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Tasha Bovain

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I write to uncover the lies of womanhood. Poems & essays on relationships, body love & becoming. Bird lover. Reformed New Yorker in Charlotte. Subscribe & let’s burn expectations together: https://womanhoodisalie.substack.com

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Bubbling Defiance

Be happy like champagne,
Refusing to go flat,
It bubbles with disdain.

Mimic the unruly,
It shows no dignity,
It bounces unduly.

#poem #poemoftheday #poetry #poems #Photography #bluesky #blueskypoetry #blueskyphoto #defiance

07.10.2025 11:06 — 👍 85    🔁 6    💬 1    📌 0

I didn’t know how to be held
without gathering my things
while he slept.

My bones learned distance
before they learned trust.

At ten, composure was survival—
stacked ribs, toes pointed forward.

Softening was dangerous
for women with wild hearts.

#micropoem #poetry

07.10.2025 21:06 — 👍 1    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0

For the woman whose faith has grown weary, yet she persists:

Don’t rush your becoming.
Savor it like a scoop of ice cream.
Treasure it like a kiss.

Live each day as a prayer,
a communion between your old self,
and the woman you’re becoming.

Treat your journey as holy ground.

#micropoem #poetry

06.10.2025 21:00 — 👍 4    🔁 1    💬 0    📌 0

Everything felt like an accident—
jobs, relationships, even my own body.

My mind committed.
My body resisted.

I felt every mistake stirring
alongside the tumor in my body.

Maybe “accidents” aren’t accidents,
but warnings we silence.

#poetry #micropoem #writersky

05.10.2025 17:23 — 👍 1    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0

The fire made her flesh
and bone.
She felt the singe of fear,
battled the mythical dragon
of self sacrifice.
The flames
became her salvation.

Use your pain to fuel your art.
Let it spark to your becoming.

#poetry #micropoem #creativity #becoming #writingcommunity

04.10.2025 18:59 — 👍 2    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0

I felt a stomping in me,
the drumbeat of ancestors,
trauma shed,
truth released.

I felt a stomping in me,
beliefs unraveling,
body shame breaking skin,
dance floor birthing
freedom within.

What beliefs are you shedding this season so you can rise in 2026?

#poetry #micropoem #writersky

03.10.2025 20:58 — 👍 4    🔁 1    💬 0    📌 0

I play catch with regret,
tossing blame back and forth.

It’s a standoff—
self-doubt intervenes,
forcing me to apologize
for my singleness,
my childlessness,
my emotional nakedness.

But regret doesn’t own me.
I owe it nothing.

What does regret try to make you apologize for?

#poetry

02.10.2025 20:58 — 👍 5    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0

Expectations became
weapons.

Opinions hurled at me
ricocheted,
piercing their own chests.

The bully in the mirror
locked inside
Pandora’s box.

#poetry #100daysofwriting #micropoem #writingcommunity

01.10.2025 10:56 — 👍 8    🔁 2    💬 0    📌 0
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#vss365 #conundrum #poem

01.10.2025 10:09 — 👍 9    🔁 3    💬 0    📌 0

Women in cages
in cul-de-sacs
swallow silence.

Sorrow stains their cheeks.
Masks hide their faces.

I stand behind glass houses,
digging graves,
praying I won’t break.

#100daysofwriting #poetry #micropoem #writingcommunity

30.09.2025 21:42 — 👍 6    🔁 1    💬 0    📌 0

I enter my room
Then stand with a spoon in hand
Blank look on my face

#adhd #haiku

29.09.2025 19:16 — 👍 8    🔁 4    💬 0    📌 0

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I’ll go out dancing
like a falling autumn leaf
spinning in the breeze

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I’ll go out singing
like wind through the trees, taking
my secrets with me

#haiku #senryu

20.09.2025 15:47 — 👍 82    🔁 12    💬 10    📌 1

After so much grief,
the only thing I can survive
is distance.

I’m so used to leaving myself,
deporting my body,
I’m not sure I know
how to stay.

#100daysofwriting #poetry #micropoem #writingcommunity

29.09.2025 21:01 — 👍 3    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0

I miss the version of me who survived months without validation, who didn't crave scraps of admiration like candy.

I hunger for the woman obsessed with her own company, floating in the current of her becoming.

She returns in fragments, legs dangling like an old doll.

Still, she comes.

