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A queer, interracial, polyamorous and neurodivergent family living in the American South, sharing our 15+ years of experience with nonmonogamy, modern parenting and more.

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Itโ€™s hard to keep up with the constant evil and stupidity, which is by design. Itโ€™s meant to wear us down. Fuck it.

31.01.2025 00:44 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 12861    ๐Ÿ” 1641    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 343    ๐Ÿ“Œ 75

@corybooker.com hello I used to run the Wendyโ€™s Twitter account and I am begging you to let me help you with the dems social media strategy, I will literally do it for free at this point

31.01.2025 14:17 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 59657    ๐Ÿ” 8454    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1893    ๐Ÿ“Œ 982

Thread has them all.

31.01.2025 04:46 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 17    ๐Ÿ” 9    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

It is simply not enough for universities to say, โ€œOur grants & research offices are looking into how research will be affected by the latest directive.โ€

University leaders must actively and very publicly make the case for the kind of work many of us do. The silence on this front is deafening.

31.01.2025 03:16 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 12462    ๐Ÿ” 2429    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 4    ๐Ÿ“Œ 183

Over on the other site Elon Musk said that DOGE stopped $50M of condoms from being delivered to Gaza which Trump the repeated several times but it turns out that was the number for all contraceptive support from USAID everywhere on Earth, of which none went to Palestinians.

30.01.2025 19:27 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 22239    ๐Ÿ” 3050    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 738    ๐Ÿ“Œ 165
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Is the HPV Vaccine Safe? Yes, Despite What R.F.K. Jr. Has Said. During his second day of confirmation hearings, Robert F. Kennedy Jr. declined to disavow comments he had made disparaging the vaccine as unsafe.

Yes, the HPV vaccine is safe, despite R.F.K. Jr.'s claims. It's remarkably effective at preventing cancer โ€” roughly 97% effective in preventing cervical cancer, and nearly 100% effective in preventing external genital warts.

30.01.2025 17:40 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 2765    ๐Ÿ” 567    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 64    ๐Ÿ“Œ 31

HUZZAH

30.01.2025 02:59 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 127    ๐Ÿ” 30    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Abortion is healthcare.

D&Cs have saved my life twice.

Thatโ€™s it. Thatโ€™s the post. Iโ€™m here because I had access to life-saving medical care.

29.01.2025 21:28 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 9    ๐Ÿ” 2    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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Yesterday, two friends came over so we could responsibly break shit (we set up an outdoor rage room) and then I made a roasted potato and assorted veggies board.

We find the joys where we can, loves.

29.01.2025 18:44 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 13    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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AOC spot on , this is what leadership looks like.

29.01.2025 00:06 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 35493    ๐Ÿ” 9256    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 738    ๐Ÿ“Œ 376
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CNN's Jim Acosta signing off:

"I will not give in to the lies. I will not give into the fear. Post it on your social media so people can hear from you too."

I will not give in to the lies. I will not give into the fear. Post it on your social media so people can hear from you too.

Pass it on.

28.01.2025 16:23 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 34732    ๐Ÿ” 11455    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 670    ๐Ÿ“Œ 822
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Wow. Caroline Kennedy breaks her silence on RFK Jr in a message to Senators: โ€œWe grew up together. Itโ€™s no surprise that he keeps birds of prey as pets because Bobby himself is a predator. He enjoyed showing off by putting baby chickens & mice in a blender to feed to his hawks.โ€

28.01.2025 19:22 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 62751    ๐Ÿ” 17860    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 2673    ๐Ÿ“Œ 1607

Do you know why a president would do all the most evil and heinous shit via Executive Order? Because his party can't easily make it law. And if they can't make it law, they can't make it last.

Don't let anyone make you feel like this is The End. Do not let them demoralize you. Live to see them die.

29.01.2025 00:01 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 67973    ๐Ÿ” 16357    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 977    ๐Ÿ“Œ 787

Polyam version of "Haaaaave you met Ted?" called "Are You My Meta?"

