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@evenicholls.bsky.social

Queer disabled quilter. She/her. Free Palestine. Neurodivergent? Queer? Joint pain? Go and read up on Ehlers Danlos Syndrome. Yes, even if you're not all that flexible these days. Even if it's not you, it's probably some of your friends.

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Alt Text isn't the space for seo, secret notes, or inside jokes. It's for people to access media and any context or information that that media has.

If we gon make things right, we gotta find ways to make things right that don't leave us behind.

27.11.2025 04:22 β€” πŸ‘ 61    πŸ” 18    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 1

We had takeout earlier because we're both utterly wiped, and it's entirely possibly that as well as my insulin requirements being a bit all over the place right now, I simply underestimated the carbs. I just hope I don't have another hypo in the night.

25.11.2025 23:50 β€” πŸ‘ 3    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

Might be a bit of an exciting night with my blood sugars, too. The ketones have gone down again, at least, and hopefully I've calculated the right correction dose of insulin.

25.11.2025 23:50 β€” πŸ‘ 4    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

I should ask her some time! She's in hospital right now, she's had an unbelievably rough year. But with the baby I think it may be due to being born at 29 weeks.

25.11.2025 23:19 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

You look amazing!

25.11.2025 18:43 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Ooh?

25.11.2025 18:42 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

Okay I'm high, sad and have shit to say, but I state that context in case I fuck it up, since you can't SEE me

I have something to say as a cis/bisexual woman.

Would you fuck a trans...

that's a stupid question. Unless you're a trans person asking if I'd like to fuck YOU personally.

Here's why

25.11.2025 12:17 β€” πŸ‘ 99    πŸ” 17    πŸ’¬ 7    πŸ“Œ 3

I'm OK, the fantastic paramedic reckons it's muscular. Probably set off by having a nasty hypo on Saturday and being crashy since. I've got a list of things to look out for, a printout of my ECG (long QT again, gah), I'll go to hospital if it gets worrying, and call my GP tomorrow.

25.11.2025 16:48 β€” πŸ‘ 10    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 2    πŸ“Œ 0

I can't say I've tried cannibalism for RLS, now you mention it.

25.11.2025 15:31 β€” πŸ‘ 2    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

I got sudden chest pain after going downstairs during a phone call, and I feel rubbish, so I'm waiting for an ambulance. Gah. Hopefully nothing. My heart rate and blood pressure are high.

25.11.2025 15:17 β€” πŸ‘ 2    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 2    πŸ“Œ 1

She's absolutely Deaf! Her daughter is hearing, and her baby is looking like he may be Deaf as well. She has cochlear implants but often turns them off.

25.11.2025 15:02 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

My family Christmases were so miserable I've avoided Christmas ever since. While I don't particularly have food aversions, I got a lot of hassle for being vegetarian and never having the slightest desire to drink alcohol, both of which are more common amongst autistics. It was so miserable.

25.11.2025 08:36 β€” πŸ‘ 3    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Part of my brain is wondering whether it could have sounded like we were unicorn hunting him! And of course I'm loyal to your beautiful long hair, my darling.

25.11.2025 08:34 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0
A tweer from @EliLizzieLizbet song

Embrace imparted syndrome.
Revel in the fact you have fooled everyone.
You are a Trickster Goddess.
You are the Imposter Child for Deception and Clever Ruses.

A tweer from @EliLizzieLizbet song Embrace imparted syndrome. Revel in the fact you have fooled everyone. You are a Trickster Goddess. You are the Imposter Child for Deception and Clever Ruses.

Nope.

22.11.2025 12:55 β€” πŸ‘ 6    πŸ” 3    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

[Aside by me: This ties into a Thing I Always Say when anyone tries the old "You can't tell a joke without offending someone" defence. If that's true, then the power of comedy is to offend the bastards who deserve to be offended - Robin]

23.11.2025 18:03 β€” πŸ‘ 12    πŸ” 2    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

[This one's difficult to paraphrase; blame me if it comes across badly -R]

ABK: All comedy is subjective. I wish it were true that "punching down isn't comedy, it's bullying", but it's clearly very funny to the bully. We should be honest that the reason we don't like it is an ethical reason.

23.11.2025 18:00 β€” πŸ‘ 6    πŸ” 2    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

Seems like a good moment to mention this book, which I'm told is excellent! I recommended it to a friend, who loved it.

bsky.app/profile/mbro...

25.11.2025 08:28 β€” πŸ‘ 6    πŸ” 3    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

People sometimes remember comments like that for decades.

25.11.2025 08:27 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Or for those of us who simply don't want alcohol. I've never fancied it in my life. My family always tried to bully me into drinking, which is even worse since it's before I fled for the hills at eighteen.

Don't grill someone on why they don't want it, either.

25.11.2025 08:25 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

- comment on their special diet
- try to convert them to your special diet
- comment on what medication they need to eat
- give them incorrect info about what's in the food, which can be life or death to some of us

God, I'm glad I didn't become diabetic until after I was estranged from my family.

25.11.2025 08:14 β€” πŸ‘ 3    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Nah, I've never known a situation where those comments are acceptable.

25.11.2025 08:11 β€” πŸ‘ 2    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
ONLY TWO OF THESE THREE PEOPLE ARE LOOKING FOR HOUSING AT THIS TIME

THE PERSON ON THE RIGHT AND THE PERSON LAYING DOWN

THE GORGEOUS DREAM TO THE LEFT IS MELI AND SHE'S NOT A PART OF THIS CURRENT HOUSING PACKAGE

ONLY TWO OF THESE THREE PEOPLE ARE LOOKING FOR HOUSING AT THIS TIME THE PERSON ON THE RIGHT AND THE PERSON LAYING DOWN THE GORGEOUS DREAM TO THE LEFT IS MELI AND SHE'S NOT A PART OF THIS CURRENT HOUSING PACKAGE

hey! here's a new post/thread of some import:

-we've been kicked out of the house we were living in by abusive, toxic housemates

-we need a place to stay aslap

-we are do queer transes in our early 40s w/ 2 indoor cats

-can we stay on your couch?

(more info in thread⬇️)

(1/3)

24.11.2025 23:10 β€” πŸ‘ 79    πŸ” 76    πŸ’¬ 5    πŸ“Œ 5

She works as an interpreter, incidentally. I'm trying to remember whether she identifies as disabled due to other medical conditions. It's all complex, and the language options are often inadequate.

25.11.2025 08:06 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

Oh, god, that really is how they think of us, isn't it.

25.11.2025 08:05 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

I can hear that screm from the other side of the planet!

25.11.2025 00:19 β€” πŸ‘ 8    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

I did it. AND THEY ARE IN THE SHOP!!!!

thebrokencircle.etsy.com/listing/4411...

24.11.2025 19:28 β€” πŸ‘ 341    πŸ” 66    πŸ’¬ 15    πŸ“Œ 9

God, if a friend offered to do some cleaning, and with proper covid mitigations, I'd be thrilled to bits.

24.11.2025 20:48 β€” πŸ‘ 3    πŸ” 2    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

I'm both disabled and neurodivergent, and usually say "visual problems" as that one is complicated. It's not bad enough for visual impairment, but I can't read paper books, that sort of thing.

24.11.2025 20:06 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

I'm still learning about the nuances of D/deaf politics! I recently asked a friend which she uses, and she said, "Eh, both, I'm not really bothered."

24.11.2025 19:58 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

Oh, sorry, it was the "the" I object to. "The disabled" rather than "disabled people".

24.11.2025 19:56 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

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