#poetry

28.09.2025 19:30 — 👍 2    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0

CW: SA

The sight of the hotel
Where you pinned me down
#Panic as memory returns
Every morning heart torn

Same fear when we’re in
A room together, waiting
Neatly knowing that a shoe will drop
Even though they say you’re doing better

It’s the same damn panic attack

#emoetry #freeform #poetry

27.09.2025 11:16 — 👍 17    🔁 3    💬 1    📌 0

The first time I met beauty
was under a man’s gaze—
his hunger crawling up my neck,
his pulse racing,
hands plastered across my face.

Screams pushed through my lungs
to deaf ears,
to a fierce tongue.

Beauty felt like a mystery.
And a curse.

#100daysofwriting #micropoetry #writingcommunity

27.09.2025 20:59 — 👍 3    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0

Your heart split into two: 
before love, after heartbreak. 
Devastation’s parting gift. 
Eyes unmuted. 

No more fairy tales, 
only brave steps 
through love’s fire. 

No one can break your shell 
without becoming a ghost. 

#100daysofwriting #micropoetry #poem

26.09.2025 17:11 — 👍 1    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0

I trace freedom with my fingers. Sticky and warm, I jut out my tongue to taste it. Then men in suits, with perfectly manicured nails, slap it from my hands and tell me I’m not qualified to want beyond what they’ve chosen for me.

#poetry #100daysofwriting #WIP

25.09.2025 21:25 — 👍 3    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0

For within my fears
I only find my own
internal rejections

and within my
internal fears I only find
my externalized rejections

#poetry

25.09.2025 01:08 — 👍 30    🔁 2    💬 0    📌 0

Disapproval followed us,
from kitchen
to church
to work.
Our hands reached for understanding,
but were met with bulldozers of tradition.

#micropoem #poetry #poem #100daysofwriting #writingcommunity #WIP

24.09.2025 10:45 — 👍 3    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0

You were the perfect enemy,
cleverly disguised.

Maybe you were never a man at all—
just the devil dancing with me
under the New York City streetlights.

#poetry #micropoem #100daysofwriting

23.09.2025 21:50 — 👍 3    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0

Now not
The time
For reinvigoration
Quite contraire
But rather for
Retreat and
Letting go
The twilight
Of the season
Gently calling
All creatures
Back to the den
That slumber
Might be
Embraced
And the past
Quietly
Forgotten

#vss365
#reinvigorate
#poetry

22.09.2025 18:00 — 👍 17    🔁 2    💬 1    📌 0

The rage we couldn't name
came out in naked bodies,
disjointed legs.

What becomes of the little girl
trapped inside the grown
woman's body?

#poetry #micropoetry #micropoem #writingcommunity

22.09.2025 21:17 — 👍 1    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0

I don’t crave a body… I crave a bond, where silence is understood, glances are scriptures, and love breathes between the lines…..

21.09.2025 10:34 — 👍 18    🔁 5    💬 0    📌 0

I used to need men
to tell me I was beautiful,
to dig through my unworthiness
and feed me compliments.

Then, I met God
in my reflection—
the only woman
to love me unconditionally.

#poetry #micropoem #poem #writingcommunity #spirituality

21.09.2025 19:39 — 👍 5    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0

Body shame was a family heirloom; curves became curses. In midlife, I hold still beneath my gaze and turn my body into art.

#poetry #micropoem #midlife #memoir

20.09.2025 15:24 — 👍 1    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0

A woman listening in the dark isn't excluded because there's no room at the table. She just hasn't realized she's meant to build her own boardroom.

#WIP #writngcommunity #women #quotes

19.09.2025 17:28 — 👍 1    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0

It took four months of dating
for him to kiss me.

He pressed his lips into mine,
and lit up my ghastly parts.

But an hour into our first date,
my gut clenched,
my eyes swelling when he laughed,
as I watched flags
wave in the distance.

#micropoetry #poem #WIP #prosepoetry

18.09.2025 21:28 — 👍 3    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0

I am learning to seek my own reflection,
to choose self-possession over self-sacrifice.
I fall into my own arms like a distant lover,
stroke the sides of my face
until loneliness loses touch.

#poetry #micropoetry #poets #micropoem

17.09.2025 21:17 — 👍 3    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0
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Everything I Learned About Womanhood is a Lie | Tasha Bovain | Substack A virtual bra-burning ceremony for women ready to set fire to the rulebook. Join me in shattering cultural expectations and unapologetically redefining midlife womanhood on our own terms. Click to rea...

There are many ways a woman leaves her body—
saying yes when she means no,
dimming her glow to be loved.
But we can choose self-possession over sacrifice.
Read more: womanhoodisalie.substack.com

#writingcommunity #substack #writersky

16.09.2025 18:51 — 👍 1    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0

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