29.01.2025 02:54 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 2    ๐Ÿ” 1    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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TL/DR please donโ€™t join ineffective efforts. Please lean on community building. Community support and mutual aid are things we can all do, even small efforts there can make a big difference.

28.01.2025 20:19 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 7    ๐Ÿ” 2    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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Mississippi DA backs 'bounty hunter' program to root out illegal migrants House Bill 1484 would form the Mississippi Illegal Alien Certified Bounty Hunter Program.

thenationaldesk.com/news/america...

Hey, yโ€™all - we can be outraged about multiple things at once yes, but Iโ€™m tired of my feed being nothing but outrage over target.

Focus. This is a game of smoke and mirrors.

Meanwhile, you should tell every immigrant you know in the state of MS to leave.

28.01.2025 03:49 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 3    ๐Ÿ” 1    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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Mississippi DA backs 'bounty hunter' program to root out illegal migrants House Bill 1484 would form the Mississippi Illegal Alien Certified Bounty Hunter Program.

thenationaldesk.com/news/america...

Hey, yโ€™all - we can be outraged about multiple things at once yes, but Iโ€™m tired of my feed being nothing but outrage over target.

Focus. This is a game of smoke and mirrors.

Meanwhile, you should tell every immigrant you know in the state of MS to leave.

28.01.2025 03:49 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 3    ๐Ÿ” 1    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

This. This is not the path Woman want but itโ€™s the fight we have.

27.01.2025 17:56 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 3    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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You do NOT have to speak to ICE without a JUDICIAL warrant. If they attempt to enter your home or your workplace, ask for a warrant. Sometimes they will try to use other, non qualifying paperwork. They need a warrant.

(2/3)

22.01.2025 02:19 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 8440    ๐Ÿ” 3271    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 90    ๐Ÿ“Œ 81

Might fuck around and show my friends and homies some extra grace today because everything is awful and we need to be radically loving one another

27.01.2025 16:45 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 6    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Part of this begins with deconstructing the nuclear family, which weโ€™re all about ๐Ÿ™‚

27.01.2025 04:05 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Ya know, I donโ€™t think Iโ€™m who you meant to tag, but hereโ€™s my two cents anyway: I think we need to lean really hard on one another and build actual legitimate community with one another for starters. This will give us a network for organizing and support.

27.01.2025 04:05 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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๐Ÿ‘‡๐Ÿค”โ˜ฎ๏ธ๐Ÿ’™๐ŸŒŠ๐Ÿ•โ€๐Ÿฆบ

27.01.2025 00:43 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 100    ๐Ÿ” 43    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 3    ๐Ÿ“Œ 5

Now this is some performance art.

26.01.2025 19:20 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 4    ๐Ÿ” 2    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

TikTok had real community and itโ€™s a shame that it became a political pawn and blew that community up. But I am hopeful that a similar feeling of connection can be found here.

But please, BlueSky ๐Ÿ™๐Ÿป we need an edit button. (4/4)

26.01.2025 18:13 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 4    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

I think time will tell if the era of Facebook and Meta did more harm than good. While I did enjoy some connections I made there, ultimately - I think it did me more harm than anything.

I really canโ€™t say the same of TikTok, which was instrumental in my coming-out-as-polyam journey. (3/4)

26.01.2025 18:13 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 2    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Anyway the time has never been better to jump off those sinking ships. Itโ€™s lovely not seeing mountains of hate speech every time I pick up my phone. Itโ€™s heartening to see the community here, and see some people doing really good work to combat the rising tide of fascism. (2/4)

26.01.2025 18:13 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

I deleted our Meta pages and TikTok because of *gestures broadly* and all Iโ€™ve gotten wasโ€ฆ

More time back.
More genuine connection messaging with my close friends.
More peace of mind knowing they arenโ€™t getting my data.
Money in my pocket because fewer targeted ads. (1/4)

26.01.2025 18:13 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 13    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

This is the realest.

26.01.2025 16:12 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

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