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Mary Oliver -

โ€œWhen you read the poem thoughtfully, you are a scholar. When you read the poem thoughtfully and feelingly, you are a scholar and a participant.โ€

26.10.2025 17:33 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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WHAT ARE YOU TALKING ABOUT?????

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Congrats :) sorry Iโ€™m late to the party. Iโ€™m hardly on anymore. What a great accomplishment. The title is classic BST ;)

08.10.2025 04:29 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 2    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

On His Seventy-fifth Birthday by

Walter Savage Landor

I strove with none; for none was worth my strife,
Nature I loved, and next to Nature, Art;
I warmed both hands before the fire of life,
It sinks, and I am ready to depart.

06.10.2025 05:36 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

farther and farther away from such feeling? That instead life feels a series of regrets. A life unlived, as Adam Phillips and Ogden put it, and the possibility of a life not yet lived, as I believed Mary Oliver once put it.

30.09.2025 00:33 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

limit our awareness to the potential impact of the seemingly non-choice we were making. What made it so that, for my professors and others, life feels congruent to their values, to who they feel they are and what theyโ€™d like to be? And what made it so that, for some of us, we seem to be

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They have their own limitations and shortcomings and skeletons. But, I do wonder about what made it so they made their choices and stayed on the paths that they wanted to be on. In converse, what made it so that some of us compromise, give up our choices, not realizing we had done so,

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are the difficulties with choosing. We know Dostoevsky had written about the temptation to abdicate our freedom. That it is too frightening. Too heavy. Freud, too, spoke of the path of least resistance and ways we compromise.

Now, as I get older, I realize that my professors too are human

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positivity kind that seem to run amok. They have their own share of demons (or, if perhaps more appropriately, daimons)

I think of them often when I reflect on my life. I think about existentialism and its wonderful emphasis on the freedom to choose. Somewhere there, too,

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I have two professors that have been beloved throughout the years

They have their differences but they seem to enjoy living (or rather, being alive). They seem to be enjoy their lives. At least from the outside

Since you donโ€™t know them, let me assume that they are not the toxic or naive

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Mary Oliver -

โ€œListen,
the heart-shackles are not, as you think,
death, illness, pain,
unrequited hope, not loneliness, but

lassitude, rue, vainglory, fear, anxiety,
selfishness.โ€

28.09.2025 07:08 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 2    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

โ€œThe struggle itself toward the heights is enough to fill a manโ€™s heart. One must imagine Sisyphus happy.โ€

28.09.2025 04:17 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 2    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

โ€œAll Sisyphusโ€™ silent joy is contained therein. His fate belongs to him. His rock is his thing.โ€

โ€œOne always finds oneโ€™s burden again. But Sisyphus teaches the higher fidelity that negates the gods and raises rocks.โ€

28.09.2025 04:17 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 2    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

โ€œIt teaches that all is not, has not been, exhausted. It drives out of this world a god who had come into it with dissatisfaction and a preference for futile sufferings. It makes of fate a human matter, which must be settled among men.โ€

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โ€œIt would be a mistake to say that happiness necessarily springs from the absurd discovery. It happens as well that the feeling of the absurd springs from happiness. โ€œI conclude that all is well,โ€ says Oedipus, and that remark is sacred. It echoes in the wild and limited universe of man.โ€

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โ€œThe lucidity that was to constitute his torture at the same time crowns his victory. There is no fate that cannot be surmounted by scorn.โ€

โ€œAncient wisdom confirms modern heroism.โ€

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โ€œthat is the hour of consciousness. At each of those moments when he leaves the heights and gradually sinks toward the lairs of the gods, he is superior to his fate. He is stronger than his rock.โ€

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Camus - Myth of Sisyphus

โ€œIt is during that return, that pause, that Sisyphus interests meโ€ฆI see that man going back down with a heavy yet measured step toward the torment of which he will never know the end. That hour like a breathing-space which returns as surely as his suffering,

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tylenol.com TYLENOL We stand with science, and we stand with you. For generations, families have trusted TYLENOLยฎ when it matters most. Why? Because Tylenol is one of the most studied medications in history. The facts remain unchanged: over a decade of rigorous research, endorsed by leading medical professionals, confirm there is no credible evidence linking acetaminophen to autism. Acetaminophen is used worldwide as a first line of defense for pain relief and fever reduction, at the recommendation of independent public health and leading medical professionals and in accordance with the product label. High fevers and pain are widely recognized as potential risks to a pregnancy if left untreated, especially in the first trimester. Remember to talk to your doctor. We prioritize science as the core of how we provide care, and that will never change.

A pop up box on Tylenol dot com

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Give me the wrong cover, I will demand a refund

๐Ÿคฃ

19.09.2025 00:47 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 2    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

I like to think of myself as someone who knows depth, who appreciates good writing and literature. Who is, you know, deeeeeep

But damn I get fucking disappointed when a book doesnโ€™t come in the latest cover that I was expecting ๐Ÿ˜…

18.09.2025 23:58 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 3    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

!!!!!! Love it

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Itโ€™s a weird feeling of listening to music of a past age/generation, evoking memories of younger selves, then looking across time, only to realize that certain artists have passed, and some groups have ceased to exist where they just werenโ€™t meant to last, regardless of how talented.

16.09.2025 04:36 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 3    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

I fucked up a recipe that only took 90 secs becauseโ€ฆI forgot to add water. Fucking A

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I love books

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to train yourself for a consistent level of energy and effort.

Condition yourself to be relentless.โ€

14.09.2025 23:49 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

short bursts. Some people can procrastinate and then summon superhuman focus โ€œwhen it countsโ€ because of a deadline. But I believe it always โ€œcounts.โ€

Itโ€™s much better - in four quarters and the across the long run of your career -

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Steph Curry

โ€œThere will always be stronger, faster guys out there who try to make my life miserable. But I try to counter that with never staying in the same spot for more than a secondโ€ฆ

The point of conditioning is that it allows you to do whatever your best thing is all the time, not just in

14.09.2025 23:49 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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Steph Curry

You can be so busy trying to absorb lessons early in your career that you donโ€™t realize it when you start to meet the momentโ€ฆYouโ€™re no longer struggling for answers and hoping for the best. Now you believe. You are supposed to be successful.

14.09.2025 23:46 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 3    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

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