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Querying Writer. Queer. AuDHD. Vegan. Published author. Screencraft TV Pilot QF 2022. AFF 2nd Rounder 2019. Tea aficionado.

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Tonight's dinner and #DoctorWho with Mom is A Good Man Goes to War and I can't wait to see Mom's reaction to, "Where. Is. My. Wife." because, like the rest of us, she loves Rory.

13.02.2026 23:16 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

UGH

11.02.2026 01:48 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Yes, absolutely!

29.01.2026 01:05 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Same ❀️

28.01.2026 17:47 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

It's not much, but I canceled my subscriptions on amazon and went direct and plan to let my amazon prime run out. No more funding evil, even if it's only $50/month.

26.01.2026 18:01 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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Substack’s β€œNazi problem” won’t go away after push notification apology Substack may be legitimizing neo-Nazis as "thought leaders," researcher warns.
24.01.2026 12:33 β€” πŸ‘ 33    πŸ” 7    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 3

Oh look! It's me! heh.

24.01.2026 15:38 β€” πŸ‘ 2    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Yes. Absolutely.

24.01.2026 15:35 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Agreed.

24.01.2026 15:34 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Zero writing accomplished, but it was a weird work week and I'm getting ready to move for next weekend. On the plus side, I'll be snowed in while not at home tomorrow and will have my laptop, so I'm going to get some writing done then! Maybe we should have a snow-a-thon?

24.01.2026 15:33 β€” πŸ‘ 3    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0
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What's with the scary-looking green gas ICE is using?

You've seen it in videos from Minneapolis. We talked to an expert to find out more.

24.01.2026 15:00 β€” πŸ‘ 167    πŸ” 94    πŸ’¬ 26    πŸ“Œ 8
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a man wearing a black leather jacket is smiling in front of a door . ALT: a man wearing a black leather jacket is smiling in front of a door .

Mom's opinion about The Impossible Astronaut, which we watched last night: I just don't like the stories as much as before." I then explained to her about the different showrunners and how that influences the program. She's going to keep watching, but it's a little grudging at this point imo.

24.01.2026 15:13 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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a man in a suit and tie is holding a vacuum cleaner and screaming . Alt: David Tennant as the Doctor on the tv show Doctor Who wearing a suit and tie holding a vacuum cleaner and screaming "Yeah!"

After literal decades, I finally snared my 81yo mom into watching #DoctorWho last summer. We watch Fridays & Big Bang was last week. She likes Matt Smith, but David Tennant is definitely *her* Doctor. Though she does remember liking β€œthat Doctor you watched as a kid.” Tom Baker, no surprise there. 😁

23.01.2026 01:45 β€” πŸ‘ 2    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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Hero of 2025: Alice Wong The disability justice icon's last message: "Don’t let the bastards grind you down."

β€œI’m honored to be your ancestor and believe that disabled oracles like us will light the way to the future. Don’t let the bastards grind you down. I love you all.”

02.01.2026 01:00 β€” πŸ‘ 282    πŸ” 56    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Samesies!

01.01.2026 17:50 β€” πŸ‘ 2    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Not gonna find that needle again until I step on it barefoot heh.

24.12.2025 22:32 β€” πŸ‘ 2    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Old hoop and new needles = getting stabbed two ways. #CrossStitch #crafting

24.12.2025 17:37 β€” πŸ‘ 4    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

IMPORTANT! #writing #artists #readers

23.12.2025 15:17 β€” πŸ‘ 5    πŸ” 2    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Out of curiosity… my epic #fantasy has 2 plotlines that don’t happen simultaneously but meet up at the end.
Do you prefer to read:
1: Large sections w/chaps of each timeline grouped
2: Ind chaps of timelines interspersed when the larger plotline seems to have breaks
Thanks!
#WriterProblems #plotting

23.12.2025 12:52 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Almost everyone I know is sick right now.

They’ve got a β€œbad flu” or a β€œnasty stomach bug”.

Almost no one will utter the word Covid.

It’s not too late to start wearing a mask.

It’s a great way to practice community care while keeping yourself healthy.

Ideally an N95 or better!

07.12.2025 05:39 β€” πŸ‘ 480    πŸ” 137    πŸ’¬ 23    πŸ“Œ 6
26.11.2025 12:37 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

JFC on a pogo stick.

