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J-Villain. Mom of a preschooler. Bereaved mom. Adoptive mom. Dog mom. Not your mom. #DTWD

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24.02.2025 03:25 β€” πŸ‘ 21    πŸ” 6    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 1

I felt better on SSRIs but not really good or like myself. I've been on Wellbutrin a few years and I love it but I can tell I need to increase my dose (again) and I'm afraid I'm going to reach the max dose and eventually it won't work anymore. πŸ«₯

24.02.2025 03:48 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

is masculinity when you never stop fucking whining about everything? that seems to be the vance demo

20.02.2025 17:04 β€” πŸ‘ 1116    πŸ” 164    πŸ’¬ 33    πŸ“Œ 1

So shitty. Happened to me a few weeks ago when school was canceled for possible/probable ice. πŸ‘ŽπŸΌπŸ‘ŽπŸΌπŸ‘ŽπŸΌ

17.02.2025 15:20 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

The precarity of being the non-waged, caregiving parent in a society that actively penalizes you for doing the most necessary work that allows *everyone else* to function is hard to describe.

13.02.2025 13:11 β€” πŸ‘ 91    πŸ” 16    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

For anyone else in this position, Please never underestimate the usefulness of annoying the shit out of govt officials, organizing meal trains, being the support person who stays home to be jail support during protests etc etc. I know Gwen knows. Lot of y'all still can learn to help.

06.02.2025 17:35 β€” πŸ‘ 1610    πŸ” 509    πŸ’¬ 15    πŸ“Œ 17

Awww yay!!! Congratulations!!!

07.02.2025 23:00 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

YES!!!! I have a December baby and the first 4 years I was like, I just want a simple party, he's little! Completely derailed my Christmas tasks/timeline. This year I said eff it we'll do the trampoline park. Best decision ever. I did a fraction of the work. I'm hiring it out forever.

07.02.2025 22:57 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
Portraits of young Ailvin Ailey (Aftican American young man bare-chested and holding a flower, wearing a v-neck sweater looking into lense, and doing dramatic pose in Breton striped shirt
Carl Van Vechten
b. 1880; Cedar Rapids, IA
d. 1964; New York, NY
Portraits of Alvin Ailey, 1955

Portraits of young Ailvin Ailey (Aftican American young man bare-chested and holding a flower, wearing a v-neck sweater looking into lense, and doing dramatic pose in Breton striped shirt Carl Van Vechten b. 1880; Cedar Rapids, IA d. 1964; New York, NY Portraits of Alvin Ailey, 1955

Portraits of Alvin Ailey taken in 1955 by Carl Van Vechten

#BHM #BlackHistoryMonth

06.02.2025 19:49 β€” πŸ‘ 62    πŸ” 13    πŸ’¬ 3    πŸ“Œ 2

Absolutely hate β€œwe went too far” revisionist history. β€œWe all believed women and it went too far.” No we did not all believe women. I was there

15.01.2025 14:00 β€” πŸ‘ 14510    πŸ” 1780    πŸ’¬ 224    πŸ“Œ 76
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How to help people impacted by the California fires Here is a list of organizations vetted and approved by NBC News.

Former CA First Lady @mariashriver.bsky.social has compiled this vetted list of charities helping those impacted by the Southern California fires including CA Community Fdn, World Food Kitchen, Pasadena Humane Society & more

www.today.com/news/climate...

10.01.2025 12:46 β€” πŸ‘ 8842    πŸ” 4292    πŸ’¬ 115    πŸ“Œ 125
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a cartoon character giving an ok sign with his hand ALT: a cartoon character giving an ok sign with his hand

Today's glorious breakfast:
21 grain bread toasted, topped with butter, cheddar cheese, scrambled egg, everything bagel seasoning
Vanilla bean Greek yogurt, raspberries, granola
Coffee
Peach kombucha

10.01.2025 14:29 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

if shoes emasculate you perhaps the flaw is not the shoes but the masculinity

09.01.2025 13:47 β€” πŸ‘ 248    πŸ” 41    πŸ’¬ 5    πŸ“Œ 5
White sweatshirt with pink lettering that reads "too pretty for a job"

White sweatshirt with pink lettering that reads "too pretty for a job"

Should I send this to my husband Y/N?

09.01.2025 15:40 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Just so pleased that we figured out travel plans for our trip next month, afa which night we'll be in which city, etc.
Also my dog puked up the cream cheese wrapper he ate THREE DAYS AGO. πŸ˜…
Just all the little reliefs tonight πŸ€—

08.01.2025 04:33 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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I used a rit Back to Black kit. This is the denim version. You can totally do it.

07.01.2025 00:27 β€” πŸ‘ 5    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Some of the clothes were a cotton-synthetic blend and they took the dye well

07.01.2025 00:24 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Idk but I re-dyed some faded black clothes back to black a couple years ago and it was relatively easy, very effective. Just have time and attention to devote to the process. I used the bucket method w a 5gal bucket.

07.01.2025 00:23 β€” πŸ‘ 2    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0
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Crab stuffed acorn squash. πŸ€—

07.01.2025 00:11 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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Okay BUT I just saw these adorable floating potatoes yesterday! πŸ₯°
I'm mostly just afraid of my a/c breaking, and also where our homeowners insurance crisis is going, and the deadly brain amoebas (in summer and fall).

05.01.2025 07:30 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 1    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Apple TV+ is free this weekend. My utterly biased suggestion: Little America. Every ep is a short film based on true stories of immigrants to America. Some are funny, some are moving, some are thrilling. We wanted to make a show about immigrants that was, before all else, entertaining.

05.01.2025 00:46 β€” πŸ‘ 7217    πŸ” 817    πŸ’¬ 162    πŸ“Œ 52

Got my 5yo Alexander and the Terrible Horrible No Good Very Bad Day and Alexander Who Used to be Rich Last Sunday. He eschewed them at first but requested Alexander Who Used to be Rich 3 times this week! Written in the 1970s!

05.01.2025 06:19 β€” πŸ‘ 2    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

I enjoy a cosmic crisp every now and again but honeycrisp reigns supreme in my house. Unless I come across an evercrisp!

05.01.2025 06:10 β€” πŸ‘ 2    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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Husband texts me on his way home from hockey: still up?
Me: making banana waffles πŸ’πŸ»β€β™€οΈ

05.01.2025 05:33 β€” πŸ‘ 2    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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21.12.2024 19:15 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

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