you:
"this email could have been you meeting me in the parking lot"

11.12.2025 09:41 β€” πŸ‘ 12    πŸ” 4    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

I am not handling good things happening to me.
I am not ok.

11.12.2025 08:26 β€” πŸ‘ 5    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 3    πŸ“Œ 0

hot

11.12.2025 08:26 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

because I hate life

11.12.2025 05:13 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

I am going to an art gallery on Monday!

11.12.2025 04:14 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Concept:
Fruit salad.
But mixed in is icecube sized pieces of jelly and hotdogs cut to be 1 Ince long.

11.12.2025 04:12 β€” πŸ‘ 2    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

Such an important kind of girl

11.12.2025 04:10 β€” πŸ‘ 2    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0
Frames, as described. She looks very happy

Frames, as described. She looks very happy

If I was successfully male socialised I wouldn't be sitting here with D cups and a cute top and skirt combo, would I now?

11.12.2025 04:08 β€” πŸ‘ 33    πŸ” 4    πŸ’¬ 3    πŸ“Œ 0

I am being hyper. And failing to get work done.
Because I am very close to locking in a date for FFS.
But I don't want to coynt my chicken b4 they hatch.

11.12.2025 04:00 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Seriously.
The thing that drives home to me for trans mascs is seeing them do shit which makes me go like "JFC you are such a dumb dude. Fucking men." (Affectionate, mostly)

11.12.2025 03:57 β€” πŸ‘ 4    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Each edition of the dictionary of Newspeak has fewer words than the last. The final edition will have no word for thoughtcrime because that will have been rendered impossible.

10.12.2025 20:26 β€” πŸ‘ 3    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

male socialization is oppressive for cis men too, but it generally comes with benefits beyond not being punished for failure

10.12.2025 19:52 β€” πŸ‘ 27    πŸ” 2    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

validity REVOKED

10.12.2025 20:00 β€” πŸ‘ 12    πŸ” 1    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

Transexual.
Because I changed my sex characteristics.

60+% of the time not transgender, I didn't change my gender. I never changed anything in my identity or perception of self.
No memories of being a guy or even being treated as one.

10.12.2025 19:54 β€” πŸ‘ 23    πŸ” 1    πŸ’¬ 3    πŸ“Œ 0

For casual interactions I am more likely to remember someone's blood work and/or dosing regimen than there name.

10.12.2025 19:57 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

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