24.11.2025 04:04 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
A fight scene excerpt from an epic fantasy novel in progress of being written...
It was only because her gaze was flickering forward that she spotted a sword shadow in motion. Tessa pulled her sword free in a single movement, bringing it up to clash against a broadsword on its way to lodge in Boots’s skull. The screech of metal on metal as she threw all her weight against the other weapon sent a cascade of sparks into the dark. 
Boots, bless her, immediately flung forward and rolled out of danger. 
Tessa found herself facing a woman in matching Woquan armor. Why the hell are they so far inside Corschell’s borders?
β€œApostate!” the woman hissed, sword thrusting straight at her.
That explains that. Tessa spared no further thought as she blocked and spun out of the way. The quick circle showed Krin and Charal Lys dealing with two Woquan soldiers apiece as three more rushed from the darkness at Tessa. 
Fuck.
A lifetime of training and war saved her. Her sword cut the air with such strength it whined with pain. She blocked and parried, blocked and thrust. Her feet remained in constant movement as she darted back and forth, weaving to present as brief a target as possible. Tessa didn’t feel the weight of her armor nor the small cuts her adversaries managed to inflict the few times they breached her defenses. Not at first.

A fight scene excerpt from an epic fantasy novel in progress of being written... It was only because her gaze was flickering forward that she spotted a sword shadow in motion. Tessa pulled her sword free in a single movement, bringing it up to clash against a broadsword on its way to lodge in Boots’s skull. The screech of metal on metal as she threw all her weight against the other weapon sent a cascade of sparks into the dark. Boots, bless her, immediately flung forward and rolled out of danger. Tessa found herself facing a woman in matching Woquan armor. Why the hell are they so far inside Corschell’s borders? β€œApostate!” the woman hissed, sword thrusting straight at her. That explains that. Tessa spared no further thought as she blocked and spun out of the way. The quick circle showed Krin and Charal Lys dealing with two Woquan soldiers apiece as three more rushed from the darkness at Tessa. Fuck. A lifetime of training and war saved her. Her sword cut the air with such strength it whined with pain. She blocked and parried, blocked and thrust. Her feet remained in constant movement as she darted back and forth, weaving to present as brief a target as possible. Tessa didn’t feel the weight of her armor nor the small cuts her adversaries managed to inflict the few times they breached her defenses. Not at first.

#AmWriting! Writing! Writing! YAY! Finally. #Fantasy

22.11.2025 16:57 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Wrote ~250 words tonight & that's a real win. I haven't had writer's block, but the world around me (macro & micro) has been overwhelming, exhausting, and I've had zero spoons or executive function to do any writing. Here's hoping I'm getting through it even just a little. Not writing sucks.

19.11.2025 03:40 β€” πŸ‘ 3    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Opened up my #EpicFantasy novel for the 1st time in 5months. I'm just rereading, but it's more than I've been able to attempt on *anything* in ~3 mos so I'm counting it as a win. Also chuckling at the line: Wry, he thought, At least they’re dressed for a ball, not a beheading. #AmWriting #NoContext

19.11.2025 02:35 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Things I expected to encounter on the road when I moved back to MA: bad weather, traffic, potholes big enough to damage a tire.
Things I did *not* expect to encounter on the road when I moved back to MA: flocks of wild turkeys...
#random #nature

18.11.2025 03:17 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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Defend Kat Against Unjust Charges Show your support with a contribution.

As you can tell, I'm standing up to this administration despite the charges against me.

But I can't do it alone. A lot of people running for office say this, but it's true that your support is more important now than ever:

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14.11.2025 22:30 β€” πŸ‘ 378    πŸ” 79    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 3
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Each month, we do this cool thing on QueerSciFi.com to support indie writers. We share 4 books with our readers for free, and add those readers (with permission) to the author lists.

Grab 'em here (sent out around the 3rd of next month):

queerscifi.com/join-our-mai...

#giveaway #freebooks

08.11.2025 19:11 β€” πŸ‘ 4    πŸ” 4    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Not good.

06.11.2025 15:13 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Is it just me, or have the spam/phishing calls been out of control since the shutdown? It's like because no one's watching, they're just, "Let 'er rip!" I literally got 8 vms today from robocallers. And I've been getting that amount daily for at least two weeks now.

30.10.2025 22:05 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

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