singeli

thank you!! it’s been so nice to get away from All That, mentally and physically, and it sucks to be returning to this sort of asinine (but very real and very threatening) frenzy

flying home today and my anxiety is through the roof

if not for cat why perfect size

I do seating charts professionally at my day job where I’m eating six kinds of contraindicated factors in placement and by comparison drafting the seating chart for our wedding has been a total breeze

like girl sign me up!!!

instead she just finishes lapping up allll the food and then makes her, “I Am The Most Pathetic And Tragical Baby In The Entire World” cries

we’ve had to toughen up bc we tried just letting her claws grow and it was deeply unpleasant for everyone and our furniture

Oh that’s not all they do, she also gets an insane amount of churu and shredded chicken out of the deal 😂 which you’d THINK would make her more compliant since she’s so food-motivated, but no

I’m sorry your little guy had trauma but glad that he’s a willing participant in the necessary care, that sounds like the best that could be hoped for under the circumstances! he’s such a cute little fluff ball 🥹

we take her to the vet every month to get her claws trimmed bc she loves to knead and is sad if we don’t let her cuddle… but she has sharp little murderpaws that are a danger to everyone. unfortunately she hates the carrier, traveling, and the vet so it’s a “lesser of two evils” situation.

my kingdom for making my cat understand this lol

[in the hobbit movies writers room] no no we’re absolutely not making this movie good—but hear me out: what if thorin was hot. like really hot. like you’d get third degree burns on your vagina before you got tired of taking his ass to town hot. and he’s having a yaoi fueled shakesperean downfall

love this for the raw data 💞

forreal

Any chance it slipped behind or under something? Or perhaps Gingko played with it and slid under something?

not to get into the 📀🐎 but. kinkmemes are such fertile (heh) ground for fandom. loved being part of one in 2020-21.

These shelves were my one splurge when I bought my current home. Through a random fluke of events, I ended up getting 4 for the price of 3. They might not be ideal if what you want is to maximize housing for as many MM and trade paperbacks as possible, tho.

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We’ve had good luck at secondhand and consignment stores.

Our ikea KALLAX has been useful for our collection of picture books and graphics novels.

[flexes hands] let’s go

Oh yessss

Which one 👀

Love this for you both

so much fun!!

So much improvement!

the Law of Tonnage lol

SOMEbody is sleeping in MY bed 😹

finally bought three different pairs of shoes to try as options for my wedding and am reminding myself as I look at the charges that two of these pairs are being returned and refunded, and all of them together are still less than what many people would spend on a single pair of shoes

I think also in this case, what makes it additionally off-putting is that the central antagonistic quality (cruel, social climber, disdains anyone perceived to be “below” her, only cares abt her immediate family) directly contradicts the story the author wants to tell

This is such an astute way of putting it!

I always thought my grandmother lived a fairly buttoned up life and then when I lived with her in my 20s I found out she was sneaking out with all the boys in high school and nursing school and used to run the numbers?! the hidden lore is WILD

Yeah I saw this one (advertised to me on IG I guess?) and it seemed so wildly out of character for Caroline Bingley I just… couldn’t